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  1. 1. What's Your Main Attraction?

    • Breasts, What else is there?
      289
    • A lean and mean stomach machine!
      68
    • Legs....long, short, I love legs!
      132
    • OOh, Give me a tushie any day!
      240
    • Flash those baby blue/brown or greens at me! I love the eyes!
      189
    • My eyes are looking to see what the guy is packing!
      40
    • Sexy clothing! The tighter the better so that I can see the whole package!
      78
    • Other (please explain)
      98


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Okay, we all have one. What is it that sexually charges you up of the opposite sex? Let's assume that you are all clothed and meeting someone for the first time. Where do your eyes discreetly gravitate?

 

For us, we are both fans of the fannies. I love a nice butt on a man, second choice would be the eyes. I could care less about anything else. (Except the given of course, cleanliness and personality.)

 

My hubby loves a nice rounded fanny on the ladies. Nothing flat and thin for him. He says he has no second choice.

 

Please vote in the poll and share with us the reasons for your vote. The pole is open for multiple voting, but please only vote for one choice if you are a single or one each if you are a couple. I think it will be interesting to see the results.

 

Lori ~ Fanny fan of men in Dockers that just scream TAKE ME I'M YOURS!!!!

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Great poll!

 

I am personally a breast kind of girl...lol. No really I love guys with great pecks! What a turn on when you are dancing and rubbing up against them. I am also fond of a tight butt in a nice pair of Levi's.

 

Hubby is definitely a breast man as well. He likes them fake and monsterous! He also likes a nice plump booty.

 

I think that we both agree that people that are to thin are not our style.

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Originally posted by Roxysbayou

 

Hubby is definitely a breast man as well. He likes them fake and monsterous! He also likes a nice plump booty.

 

I am a breast man as well, but prefer small and petit (B or C cup) over the bigger ones. The gf likes to fantasize about the big ones though. :D

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:cool: Being in the eye business, I always see the eyes first. However, they allow me the discreet gaze at the mounds of pleasure directly below. Small ones, big ones who the hell cares! I just love Egyptian sweaters...the ones with pyramids in them!! :rofl:

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I'm pretty spoiled in the breast and body departments by what I have at home. The thing that turns me on the most is a woman with a quick mind and ability to make me laugh. I guess that's why I married Mrs. Alura.

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This was a hard choice. I'm a fan of the female form, and what attracts my eyes first has a lot to do with what the lady is advertising. Tight butts drive me nuts, and if a lady is dressed in a tight pair of jeans or a tight skirt, I'll start my visual trip there. If she has nice tits and a low cut blouse, she's going to be talking to my forehead a lot. Same with short skirts and nice looking legs. The really tough part is when you find all of these in one package. I guess you have to be flexible, or just easy to please, like me.

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My bf has a great butt and legs from cycling but he looks like an average guy until he takes off his clothes....imagine my surprise the first time...I've been thanking God ever since....lol.

 

But normally for me it's the eyes. I met a guy on the houseboat trip with the most gorgeous piercing blue eyes. Dan, if you're out there I'll never forget ya....lol.

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I'm for the whole package in tight, formfitting, revealing clothing, the hotter the better. Who needs to decide what area is the favorite, just soak them all in. 😛

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Personally I love long legs women wearing short mini-skirts. The shortest the better.... hmmmmm the legs of a woman are the expressway that brings me to Heaven ;)

 

Of course all the silhouette must be appealing. Then I look after at the butt and the breast and I finally end with the face, her eyes and her hair.

 

Have a nice day (or night).

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Well, for whatever reason he saw fit, the maker decided that the feature most likely to draw my eye are a woman's breasts.

 

Don't get me wrong, I adore the entire package (when God designed the female form, he was having a **very** good day). I prefer women who aren't overly slender, or overly heavy. An hourglass figure with shapely legs, attired in a flattering outfit, will always catch my attention. I like a woman to have a womanly, pear shaped ass. I love looking into bright, sparkling eyes, and a brilliant, warm smile.

 

But a woman's breasts will probably always catch my eye first. I don't seem to differentiate between big or pert. I just react to a woman whose breasts suit the rest of her form, whatever their cup size might be.

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gotta say the other... the overall package.

 

face, hair, over all total bod. one body part isn't enough to make or break for EITHER sex.

 

... and I have fond memories of a gent who had nothing other than a mischievous twinkle that could get me going every time. :kissface:

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The total package

 

First look is the face and eyes, they say a lot about the person:

 

attitude, playfulness, willingness

 

Then VERY QUICKLY to the breasts (nice shape is more important than size..though I do LOVE large naturals) scanning down to your waist, moving ever so painfully slowly down each one of your beautiful legs (oh my ! your stockings are SO sexy) and as you turn around I get to see your shapely behind (Oh so sexy)

 

I think I had better stop now..........;)

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Well I chose the eyes but that is mainly for my attraction to men. Amazing eyes like those on 1) Ray Liotta , 2) Mark Harmon and 3) Richard Grieco just to give a few examples.

