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Introductions!!


Welcome to our new members who introduced themselves recently:  Minono, sensualhostess, kycpl4536, Diamondjim, Baxter, brand713, Purple heather, kille304, nohalfmeasure, Heing&Sheing, limitless78, bryonboru, Sassy2c1968, Lucasex, edoycaro, vicintx, jmc663, hotptamom, mark1971725, Dmac12, Stuart Joseph25, maryann660ac, PandO, NBo416, FredThePhotoEd, Liveitup314, BuckCarson, JBI2014, captainboy33c, rockers, Mr_Burns, FS13, Ckm3169, idontneedyou, NenaPR, JenniferAndI, jakeall89, Areyouready580, swatman82, Dstrang01, MoonWtrs15, Shore2Please, JennyJodyLee, rissianhotwife, youngster, netxcpl4sex, NandM78, Ravenrsr, Alexxx5280, Lynandalex, Compilation,NJcoupleB&K, BrewstersShade, GoodTimes1983, Winger51, Curious2seattle, loosegravel, CuriousFLCpl, kdhach, bldballs, Funguy796, babycakes5219, JandJonell, hellogoodbye2, AtoZ, Flyinggun  If you haven't introduced yourself yet, please stop by and do so, or come by to tell our newest members we're glad to have them!


Swingers Talk



gingerandwasabi First post so be gentle as you talk me down from sending this letter by: gingerandwasabi My wife and I have been involved in sharing our fun for a couple of years...
sunbuckus Couples with an age difference of 15 years or more by: sunbuckus I've seen a few threads around here from couples who have a great age difference (15+). There's...
sunbuckus Flaking and ghosting by: sunbuckus Before cellphones became the norm, I would always be peeved when...
sunbuckus Is being picky a good or bad thing for you? by: sunbuckus In relation to my other thread about being picky, I decided to split this question out so the other one won't be so long: Do you see being...
sunbuckus Being picky or having a small strike zone by: sunbuckus One time, we had a couple tell us that they were picky/choosy about who they swap partners with. Since they were interested, we took it as a compliment....
Pklon Largest gangbang you took part of by: Pklon Anyone here care to share about their largest gangbang experience and where was it held?  For me it was with 12 guys but there was another...
M1F2KTJ An ex - counter by: M1F2KTJ Has anyone had an experience where they witnessed their ex in a swinging or sharing experience with their new partner?
SW_PA_Couple Attention on basis of ethnicity by: SW_PA_Couple Have you ever perceived that somebody is giving you attention based partially or primarily on your ethnicity? Have you ever felt attracted to a person...
Fundamental Law Genetic predispositions and nonmonogamy by: Fundamental Law There's an interesting piece in today's New York Times that sheds some additional light on why there are different sexual behaviors...
Pklon Minus family, who the most surprising person you met at a swingers club that you knew by: Pklon For me I've got to say my old high school teacher. When I started going to swingers clubs at 18, ...
Innocentnaughty First post.. jealousy and hypnosis by: Innocentnaughty I know many guys out there in Playland have issues surrounding jealousy when they first start swinging. I know I did and still do a little, but I found...
Pklon Playboy TV network reality shows ( fake/scripted or real ) by: Pklon Do you think shows like 7 Lives Xposed, Foursome, Swing and any other shows on it. Do you think it is fake or real? I think some shows are...
Darkmoon I forgave her and she got mad?!?! by: Darkmoon One of the best things about us swinging is I felt that we had ultimate comfort in our marriage and that we both had let go of hurtful things from our...
Darkmoon First time went great but have questions by: Darkmoon First off let me say how awesome this site is. Lots of thoughtful advice from other users. I have a ton to say/ask, but for the sake of keeping this post...
Pklon How long did it take your gf/wife or bf/husband to get use to the lifestyle ? by: Pklon Hope I explain and it makes sense, if not, sorry. I read a few topics here that people here, that people had no experience in the...
Lynandalex Husband approval for play guy? by: Lynandalex Just wondering if any husbands ever have a say on who gets to play with the wife or if she is the one to pick?
kimanddon Where do we find multiple partners? by: kimanddon My wife and I have had the mfm experience for our entire marriage of 27 years but now she is ready to advance to multiple male partners. Say 5 or so males...
Glida Date night by: Glida I've suggested Date Night for Friday night, just the two of us, in a bar. We haven't been out together or with couples for what feels like ages...
Fundamental Law The arrow of time: age, boomers and the LS by: Fundamental Law An observation: a search on "aging" at this site shows an interesting decline in the conversation about 3 years ago. Possibly...

Swingers Polls & Never-Ending Threads


Poll of the Week:
Is "Lover" a no-no word in SwingerLand? - What do you think? Stop by and let us know!



Swingers Board Member of the Week
May 4-11:  TallAmaCouple
cplnuswing:
  What was the most unexpected thing about your first swap?  TallAmaCouple: For me even though I thought I was ready my mind was blown. I had trouble getting my mind around what I was seeing.....Read more of TallAmaCouple's interview here.

