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WOW! So many new folks lately! A big Swingers Board welcome goes out to all the new members who took the time to introduce themselves this past week: metroman, JacknRed, coolasfuk21, cwileygo, Cuda, Kibcal, twofunones, dirrtycpl4fun, mntoklahoma, joethe1mac, sexycouple2013, Carpe Omnious, indcpl4cpl5589, LandM, shreyasaran, Markmclean, golfer805, amoroustaurus, frustratedspain, realbaer69, TuttisHubby, boogedy, dalzellcouple, snatchtomatch, sparky69, Jack and Ginger, Katharinablomst, lovelakelife, Ash69, golfgnut2001, SmoothKitty, led2u, tetero, dropaquarter, LanceandEmily, mosexycouple, Virgineyes, freakyweds69, Mikeyman, rdante, chowhound86, peterabout, gnote9965, BrazilianBabe, Dipped, jayzin13, Jodyrski, sandy_paws, JIMWEST0420, funcouple2730, thejlos, Ruth, kcwordsmith, stallion, LexxxiR, lookingfora3rd, crazy4kink, Lightsplease, Brooklyncouple, taipeicouple, majliz, Jamesons, BK123, J&DWoods, blondie25, Dancing2some, xcouplex, CeeCee, elainesout, navybluejeans, spursstraps, jash.daren, nicecple33, swflocpl14, AliciaDark, Rorry, bikergirl, mdhotstuff, matt&christina, carraway15, s&p, randy2012, sunbuckus, kands7107, terriNmike, Rfunanfantasy, Mcbird00, KAK1072, blk&asian4fun, bobnsue928, DVOcouple, maarcus, jersymikeusa, SHAC0820, Rob101, dragonflower8, EroticImaginati, bazinga, bonniejean, deviant, domi, Fillerup ; as well as all the other new members who haven't introduced themselves yet!

To introduce yourself and to read other's introductions go to:
http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?f=19

Curious About Swinging?

Sandy_paws has a question about "Swing Lifestyle Profile Pictures/ Galleries" and how secure the site is in relation to their posting pictures of themselves and not having to worry about outsiders seeing them. In "Afraid I may like it", maarcus shares that his wife has made this comment several times but he has enforced that even if they like it it would not be something they would do regularly. JOK3R posts that they "Need advice: Turning Fantasy into Reality". He believes his gf shares his fantasy of her in the midst of a gangbang but since they've only talked about it during sex he's not really sure. CeeCee wonders if it's possible to "remain a newbie..." and just go to clubs to explore the atmosphere and have sex with each other only. sunbuckus are "Newbies to the scene" and they share their thoughts on the issues that worry them regarding friendship first, body image, and jealousy. Aching asks "Should We?" They are in their early 60s and contemplating their ideal first experience which would involve them being with another couple in separate houses for an overnight experience. Mdhotstuff is "Considering her first bi experience". They are going to Fantasy Fest in Key West and wondering what the chances are of making her fantasy come true there. Weifensi are "another newbie couple - looking for advice". They have questions about jealousy, swinging in the same room vs separate and how to get started. Oscar11 found themselves in the situation of "Accidental Swinging" after a night of partying and drinking with friends they swapped partners, but his wife did not want to admit to it later. kcwordsmith asks "How do you find compatible partners?" and how important is physical appearance to making that happen? In "Size.. Do you Approach It?" armi555 posts that they are close to making their first time happen but their concern at this point is that he has a large penis and he's had some bad experiences in the past with women's reactions to his penis size. He wonders if they should broach the subject before they get to the bedroom. Alwayscurious34 has a question about "Professional career and ethics?" and whether or not anyone has had an issue with swinging and how it might relate to a morals clause in their employment agreement. Bluesrun is looking for some advice on "how to broach the subject with my wife". armi555 asks "are we ready?" Mrhooch is a "new guy from the south". He and his gf have been talking about swinging and plan to go to a club together for the first time. They've set some ground rules and are wondering if they are on the right track. Blewriot asks "Can I pick your brain for a minute?" They are making plans for a first meet and she worries about meeting and not being attracted. She also has worries about her body and whether or not she has to get naked.

To read all of these topics and more go to http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?f=9

Situational HELP!!!

