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  • Relationship Status
    couple
  • Location
    Raleigh NC
  • Swinging Experience
    10 years

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  • SLS Name
    carolina_couple_2006
  • Favorite Club(s)
    Carolina Friends, PDC, ECC, YKW

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  1. Further info regarding size variations: A Completely Unofficial SIZE FAQ
  2. after intital email contact on SLS we like sharing face pics in the 'display image' part of Yahoo messenger when both of us are at the puter and both of them are at theirs. That way its more like meeting a couple at a club where its easier to establish mutual attraction. Too often online, its the husband who is opening up the emails and screening without the wife's knowledge and/or presence at the puter. Neither or us like sending face pics as email attachments to persons unknown. There are a lot of online pseudo swingers who will waste your time.
  3. a lot of couples dont even seek on the "swinger sites" anymore because they simply dont have the time to both sit down at the puter and try to sort out who is real and who is not. The site administrators claim that pics can't be stolen, but anybody with the SnagIt software can grab any pic and use it.
  4. People who flaunt their wealth in their profiles. Ex. multiple pictures of a pick-up truck with a christian fish sticker on the windshield parked in a driveway of a oversized McMansion.
  5. Seems as though the voyeurs and exhibitionists outnumber real swingers at some events we have been to lately.
  6. he does, we dont consider online communications with others 'swinging'. Playtime is at the on prems.
  7. our first group sex TOGETHER was a threesome we had with a former girlfriend of mine many moons ago. By no means did we wake up the next day and say "wow, we are in the lifestyle, now!!" LOL Mr. Sun
  8. visiting new clubs each year where we seek a variety of new partners. We dont have sex with our friends...In our ten years swinging we have seen many unintended consequences of the 'friends first' approach among couples we have seen vanish from the local swinger community. Because of very busy careers and family, we dont have a lot of time for endless online preliminaries, sizing people up thru viewing pics, messaging back and forth with a couple trying to determine if there is chemistry, or what some call premeditated swinging. We like to go to a club every other month or so and keep it spontaneous and fun.....
  9. we also are frustrated with the online version of swinging. Trying to arrange a meet on the internet is so time consuming, compared to just going to an on prem for 4-5 hours every 4-6 weeks. We have had much much more luck swinging at the clubs. The pay sites exagerate the odds of you meeting someone from their site. With all of the photoshopped and stolen pics on profiles and difficulty determining if there is indeed a willing wife, the search on the pay sites becomes a huge guessing game/wild goose chase.
  10. Playful Swingers is fairly popular around here. They tend to cater to the young and beautiful though.
  11. we participated in a 30 couple watch and be watched 'orgy' in the attic at Fun4Two in Holland in 1999. It was so different than any of the group play situations we have been involved in here in the US in that there wasnt a lot of swapping (even soft) going on; just couples playing with each other in front of others. They other interesting thing about it was that it started early, about 11pm the attic was full.
  12. we actually had a couple4couple voice chat on Yahoo the other night. Its rare to find such a couple online these days with all of the deception and lies going on in cyberspace.
  13. I ran into a co-worker at the second swinger party we ever went to. We just laughed it off, our little secret...... Ms. Sun
  14. Certifications, or as some web sites call them, validations, just add more complexity to the online search for compatible couples. If a couple isn't willing to switch over to the telephone early on then we don't devote any more time to trying to get to know them. The level of distrust on some of the pay web sites is astounding. We plan to drop our sub to the one pay site we are on.
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