May 11-18:  CoupleInMD79
GoldCoCouple:
  How did you get started in the LS?  CoupleInMD79: Long story short, we found ourselves looking for a little fun lay year by ordering the Playboy channel. We both started watching the show" swing" on Saturday nights. We eventually came around to asking each other "how do you think we would do in a swing life style?" Well..that started the curiosity going for both of us. ......Read more of CoupleInMD79's interview here.

May 18-25:  kikonkrome
MrDiscover:
Is being a multi-racial couple an issue when swinging, bad or good? kikonkrome: There are very few times I feel the difference in races from the people around me. Swinging is definitely one of them. Our favorite swing club is very racially mixed. That said there is still a racial divide.......Read more of kikonkrome's interview here.


All New Sexy Lingerie



  New Swinger Stories
Adult Spring Break 2015 (Part II) by slipstick50

After the long day and fun Thursday evening, we all slept in Friday morning a bit later than usual. By about 9 AM, I was up and peeked out of the room. Bob was already in the spa soaking by himself. A thermos pot of coffee was on the patio table with cups. I quietly left the room with Lori still sleeping. By the spa, I picked up a fresh towel and then got a cup of Bob’s coffee and in the nude moved over to the spa to quietly soak with Bob and drink coffee...

I Let Other Guys See and Feel My Wife's Breasts by cjhopper

We are getting near to the hotel. I like the Hilton with the bigger windows. We checked in and J did it with no bra on this whole time, a little wiggle/jiggle through the lobby please. Thank You Honey! We had to work our way to the check-in desk with all the people around. Anyway she was ready to get ready, so we went to the room. It was as they promised. A suite with a bedroom and a sitting area and work and lounge area...

Unicorns and Waterfalls Part I
by kikonkrome

Ginger wore bright yellow hot pants, and a form fitting, off white blouse. The clothes hugged her round chest, hips and rear. The bright colors contrasted and accentuated the milk chocolate tone of her skin. Copper toned curls cascaded over her shoulders. Her thigh high boots revealed the barest glimmer of a smooth brown thigh which I could not resist caressing as I put the car in gear and pulled away from the curb...

Unicorns and Waterfalls Part II by kikonkrome

We found ourselves waiting for the bathroom so we could get a brief shower. After all that fun a clean-up was highly in order. Geri had gone back to her hubby, John, with a big smile on her face. We told her we would say good bye when we were done.  “Where the fuck have you two been?” It was Robert who had spied us waiting for the bathroom. “We saw you walk off with that little unicorn and have searched the whole place!” I am guessing the smiles we had on our faces betrayed what had happened...

Reuniting With Old Friends by Tahoecple

Linda and I were in the paint section of the store trying to pick out the color and brand of paint that would best serve us. I bent over to read the small print on some paint cans not paying any attention to my surroundings when somebody swatted me on the ass. I sprung up, twirled around, and came face to face with Peggy. She and her husband Stan were standing behind us laughing...


Swinging Situational HELP!!!
SexEmblem One-Sided Swinging by: SexEmblem I can't really get advice from friends on this topic, so I setup this profile and I thought I'd ask you all for help as to what I should...
sweetgrly Only sex with husband at sex club by: sweetgrly My husband and I have been soft swapping for almost five years now. Which is mostly girl/girl and each with their own husband or wife. He will at times...
Liveitup314 Disappointing results and lessons learned by: Liveitup314 We first started looking for another couple in March of last year. We made a profile on site that we no longer use and were automatically upgraded to...
Shore2Please I prefer separate, He prefers same by: Shore2Please I am finding it interesting to see what others think and how you would handle. It has also opened up talk about...
ruralgal Desperately need advice please. by: ruralgal I'm new here. My husband of 25 yrs and I started swinging about 6 years ago. He encouraged it after we had a couple of drunken mfm's with male friends...
Shore2Please Girls Playing the Norm? by: Shore2Please We just joined this site and I am still exploring what it has to offer as far as advice. I have posted a few times and wrote about how...
jcc925 Rude behavior from playmate - Tell or not? by: jcc925 I have a playmate that drives me crazy with his texting habits. We will be in the middle of a sexual conversation and he will disappear. I understand...
waylate How would you feel and interpret this situation.. by: waylate I had an experience at a house party that I guess could be my confusion or not know how to do deal with it. My wife and I were invited to...
stockfun After swinging is this strange? Or normal? by: stockfun Hi everyone, I have been married for 21 years and on our last anniversary we decided to try our first experience that wasn't just the two of us. I found...
Ebonylehigh This couple is no fun for hubby. by: Ebonylehigh Hi all, so my issue is that this couple we have played with three times the husband and I have a over the moon type fun. His wife has a good time with...
loosegravel My Wife Is Losing Interest by: loosegravel My wife of 8 yrs and partner since 2002 eagerly embraced the lifestyle when we first started our relationship. Often she would peruse the few websites...
DestinyBandJ Why did they assume I was desperate? by: DestinyBandJ Hello everyone, this is J, having not posted for a while because usually most questions or scenarios posed are usually somewhere hidden within...
Lynandalex Help on the next step? How to move forward by: Lynandalex Well first of all long time lurker and first time poster. A little help with the next step as I don't know...
krys091 Separate play in swinging hurting our marriage by: krys091 So I'm not exactly sure this is where this question would go, but I don't know where else other than a swinger website to post about it...
Adventures in Swinging
johnstarx5 We have begun our journey in the Lifestyle - Not a good start by: johnstarx5 This is my 100 post! And this is a continuation of my member of the week interview. In my MOTW I stated GF and I...
Pklon Ever meet and played with a pornstar at a swingers club or resort? by: Pklon Has any ever been lucky to meet and played with a pornstar before?
njbm First hotel party is a big success! by: njbm My wife and I went to a lifestyle party at a hotel. The festivities started out as a romp on the bed in one of the bedrooms. People were considerate,...

