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it'sso last won the day on August 8 2009

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  1. Sounds like the two of you might have passed up a chance to educate them.
  2. I think for most who are in the game for a fairly long period of time, keeping score isn't an issue. I know when we were into it, I never bothered to do it. However, once it became obvious that I wasn't going to be included in the action, we chose to no longer partake.
  3. Lie about this, you'll lie about "that". I found out my wife had been smoking for eight years after she talked me into quitting "with her" when I had never even given any thought to quitting at all. I found out when I was looking for something in one of our suit cases while we were on a cruise in the Caribbean. Two years later, she started having operations to clean out plugged arteries in a leg she had broken a few years before. I'll always suspect that had she quit when she conned me into it, her leg would be fine instead of giving her constant pain. My Opinion Only
  4. I would be sitting at home checking the phone book for potential dates for me to go on when she gets back. I'd start with the A's.
  5. Not to be controversial, but having helped raise three children with my wife, I think the issues faced in parenthood are complex enough without introducing a "baby's daddy" into the mix. my opinion only
  6. grabbyzz, I hope you don't mind asking, but just what do YOU get out of these relationships?
  7. Desiree has made some good points in her post to you. Let me add a 3rd suggestion and propose that you find a playmate for YOUR own pleasure and see if your wife may find a better understanding of your dilemma. I know that I have been shot down before for making suggestions such as this, but it would be a good way for you to display to her just how things are becoming between the two of you without your needing to appear to be "depriving" her of her desires. The old saying applies here: "What's good for the goose is good for the gander."
  8. Better head this off before you become an observer, for ever. The guy drawing up the rules without ever discussing it with you has already put you at the end of the line. The next thing will be the calls to her without your knowledge so if you wish to save your marriage, NOW is the time to step up and be the BIGGER man regardless of what you have between your legs. My Opinion Only
  9. Maybe the women you and your husband are meeting really don't "like" sex and are just into the activities in order to satiate their SO's appetite without having to contribute ANYTHING?
  10. One needn't be qualified as a potential Rhodes Scholar in order to see that swinging isn't considered a "normal" activity by the mainstream public. I doubt that they would have retained their jobs, even had they never mentioned their place of employment in the solicitation. If you wish to join in the festivities, you need to find a way to conceal it from anybody who you haven't personally seen doing the same before revealing yourself. My Opinion Only
  11. My lady insists that it doesn't matter since I was furnished with neither.
  12. My wife used to have problems with ejecting a lot of fluid during orgasms until she started making it a point to empty her bladder before festivities began. It's no longer an issue.
  13. The ball is in your court, Big Rock. Once the two of you agreed to become "one", she should have leveled with you, then. This may well have still constituted your being the 'last to know", but I'm sure it wouldn't have been as trumatic as finding out the way you did. I always assumed that ANY woman I chose to have a relationship had her own past, much the same as I. However, I would have expected the past to remain there once we agreed to marry. my opinion only
  14. Hope nobody reads too much into this, but my take on the medical profession is that they are ALL still learning and it wasn't all that long ago the the "numero uno doctor" sat you down and removed from a goatskin pouch a few snake leg bones and some chicken teeth and threw them on the ground to read them in order to perform his or her diagnostics. If you have problems with your spouse and you can't solve them between the two of you, you should find different accommodations. My opinion only.
  15. When we were still active, we always made it a point to be close by each other just in case somebody didn't understand the word "NO". It would surprise you how many fail to get that two letter word into their vernacular.
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