Freakyweds69 posts "I chickened out & now I'm second guessing myself". After agreeing to meet a couple, they got a response that made them change their minds. Now they are wondering if they did the right thing. Erotichugs posts "Guess it's goodbye - wife found 'religion'". Deviant is looking for "help with a Mardi Gras Game". Ludwig posts "They want double vaginal - I feel hesitant". A couple they've played with asked if they wanted to do a DP and they agreed then realized they meant double vaginal and he's not sure he's comfortable having his dick so close to another. In "Take it or leave it" funcoupledayton shares that they met a couple at a club and were only somewhat attracted. They probably would have played that night but hubby got sick. The couple wants to meet and play but they aren't sure they are really into them and wonder if it's worth it to meet them again. In a similar situation Sunbuckus asks "Am I being too picky?" They'd exchanged emails with a couple several times before getting the pictures of the male. Now she's not really into him but they feel they could still be friends (which the other couple is looking for) and wonder if it's worth it to meet them. And Katharinablomst asks "Are we too choosy?" because in their several club visits they have yet to meet a couple they were both attracted to. Mcbird00 asks "how to approach friends you're not sure swing with a proposition". Lotsoffun201 asks "Did we screw up?" They are a strict soft-swap only couple but met a nice couple at their local club and decided to let things go further. Afterwards the Mrs felt like she was weak by allowing it. PlayingNow were asked to play with a "pregnant swinger" who was left by her husband and aren't sure if it's a good idea. BrazilianBabe asks "What to do when your partner says you are not a swinger" because you don't want to let him do what he wants. Wallswing is wondering if he should seek "Therapy for 2 failed experiences" do to ED. LexxxiR posts "Hubby and I on different page..." He wants to swing but she doesn't and only has done it to please him. BigDandLola post that they have a "Crazy Chick that won't leave BigD alone". She is constantly calling and texting even though they've told them nothing is going to happen and they aren't interested. GnJ posts that there was an altercation at the club they frequent where the owner pulled out a gun. They are wondering "What should we do?" as far as returning to the club. In "Party fouls/ forced breaking of rules common in the LS?" lovelakelife posts that at a NYE party they encountered a pushy guy who eventually pushed the wife to move past their soft swap only rule. TheRedHalf posts that they were on an "Emotional Roller Coaster Ride" following their NYE experience. Blury is "Confused... Need Advice". Her husband told her he'd had experiences prior to them getting together but never told her he wanted them to swing, but then as soon as they were married he started making her dive into swinging attending clubs and playing with others. Rdante has some questions about "The Rocky First Meeting - Protocol and Other Questions". They went to their first Meet & Greet and he worries that she didn't really enjoy it. VanessaV is facing an "Oral sex dilemma". Her bf has never given her oral sex and told her he didn't enjoy doing it. But they first time they played with another couple he had no issue giving it to her. Webbguy asks "What to tell a new couple" he is meeting about his live-in GF who has given him permission to play. Lundy asks "Did we misunderstand." They were playing with each other at a club and a couple asked if they could "lay with" them. They thought they just meant share the bed but evidently the couple wanted to play. In "The day after" Cuda asks if it's normal for guys to want to continue kissing and touching a woman the next time they see her if they played with her previously. Biwhat is ready to try again but is dealing with "nerves" and the what ifs that may happen.

To read all of these topics and more go to http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?f=11

General Swingers Stuff

Dont.Stop posted about "Girls Uncorked" and how swinging seems to be a popular subject among the women who go. Sunbuckus is looking for a comprehensive swinger "rule list" for them to discuss. calinewbies asks "How has your sex life as a couple changed?" since you started swinging. Two4youinswva posts "How Facebook changed some 'definitelys' to 'no ways'". Regarding how once you add your swinger friends to Facebook you get to know them in ways you may wish you hadn't. Wallswing asks if "Men into swinging are typically larger?" FEMAguy is looking for "Swinger Friendly Hotels and Resorts" or a website that lists them. Wallswing wonders if it's standard for the "First meeting with a single guy" to be just with the female, as they've had several single guys want to do this. LexxxiR asks "Ladies: How do you feel sexy enough??". She's not confident about her body and her husband isn't good about helping. Wilson68868 asks about the "Best places in the USA to live" if you are a swinger. In "Swinger' Olympics - You're on Team USA!" Alura propses the idea of what if there was a Swinger Olympics, what would be the routine, how would you be judged. Freakyweds69 asks how many had their first experience "swinging with vanillas"?

To read all of these topics and many more (and to add your own thoughts as well) go to: http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?f=8

The Rest of the Forums!

freakyweds69 is an "anal virgin" but wants to give it a try. She's looking for some advice on how to go about it. EmptyNestCa asks about your "position of preference" when swinging and if it's the same as with your spouse. M1F2KTJ shares their "New Year's Eve Tradition". Olddog7 is "Married Playing Single" and feels there is a double standard against him because his wife doesn't know. Tomk is looking for some good online "Places for wife to meet single men?" Angelkin asks "To certify or not to certify, that is the question..." should they allow anyone who meets them to certify them or just those they've played with. Njlp973 asks "Ads with single female - one picture" do you believe they are real or fake? Funcoupledayton posted about some of the "Creepers" he's encountered in the chat rooms. Single guys with no boundaries.

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