The Swinger Manual (aka the Swingers Board Book)!!! If you haven't
ordered your copy of The Swinger Manual
yet, what are you waiting for? I just shipped out the first run which
sold out in the first week. You can still get your copy at the early preview
price of $15 for the paperback (also available in E-book) Preview & order your
copy of The Swinger Manual
now.
Don't let other people's expectations affect your
decisions. Set your own boundaries and comfort levels when it
comes to swinging and stick to them, don't allow peer pressure (even
from your own spouse) to swa you past your comfort level.
If you would like to
submit a review of a club you have visited, please use the link provided
above, find the club you wish to review, then select "post a review" from the
clubs listing.
To have your club listed on the Swingers Board, use the link provided above
and select the appropriate region. From the region page, select "add a
club". If your club belongs in more than one region be sure to submit it
to each one.
A big Swingers Board welcome goes out to all the new members who took
the time to introduce themselves this past week: thebinkfords,
atomicmike, curiouscouple69, wifes_toy, ruspontaneous, curiouscplinfl,
the2vs1913, Coffeeblack, ntex, Obliquity, & sandkats ; as well as all the other new members
who haven't introduced themselves yet!
In "Jealousy
Issues & Over
coming them",
Obliquity shares
that while they
both like the
idea of swinging
she feels
jealous when she
thinks of him
with another
woman and
wonders if this
is the norm.
The2vs1913 posts
that they are "possibly
new to swinging,
and looking for
mentors".
They have been
talking about
the idea of
swinging and
she's not sure
she's ready and
wonders if she
should go ahead
anyway to make
him happy.
Fredsgirl is
looking for some
"first
3some advice".
They are
preparing for
their first FMF
threesome and
she has
questions.
In "Should
I encourage or?",
NymphoWind
shares that they
are working
towards their
first threesome
(MFM) and as the
date draws
closer his wife
gets more and
more nervous and
thinks about
backing out.
He's wondering
if he should
allow her to or
if he should
encourage her to
just go through
with it and work
past the nerves.
Hppycpleus
are "Wall-flowers
in need of
HELP!".
They aren't
into the bar
or club
scene but
enjoy the
swinging
atmosphere.
They've been
to a few
swinger
clubs and do
well once
someone
invites them
into the
group but
have a hard
time getting
off the wall
on their
own.
In "Communication
with
possible
playmates",
want2watch40
shares that
they've been
talking
about
swinging for
a while.
However,
recently she
was
contacted by
an old crush
who made it
known that
he was
interested
in swinging.
The issues
is that the
guy refuses
to talk with
Mr Watch
despite
having the
rules laid
out for him
by Ms Watch,
so now they
aren't sure
what to do
with him.
NymphoWind asks "Would
you swing with a
potential ex to be?".
If you knew your
relationship was
over but the d-day
hadn't been written
in stone yet, would
you try to make the
"most" out of what
was left of your
relationship by
swinging together?
LFM2 asks "What's
in your fun bag?".
You know that bag o
stuff you pack and
carry when you head
out to swing...
what's in it?
Newpants asks "Have
you ever played with
a vanilla couple?"
If so, how did it
go? Ilcouple92 asks
"How
long were you
together when you
started swinging?"
Duo33470 asks if
you've "Ever
heard of an imposter
wife?" They were
at a club and played
with what they
thought was a couple
only to learn that
the "wife" was
actually a stripper
the guy had paid to
pretend to be his
wife so he could get
in the club.
In "Mutual
Satisfaction"
Bobcat2712 shares
that he seems to get
more enjoyment out
of swinging than his
wife does as she has
a hard time
orgasming and also
tends to run into
guys who can't get
it (or keep it) up.
They would
appreciate your
feedback.
NYFunCpl shares that they had "A
few bad experiences in a row". Ncmd_couple shared his "Craig's
List Experience". After reading about others having success with the site,
he decided to try it out for himself. In "Hotel
party... any drawbacks?", Calgetty is planning a gangbang for his wife and
asks if he should be concerned about the hotel having an issue with them.
Willing29 wonders if you've ever been to a "Sex
Rave?" In "Nudity
or Not?" AskMeOk asks how many clubs are nudity only or have clothing
optional areas. In "Any
older cougars?", ItTakes3 shares their experiences with younger men and
wonders if others have enjoyed the same. In "Hi,
I'm new!" Yumies shares their experience and interest in Poly.