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MRnMSbhaven last won the day on December 28 2007

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About MRnMSbhaven

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  • Birthday 12/16/1972

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    Couple
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    Wisconsin
  • Swinging Experience
    Not long enough!

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    mrnmsbhaven
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  1. We live by the "If at first you don't succeed, try, try again" motto. We've noticed that too many people (I mean relationships in general) simply give up and stop trying after the first sign of something they don't want to hear. Ms B
  2. We're upfront with our Doc about everything! We can't be safe if we're not honest with the person that helps us stay that way. Details are unimportant unless we feel it may affect our health. She doesn't need to know anything other than I have an open relationship in order to make sure she tests me for everything. As for medical records, there's not a damn thing I can do about that. They already say I'm a nut job... what's one more entry? Ms B
  3. The ying-yang seems to get a lot of attention too. I know Swapp Watch has something out there but I've never seen one on another human. Other than getting "Swinger of Lifestyle" tattooed on my forehead, I guess we'll just have to stick to play-dar.
  4. Our children are very close to college age so we just tell them "Don't burn down the F'ing house, we'll be back tomorrow"! Our eldest has a friend who swears we're swingers and has said as much to the spawn. So, being the opportunists we are... we tell them "We're going to a swinger party, now leave us alone". She thinks we're kidding. Other than that, family just gets the stock answer of "we're going out with friends" Ms B
  5. We choose to use our screen names online unless we have met. You never really know who you're talking to until you meet. When we're in public we use our real names. We'll more than likely end up being discussed as "such and such and what's her name" since everyone always forgets at least one of our names (his mother still doesn't know my name) so we don't worry about it overmuch. Ms. B
  6. That would depend on your individual definition of over thinking & defining. I have been accused of over thinking and don't necessarily deny that I may be guilty. Personally I have more fun when things are clearly defined for me and I feel I am aware of the full picture. I can understand where for some this may be a turn-off but for me it's a greater turn-on.
  7. I'm not sure how everyone else would define it but in our book this would be full swap.
  8. We're coming up on our annual physical (and the end of our first year in the Lifestyle). We will of course be having the tests done at the MD's office. If my insurance gets a copy of the test and has issue with it that's their problem. Besides, IF I did end up with something (god forbid), I'd hate to have to ask my MD for meds and her wonder why I just didn't get tested there. It would make it seem like we're ashamed of how we choose to live. Which is not the case by any means. Since the question will come up at some point in this thread (if it hasn't already) we simply intend to tell her that we have chosen together to live an open lifestyle and that we do everything in our power to be safe at all times. I'm sure she'll shake her head and just remind us to stay safe and get tested like we're doing. Ms B
  9. We've seen it all. From sequined shirts to sweat pants. I'd say, wear what makes you feel sexy. If that's a fishnet body stocking, a tight black dress or 80's running shorts then so be it. Personally, we dress in what we feel is business sexy. He wears slacks and a nice/fashionable button up shirt (usually black). Me, I wear the naughty stock broker/librarian look (always black... it's just my color). Think really short pin striped skirt with a tight vest as a top. I could easily wear it to a vanilla event (might get a few looks but I'm into that so who cares). I have a floor length "stripper" robe that I wear if I want to get out of my other clothes but not walk around naked. Funny enough we went to a party where the hosts suggested everyone "dress up". For the life of me I couldn't figure that out because for me the next step would be naughty formal. Of course I wore the formal with a few extra feet of split up the sides. Apparently they just didn't want people wearing jeans. Oh well, I still felt like Jessica Rabbit and enjoyed every second of it because "I" felt hot! In the end, it's about what you feel good in (and out of) Ms B
  10. That depends. Do you mind if I wrap it around my hand and give it a little tug? I love long hair! We've never had the joy of playing with a gentlemen with such a quality. Of course Mr B is completely shaved and I love that too. There's something to be said for being able to just give it a lick (with permission of course). Facial hair on the other hand is a bit of a turn off for me but no matter what... personality always rules. Ms B
  11. Did I mention I have a thing for a southern accent? Ms B
  12. I may be an anomoly in this but I very much so enjoy being wanted for my size, my tits, my age, what ever part of me you may find attractive. That being said however, I do also enjoy being wanted because I'm an interesting person too. I prefer the entire package but you're welcome to tell me that there's a particular part of me you like most. So how do we pick our playmates? We go off of the personality. That's the most interesting trait a person has to us. If we don't like you as a person, nothing you can offer us in a physical sense is going to be attractive no matter how much of a fetish we do or don't have. Ms B
  13. Nope. As the MR once said... I don't sell my piano on dating sites and just don't see myself advertising in the shopper for playmates. Ms B
  14. When unsure... ask. I enjoy learning new things. Ms. B
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