Those eyes are to die for. My next attraction in men for some reason is teddy bear quality. I like round men, not hardbodies. I told my husband that if he ever became like a body builder type I would leave (okay, so I wouldn't) but it's not a turn on for me.

 

In woman I love roundess too. I love a large, curvaceous, ruebenesque woman. Like those old paintings.

Any sexy bbw (175lbs - 270lbs) who carries herself well with self confidence, fun loving, large (NATURAL) breasts is all good with me.

 

Tigress xx

 

Oh and in men a voice like christian slater or sean connery is also extremely pleasant to listen too anytime.

 

:fun:

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Originally posted by bbcpl4cpl

Oh and in men a voice like christian slater or sean connery is also extremely pleasant to listen too anytime.

 

Definitely! We must think along the same wave length! Except that I like hard bodies, well I like the teddy bear types too. Hell I just like them all!

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For me it's the eyes...the windows to the soul...the 'come hither' look...the longing gaze...the mischevious twinkle. The other parts are good, but the eyes are what tell me what the mind is thinking.

 

-B

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I can't really say what it is for me. It's a combination of the whole package... and I don't mean looks. It's the look, the smile, the eyes and most importantly the attitude/personality.

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I started to say the breasts, but then remembered the eyes. I think of a nice tight pair of jeans or stretch pants when looking from the rear on a nice ass, but then the rest of the legs come into play. Hair, eyes, smile, a body that is cared for (but not necessarily model thin), legs all wrapping a great personality. Now thats a turn on.

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I chose "other" because I go--or not--for the whole package.

 

There really is no consistency to who and what I find attractive. It's more how the individual woman wears what she've got. So it might be a thin, petite body one day (I am partial to small breasts and "athletic" builds) and a curvier one the next. Brunette one day (usually), blonde, redhead or black hair the next. I tend to like 'em short, but...there are exceptions. And since I'm attractive to women of all ethnicities, that slices and dices it even futher.

 

But if there is a constant, it's the face--eyes and smile included. It has to be interesting. Not necessarily beautiful, but at least worthy of a second look. "Cute" is usually best. And when there's a warm smile and a personality to match that exudes from it, and expressive eyes that say there's something going on behind them, then that's golden. Think Jennifer Aniston.

 

My wife tends to look at men in a similar fashion. And as a side note, yes, she does exist, and I've been pushing her recently to try and make her way on here. But her time is extremely short, so it may take some doing. Meanwhile, I'm thinking of posting as "Mr LCC" going forward so that when she does begin to post, it won't get confusing over who's posting what. :)

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Bush for him, and big for her. Bush was not even an issue. What is this sex world cumming to.....why is the trend shaving that pretty bush.

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Eyes and personality are what draw me to someone. Sure, it's helpful if I find the person attractive, but someone who is considered to be conventionally attractive can just look at you and/or open his or her mouth and can become a toad in my eyes. Nothing against toads, but I don't find them attractive and I certainly wouldn't want to have sex with one - unless I knew he was going turn into Antonio Banderas or Halle Berry ;)

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JustAskJulie said:
I can't really say what it is for me. It's a combination of the whole package... and I don't mean looks. It's the look, the smile, the eyes and most importantly the attitude/personality.

 

I am right there with Julie. I am attracted to the smile, eyes, the laugh, the voice, and what and how something is said. I suppose that falls under personality.

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Breasts can be "skeeter bites" or jugs, I don't care as long as they're natural. There's nothing sexy about surgical scars.

 

What really I like is the butt. It's definitely the first thing I notice. I like a nice round butt that sticks out just far enough to serve drinks off of it.

 

Maybe that's why I like doggie-style so much; great view of the butt.

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I am an ass man by heart but I can usually find something nice to admire on almost every woman. But if I HAD to choose 2 it would be ass then eyes. :)

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We find sexual attitude is as much a turn on as any body part or the way the other couple or person looks. Someone with a real sexual side is much more attractive to us then the prettiest of people with the best of bodies who has no real idea.

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Hubby says for him it's a toss up [pun intended]between the tush and the legs - because he says "they both gotta be there".

 

While I definitely enjoy the view of a well fitting snug pair of Wranglers [male or female :rolleyes: ] , a mouth can make it or break it for me. Skinny tight lips will send me scurrying in the opposite direction.

 

But truthfully, for both of us, personality and projection of it can override a lack of a favorite body attribute in a heartbeat.

