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I was thinking of a time while recently playing with some friends. We were all in the bed messing around a bit and our friends had a porno on the tv. I noticed the other guy was looking at the screen a lot but I found it. well, kinda distracting. So I asked to turn off the t.v. and put on some music instead.

 

No biggy, but it just got me thinking. We could watch porn by ourselves and never did see the end of the movie before humpin' like wild. Do most people like porn while playing with others? Not in the foreplay, but while you're actually down to business. Or would you prefer music?

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We would prefer music in the play areas and if you need porn them put it in a common area or a room/area to itself. Pretty simple.

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Definitely music. We were playing two weekends ago when our friends suggested some porn. I'm not opposed to porn, and thought what the hell, it might be fun. But once it was on and I looked at it a little, it just made me laugh. Does this happen to anyone else?

 

Later, Mr. Fuse told me my moaning was drowning out the porn anyway :lol: . I'd much rather watch him with the other lady facelick than watch porn on the TV. Silence is fine too, but music can add something to the atmosphere.

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Isn't the reason that your having sex in the same room/bed is so you can watch your partner enjoy him or herself? I would think porn at that point would take away from it.

 

Music is always nice to have in the background.

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Lovinlife59912 said:
Isn't the reason that your having sex in the same room/bed is so you can watch your partner enjoy him or herself?

 

LIVE Porn!!!

 

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Yes, LIVE Porn is where it's at. Good music is just gravy.

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Have never had this happen when we are with friends (we stick to music or just the sounds of each other), but it's always on at the clubs we've been to. It's kinda like background static, I don't really notice it or pay attention to it. There's too much going on in the room to pay attention to the television. :)

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I agree, porn would just be a little distracting. It could be good to help start things off. Music is good... But, the live porn starring your SO...that would be best!

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Who needs porn?

 

Music if we have to have something (seems kind of a natural when we play at home) but otherwise, nothing...

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Music. Definitely. I sometimes find even silence distracting, but music is really nice to have in the background. No heavy metal or rock; just ambient sounds. Enigma is good humpin' music. :D

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I am OK with either, the couple I play with puts on a porn video when we are at their house, they came over to my place for our last play date and I put music on.

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I wouldn't even notice if there was porn on, too busy doing and watching my wife and others :D

 

Only exception if the camcorder was filming us all live and it was being played live. Like to show my best side to the camera :lol:

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I'm going to have to go against the grain here, but while not required, I've found a porn does tend to 'get the party' going and get everyone in the right fram of mind. Good porn with high production values of course :lol:

 

We then tend to get a kick out of how the porn tends to be tamer than whats going on in the room too.

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My idea of a good time:

 

1. Turn the porn on.

2. Turn the volume on the tv off.

3. Turn music on.

4. Take the clothes off.

5. Start having sex.

 

Simplicity is beautiful. heh.

 

Honestly, there could be a marching band going through my cranium while I was having sex and I wouldn't get distracted. :D

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Oh, we love a good quality porn, don't get us wrong. At times it is on when we club and me likey. But it just seemed like this guy was watching more of the tv than the pile we had going on. Mrs fun feels like hey, you gonna fuck or watch tv? :)

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We find that porn in the beginning can help get things started. Though by the time everything is in full swing it's just background noise and I will usually turn it off and switch to music. No set rules though, but that's what I find happens when we host. I do like the idea of turning the porn on without the sound and also turning on the music. I think I'll give that a try! :)

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fun4Ds said:
Oh, we love a good quality porn, don't get us wrong. At times it is on when we club and me likey. But it just seemed like this guy was watching more of the tv than the pile we had going on. Mrs fun feels like hey, you gonna fuck or watch tv?

 

Understandable. The porn is fun, but yeah, why fixate on the porn when you have the real deal right in front of you. lol

 

I love that you said "me likey" lol

 

davidnjoy, it really is better that way, just make sure the music fits the action. ;)

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I have to say I like porn, but anyway wouldn't mix it with swinging, at least not right in THAT moment nor right before that.

