My goodness it's been a busy week or so around here. We like it. It's funny
how summer always has ready to get out and play. Don't forget if you are
planning to join us for the Gatlinburg meetup you only have 1 week left to get
the reduced rate at the hotel.
Next Swingers Board MeetUp!
Gatlinburg TN - July 17 & 18:
Swinger Tip of the Week
Starbucks can be a great place for a first meeting
with other swingers. You can grab a cup of coffee and talk without
feeling that you have to sit through an entire dinner, but if things
are going well you can stay as long as you want.
If you would like to
submit a review of a club you have visited, please use the link provided
above, find the club you wish to review, then select "post a review" from the
clubs listing.
To have your club listed on the Swingers Board, use the link provided above
and select the appropriate region. From the region page, select "add a
club". If your club belongs in more than one region be sure to submit it
to each one.
A big Swingers Board welcome goes out to all the new members who took
the time to introduce themselves this past week: FlyRiteBy,
Boaters37, boyish_grin, C/S, SoulController, Rhysis, planejanesusan,
Katmandoo7, shome2, 1curiouscat, mialuvrs, armybackwards,
livinitup77, ShinyHappyGirl, & achtung73 ; as well as all the other new members
who haven't introduced themselves yet!
In "Why
Facebook is
a bad place
for Swingers",
JandCMi post
that they
thought they
had gotten
to be more
than just
swinging
friends with
a couple and
had
exchanged
Facebook
info. The
other couple
later told
them they
were taking
a break, but
from
comments
posted on
their FB
profile by
another
swinging
couple
JandCMi are
doubting the
truth of
their
statement.
In "Too
Many Rules?",
Swvacouplelookn
posts that while
they respect the
rules that others
have, they tend to
shy away from those
who have really long
lists of rules. In
"Swinging
without Oral",
JustAskJulie posts
that due to physical
problems they have
been forced to
either soft-swing
without oral, or not
swing at all. In "Aren't
we all adults",
2bNakie posts that
they have recently
started going to
clubs again and it
seems like many
people there act
like they are still
in High School with
their cliques of
friends. In "Keeping
down with the Jones?",
after reading a
comment in another
thread,
driveajeepnaked
wonders at the logic
of doing a sexual
activity just
because someone else
is doing the same
one to your partner.
In "Too
Perfect
swing-partner",
JandY asks what
happens when you
hook up with someone
and find that they
are pushing buttons
you didn't even know
you had.
Socolais asks "Does
Swinging make us
better?" lovers
that is... or do we
swing because we are
better in bed?
Curiouscpl72 asks "Do
any of you take
breaks from the
lifestyle?".
Two4youinswva posts
"We may be the 'kiss
of death'".
They say that in
their 5 years of
swinging, about
10-20% of those they
have played with
have gotten
divorced. They
wonder if your
numbers are the
same. In "MFM
Threesome: Is he
showing genuine
consideration of our
kissing boundaries?",
swvacouplelookn
posts that they are
considering having a
threesome with a
male that his wife
has played with on
her own. The
male made a comment
asking about whether
the husband would be
ok with how much
kissing they do, and
that left the
husband wondering
where the comment
came from.
1curiouscat posts "TMJ...
Will I have trouble
finding playmates?",
since she can't do
oral. In "Playing
with Friends: Higher
rate of success when
spontaneous?".
