cutecouple39

Just because these fine people do not have any certifications on there profile does not mean they do not have any experience. It just means that they do not want everyone and there brother to know whom they have been with. Which seems to be a good idea from our perspective. We will vouch for Spectraschain that he/they are wonderful intelligent people that have plenty of insight to add to this board. I am sorry if NY2004CTS cannot figure out that you cannot make plans for any type of swinging activity without the 100% consent of all parties involved. In fact if he ever hopes she will have an open mind towards any type of swinging activity it would be advised not to attempt this vacation hook up and when the time is right bring the subject up for discussion. Whatever you decide to do good luck. You're gonna need it.

This whole statement is absolutely absurd that would be just like someone into beastiality or pedofilia telling everyone on this board that they should try it cause they might like it, that is just ludicrous. agian I have to agree with lovinher

just wanted to clarify what we were saying...not saying the red flags were about there marriage but in regards to the single gentleman whom apparently does not understand boundaries.

Julie, we would love it if you would check out our profile and give us some sound advice same goes for anyone else that would like to help cutecouple92 on swinglifestyle.com thanks

Guys we are pretty new to this board and fairly new to swinging but seems to us that there are many people on these boards that just try and cause conflict....I guess the term used is trolling We have read many of the posts by luvinher and are pretty sure they have a good idea what the lifestyle is about. The individual whom started this post has thrown up a million red flags with this relationship...then as soon as soon as someone contradicted the normal response he got upset. I am sorry but if you can't handle the reality of receiving different opinions on here then you may not be cut out for it after all. But from the red flags that we saw they all seemed to go one direction...they all pointed south. And if this was a trolling expedition it seemed to work to cause undue conflict on the boards.

I might be cute but his wife is cuter

Swinging introduces a lot of things into our marriage but certainly not Drama.

no one seems as if they are being judgemental...everyone is voicing there own oppinions here. My wife and I inparticular would not swing with a married man or married woman without there spouses knowledge. Thats just our opinion its alot like I prefer Pepsi and you prefer Coke... whatever floats your boat. It may work for some couples but not for us we know where that feeling of someone could be cheating on me can lead its not a pretty site.