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We are both butt people. The only problem is it's hard to admire each other's butts at the same time!! :lol: I prefer a nice set of pockets over saggy jeans any day!

 

~angel~

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I am definately an ass man. Big time. But for me the feet and legs go right along with the ass. Well for me it does anyway.

 

J likes means arms, hands, and heads. No not that head, the head on their shoulders. She loves a man with really short hair or one that shaves his head bald.

 

Just what does it for us.

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Teeth. Nice white straight teeth. Preferably in a mouth that smiles a lot with cinnamon altoid breath.

 

Yummy.

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I guess I start at the eyes, stop at the teeth, and then somehow find my way down to a woman's crotch. I'd guess the type of jeans they're wearing will probably determine how nice the "camel's hump", or it's called something like that, looks. Then I start wondering what it looks like, how it tastes, and how it will thrust back into my willing member!

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(her) I'd have to say for me....its all about a mans eyes at first, I love eyes, you can tell so much about a person by looking into their eyes. Then I'd have to say I look at a mans arms, I like well defined arms, then his smile, chest, and of course I'm always lookin down toward their member, just wanting to know what is underneath...and what all I could do to it. Love looking into my man's eyes, i could get lost in them for days. Ok...I just love it all!!! hehe.... facelick

 

 

(him) For me it is a combination of things, her face, smile, eyes, hair, of course her breast (definately a breast man) and her booty. Thats what attracted me to my baby anyhow. Mmmmm love looking into those big beautiful deep brown bedroom eyes, that sexy seductive smile, nice round booty, big tantalizing breast, and the long flowing hair.

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for me the turn on is mostly mental.....LOL if you can make me laugh you can make me come. Sure if you are a hot looking INDIAN guy then it's looks as that is my favorite flavor but anyome else you just need to make me laugh. For Mr. Bu he is a breast man all the way

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My baby loves my blue eyes. I love everything about her except, maybe her anger when I piss her off. :lol:

 

But, for us, personality is a bigger turn on than an awesome body. That's why my poll vote was 'other'...

 

I've met a few hot looking people with no personality, or they were snobs, and I've met some less than gorgeous ones who could make me melt with their open confident personality. Of course, I am generalizing, but you get the idea, I hope....

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Ahhh, for me it’s these eyes. I love to have a man look me straight in the eyes. It lets me know what he is thinking. If I see confidence, it’s very much a turn on! Scent is the next thing that’s very important. If he smells great, he’s half way there already. I then look at the hands that I may want to have run over my body. I like them strong, but soft. Then it’s up their arms and to their chest. I take in the whole thing in…God I love men!!!!

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with others it's the eyes at first. A pretty face is a turn on..

 

Now when it comes to my wife, I just wanna munch her all night long....no other girl even comes close

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Bu&Sandra said:
for me the turn on is mostly mental.....LOL if you can make me laugh you can make me come.

 

We would have to agree with Bu&Sandra on this.... it's the whole mental thing, looks are superficial, it's truly what's inside and upstairs that count.

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My main attraction keeps changing. Lately I have been looking at really manly men. Like big tough men that are out laboring or saving lifes. (Fire men, construction men, working men) I guess the tan, sweaty, hard edge of them just seems hot. I even had to watch the "Most Dangerous Catch" on discovery channel last night with my erocillator!

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I'm a "total package" type of guy. I tend to lean to slim with curves since that’s what I have at home. Natural breasts any size over man-made (but wouldn't let it cloud my decision). A tush that I can rest my outstretched hands on. Call me bad :sad: but if I'm not attracted physically it won't work no matter what the personality.

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Well, when it comes to men, it's a toss up between arms and mouth. I love arms that look like they will just swallow me up when wrapped around me (not overly muscular, but somewhat defined). Of course, if he has a full, succulent, soft mouth, well, I get a little moist just thicken about it ;)

 

As far as women go, my husband and I both love breasts. Nice, heavy, firm, yet soft breasts. Yeah, that works.

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I have to say total package is the main attraction, I have met many that when you spend the time to get to know, you just couldn't resist them.

Having said that.......He is a butt man all the way, I like butts, but eyes are also pretty high on the list, they say sooooo much!

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Long flowing bedroom hair...(his and hers) fit or bombshell curvy Latin women. Platinum blonde starlet types. A bigger draw in both sexes is that certain glint in their eye. Curvy, full lips and hips....intelligence, unpretentiousness, creativity and a sense of humour. I am really into people who are out "doing their thing" and are confident about themselves enough to BE themselves...you know reveal their nerdy/dorky/geeky aspects and sides. Nothing sexier than that.

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The TOTAL package. We would rather meet an average couple with good personalities than supermodels with crappy personalities. A healthy outlook (not all gloom and doom), personality, sense of humor, something in common, no jealousy and oh yeah, a healthy appetite for fun of all types.