 

Unless being a product well devised for this sort of scenarios (which could exist but I didn't saw anything like this, except perhaps with true amateur home made movies, and perhaps European movies made in the 70's that are pretty much amateur like), today porn is grounded on models, both for the physical aspect the actors/actresses have, and for the activities they engage into, at last, they follow the lead of what society (most males) likes to watch and avoid what they dislike to watch (e.g. wearing condoms) and end up imposing a view of the sexuality that doesn't have to do with the real sexuality. This may trigger anxiety on the attendants to the meeting, beyond the proposed turn on: from competitive feelings to a reminder of insecurities (for example, about your body, not being the TV model, performance issues, and so). Even when not enough to ruin the night, this anxiety may make the experience less enjoyable to someone, and precisely because of the fear to admit insecurities (moreover if they doesn't know the other people involved), they may prefer not to tell and let the movie roll.

 

So, unless all the attendant knows well enough each other as to ensure they can deal with this eventual issues, I believe it's a bad idea. Or at least, something to think about when choosing to watch porn.

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Music.  Not too loud either.  We've been to clubs where they had porn playing, and that was ok, but didn't really seem like anyone was paying attention to it either.  Sort of like the tv news on with the volume off at the doctor's office. It's there, but nobody really paying attention to it.

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We enjoy music on in the background when we are playing!  Big fans of electro industrial and big beat when it comes to play time for the upbeat tempo.  Don’t care if there is porn on in the background with the volume off.  We are going to be to occupied to notice anyways.

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We don't care if porn is on or not.  But if it is on we will almost never be watching it as we are focused on what we are actually doing.

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We both prefer music over porn anytime. I have been with women in a mfm that want mfm porn playing. I don't know if it is to give them a idea how to do certain positions or what. Give me some good fast paced funk or gangster rap to listen to, no country or love songs.

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My wife and I attended a (now, unfortunately, closed) swinger club that in one of the common areas would always have porn playing via a projection camera onto a bare wall. Sort of a mood setter I guess. Outside of some physical flirtation, we never played in that room though.

 

When we've been playing outside of a swinger club, we've never had a TV on, nor had music on either. Just hasn't come up. If I had to choose, I'd say no to the TV 100%, and sort of ok with the music, depending on the music playing.

Very old resurrected thread. Good one though :)

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On 4/5/2006 at 6:05 PM, havefuninsun said:

Yes, LIVE Porn is where it's at. Good music is just gravy.

What about live music? 

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On 4/11/2006 at 11:53 AM, Darkane said:

My idea of a good time:

 

1. Turn the porn on.

2. Turn the volume on the tv off.

3. Turn music on.

4. Take the clothes off.

5. Start having sex.

 

Simplicity is beautiful. heh.

 

Honestly, there could be a marching band going through my cranium while I was having sex and I wouldn't get distracted. :D

This is the order of things in our swing group too. The porn seems to get things motivated for all

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Occasional porn for the wife and I, but when we're having a lifestyle adventure, we'd much rather be present and focused on that...  If anything, make our own porn!

 

They play it at some of the parties we've been to, but it does nothing for me and it's pretty much there on general principal.

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On 4/5/2006 at 4:21 AM, fun4Ds said:

put on some music instead.

 

No biggy

Music is ok, but No Biggy is not one of my favorite rappers.

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Another thing we do is that we put on a live sex show with two or three of us in middle of room to some music and let the others enjoy and relax and enjoy the view and then the gradually take part

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On 6/16/2023 at 9:38 PM, SheernylonCpl said:

Another thing we do is that we put on a live sex show with two or three of us in middle of room to some music and let the others enjoy and relax and enjoy the view and then the gradually take part

Has it ever been where one of you is in the middle of the room putting on a sex show while the other is one of the spectators?  That would be hot.

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