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untamedhawk

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  1. I've always called it Coke - and those that don't around here give a funny look as if I was asking for the powder :-D
  2. Take care of you first, if his fantasies are becoming more of an actor's nightmare with you caught on the film.... I'd ask for better looking co-stars. As far as the secrets - BCinIN covered that perfectly! And the voyeurism could bring out fear of black male on the part of the unknowing once they discover this has happened. Hawk
  3. It's something I've just started doing, and the funny thing is - even after doing my thing after she's done hers...... I don't taste anything different. It's all good lol Hawk
  4. Maria, You're a true Gem! Thank you for that response sweetie. Hawk
  5. I've tried that, but after she read some of what was posted here she started crying. Now she wants nothing to do with the site. I guess she feels as if fingers are being pointed, and I've tried to explain that most of the fault iia due to the person that started the topic
  6. Hello again everyone, To be fair... I wasn't upset with anyone (even if it sounded that way). I appreciate the new replies as well, the others left me hanging. We're talking about this in the way that intuition897 explained it fully.. I couldn't figure out why my husband thought so little of me that he'd want me to fuck some other guy I didn't even know. What the hell was I, a toy or something? Of course, this was convenient for me anyway, because the idea of getting to have sex with someone else was pretty exciting. She has explained to me that it's something she thought I wanted her to do* I DO! But... in the same sense, I want her to have fun while enjoying what she is doing. I don't want her to fuck just anybody, so I had her looking at men as well... she asked the guy if he would be interested NOT BECAUSE SHE WANTED TO CHEAT....lol but because I had given her something exciting - yet odd to think about. She is a very sexy woman, and the first that I've ever thought of going this far with. She needs words of encouragement, and understanding SHE LOVES ME! She wants this, and doesn't, then does again. So if we can put aside our red flags, and go with the knowledge that we have talked it over..... I didn't just pop in for advice on 'What she is doing', but more like 'What can I tell her to make her understand what I'm thinking. Again Intuition897 has done well VERY WELL!! with: The moral of this story is: if you love her, don't let your girlfriend do this to herself. Be 100% sure she understands what it is you are giving to her (not asking of her, GIVING to her) and be sure she doesn't feel she's doing anything that feels cheapening or degrading to her. And let her know that it's a together kind of activity, where you and she are partners. That means there's no need for and no excuse for sneaking around, lying, hiding things, etc. She needs to understand how important 2-way trust is in this new venture. And this is important: Make her understand your kink. You need to sit down with her and talk until she understands WHY swinging is a turn on for you. What do you get out of it? She really doesn't understand this but it is SO important. You'll also delve into questions like, How do you feel about me? Do you love me? Respect me? What does sexual monogamy mean to you? What do you think it means when I ask you to swing? And what does swinging mean to you? What are you most afraid of? Do you trust me? Hawk
  7. Would you mind explaining why it's a double standard? The board is full of good advice on bad situations, a woman asks about it & gets go get fucked (literally).. I'm asking for feedback and noone wants her to have it? I'm lost.... it's not as if we are children - quite the opposite, early 40's. Do either of you have a good experience concerning this issue? If not, why are you still on a swinger's board?
  8. Well BCinIN it appears that you read into things too much - I'm not wanting to appear a little brash here, but of course I'll be joining, of course she's nervous, and of course she's checking it all out. It appears that you're down on (no pun) this lifestyle. I'm looking for any feedback that may be helpful in any case, what I'm not looking for is the finger pointing at her with "Slut" insinuations.... we're new, and I may not have explained this as well as others may have. So, any further comments - please pose them as if you were an understanding individual to our situation.
  9. We discussed it further, and concluded the same as you. She's just anxious & undecided (at least verbally), she's admitted to wanting to have sex with another man while I'm there... yet scared to death I'll ask for FMF entertainment. We've got somewhat of an escapade planned this weekend if she chooses. I like discussing it with her, but I'm having trouble making her understand why I want to see her bang the hell out of another guy.
  10. Hello everyone, I've been reading all of the fantastic stories and have to admit to being somewhat aroused by a few. My girlfriend and I have been talking about having a threesome for a few weeks now, and she gets all hot while we're discussing it while having sex. She then becomes timid about answering my questions - I've told her there is no right or wrong answers (just to be comfortable with her decisions). We had talked it over one night, and she informed me that she was talking with another guy about it (I thought WOW, she's forward!, then she backs away) She asked me what I thought about this guy wanting to have sex with her alone before we ALL got together.... I of course said "No", and then got a hardon from thinking about just that alone! Anyway, is there something I may be missing? I can tell she's all for it, and then she seems to want to hide her enthusiasm.
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