 

We prefer our relationships to be few, but run deep and be long lasting.

 

Scares a lot of people off but we like it that way.

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I would have to say for myself its the eyes...After all they are the window to your Soul. Yes just like BradAndJanet said..LOL...I guess I should have read all the posts before I started mine..LOL...:)

 

And my hubby he likes long legs and long hair..Gets him every time...

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My weakness has always been curly hair, I absolutely melt. However, the total package is definitely taken into consideration and part of that package has to be a great personality.

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For hubbie his weakness is Redheads, after that it is either legs or butt, depends on the day.

 

For me it is height first, at 5'11" and the fact that I love to wear heals, I am more attracted to a man that is over 6', then eyes, I agree with Lonesomedove. And then I have to be able to lock my ankles around him, may be it is a bit petty, but I do have very long legs :D

Jen :kissface:

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We can understand why everyone has these attractions but unfortunately most of what everyone is attracted to slips away with age and we can understand why older couples may no longer possess any of these MAIN ATTRACTIONS.

 

John and I tried swinging for awhile about 20 years ago and we enjoyed it, but because of being involved with our childrens' events we found it difficult to find time for it and so we stopped. We didn't make a decision to stop, we just kinda stopped.

 

But now we don't have those commitments and we would like to swing again but I'm 58 and John's 60 and we know we are not as attractive as we used to be (we were a remarkable couple at one time). Of course, we don't think we look as old as our age and many people have even remarked that we look more like we are in our early 40's. My breasts still "stand up like little soldiers" as John says and I think we are both still attractive. We are both very sexual active with each other. We still average some kind of sexual activity once or sometimes twice a day (that's right, a day) and John can still get a huge erection with out any trouble at all any time he wants to. The only sexual problems we have encountered with age is that I don't get as moist as I used to and it takes John longer to cum than it used to, but that of course is not really a problem.

 

But we are not good judges of our looks. In fact about 2 months ago we thought we would try to revive our social life and so we went to a local club (not a swinger's club) and everyone looked way too young for us. So then we decided to try an "over 50" dance at an American Legion, and we felt like everyone there was way, way too older looking for us. We just couldn't imagine we looked that old. And of course, we didn't see anyone in there that we thought was attractive and if we felt that way, what would other people at a swinger's club think about us.

 

So, now we are in a dilemma. Do we really look as old as the people at the "over 50" dance and therefore would probably be unattractive to couples at a swingers club, or do we really have an honest opinion of our self image and so therefore other couples might find us attractive enough to be with?

 

We haven't seen many responses on various swinger sites from people in their 50's or 60's, so it seems that perhaps swinging may no longer be an option for us.

 

I placed this response on this thread because if a couple no longer has a MAIN ATTRACTION (or at least thinks that way) then are there any swinging options available to them?

 

BTW, I also believe that since John and I both have very outgoing personalities and high energy levels we become more attractive as people get to know us and I think that may be why people make the remark about us looking so much younger than we are. When we go out socially with other couples or our kids, we are still going strong when everyone else (including our kids) are ready to go home and go to bed (to go to sleep).

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John and I have always enjoyed couples who could carry on a conversation that was more than just sex talk. That doesn't mean we don't enjoy talking about sex, we do. It has never bothered me to have a man come up to me and ask me to suck him, in fact sometimes that can be a terrific turn-on, kind of like Erica Jung's "zipless fuck". But most of the time we both want a little conversational "fore play". Conversation (not necessarily about sex) just makes everything more enjoyable and interesting. We like to hear what other people are interested in or what they've done recently that was fun, enjoyable or interesting.

 

We used to go to Las Vegas or Lake Tahoe to play blackjack. John liked getting the dealers into a conversation while he played because they would usually have very interesting stories to tell. But now that most of the dealers are oriental that doesn't happen any more.

 

But to get back to the subject at hand we would like to know some clubs that we could go to where we might fit in better and perhaps maybe even meet the two of you.

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      My “issue” is that the female is very playful and chatty. But her and my husband talk more sexy and more often than she and I do. It doesn’t make me jealous at all, I just would love it too!! The male half is great in person but the chatting and flirting has really slowed down since we’ve played a few times. He seems to be cautious when it comes to sexting. So much fun for my husband and I feel like a little blah...bland. I just want a little more fun and excitement (chat wise) considering we aren’t able to see each other often. She and I can hang out but they want to stick to the “rule of 3” for now.
       
      So it’s hard to get to know him more without having some alone time and minimal (slightly bland) chat.
       
      We really like them and it’s been a long time since we’ve found such good 4 way chemistry.
       
      Any advice? And how often do you chat and what is your expectations?
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