First Swinging Experiences
Shore2Please I kissed a girl.... by: Shore2Please I posted another thread on my first swing experience and someone asked about my first experience with a woman. The back story is we were on a cruise,...
Pklon First Swingers Resort Experiences by: Pklon First time I went to the Hedonism was back in 2004. I was barely six months in the lifestyle as a single girl. I already had done quite a few things,...
Shore2Please Our unplanned first time by: Shore2Please  Hi, we just joined today and I said I would share our first time in the welcome page. Our first time was totally unplanned and looking back...
loosegravel My First MFM Experience by: loosegravel About 20 years ago my career had me living & working in a small town of about 2000 in South Texas, I became involved in a very intense relationship...
Trophy1802 Meeting another couple on my own for the first time by: Trophy1802 Even though my wife and I have been active in the LS for a little over three years, this weekend will be the first time that ...
3622maw We did it, our first MMF by: 3622maw What a crazy night, full of surprises and emotions. It was like riding a roller coaster, there were ups and downs throughout the night....
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Let's Talk About Sex

sunbuckus Is sex different for women than it is for men? by: sunbuckus A thread made a comment about sex being different for women because we're accepting something to be inserted inside our bodies whereas men...
asncpl The perfect time to take off condom for facial? by: asncpl In reading the other threads about facial, a thought popped into my head that I have been wondering for a while. When we play with condoms on, I usually...
beckysue30 Need advice from all people in swinger community about Porn by: beckysue30 My boyfriend and I swing sometimes (I did this in a previous relationship and brought him into this while we dated). I wanted to see your...
SW_PA_Couple My need for variety. by: SW_PA_Couple There are people whom I have met in the lifestyle who are interesting, have given me new prospective on life and who have become part of my life. But,...


STD & Safe Sex Issues

angelkin Does age play a factor in swinging bareback? by: angelkin A couple of recent, unrelated posts, have me wondering if age plays a factor in bareback play. I mean, as we age, does the STD risk seem or appear to...
cplnuswing Do you seek out swingers who are "surgically safe"? by: cplnuswing Swinger profiles often state a reproductive status, especially for the guys it seems. It leads me to wonder do people do that just because...
ErikaAndPeter Unwanted pregnancies and sterilization by: ErikaAndPeter As newbies, my husband and I have learned so much here. We greatly appreciate the community at Swingers Board. As we are seeking to become more...
sunbuckus Swing partner slipping off condom and playing bareback without your consent? by: sunbuckus Ladies, have you experienced a situation where a swing partner put a condom on but you suspect/saw that...
wwjdcb Recent health scare thoughts? by: wwjdcb Hey all. Hubby here. Recently my wife had her annual check up upon which she was directed to have a follow up concerning cells. During the follow up...



Curious About Swinging

Bashbro2844 Mfm advice by: Bashbro2844 Me and my gf have discussed having a mfm threesome. It's my fantasy not her's. We have decided on someone we don't know but she wants to have him alone...
lickitwett Newly Bi wife on fence saying yes to meet others for real by: lickitwett My wife wants to play but is nervous. We have met others to get to know them, but nothing further. How can I help convince...
sidd208 Hey all, question about threesomes! by: sidd208 My wife and I are 24. We've just started talking about the possibility of threesomes with another woman and I am very excited!!
Chickn70 Starting to talk and hit a roadblock by: Chickn70 Recently the girlfriend and I have started discussing fantasies and turns out she's actually suggested swinging. We've been dating...
PandO Is it a good idea to be friends? by: PandO We have not done anything yet, I am wondering is it a good idea to make friends get to know them and then get engaged in sex, or just meet just for sex?
wetrafters Feeling selfish by: wetrafters Hello, my husband (of 14 years) and I have decided to try swinging, however, I have some reservations about him being with another woman. He expresses...
Keely52255 Question about Rules females have to follow by: Keely52255 I am new to swinging and my husband is taking us to a big swinger party later this summer I am nervous about women not obeying the same rules...
ste3526 New - how to tell wife by: ste3526 Is there anyone out there who can give me some advice or tips? I have been together with my wife for fifteen years and married for eight years,...
ohbehave1980 Couple looking for excitement - need advice by: ohbehave1980 We are happily married, 35 year olds. We have both talked about pursuing new and kinky experiences to give our sex a boost. One fantasy...
averageguyIntroduction - jealous wife by: averageguy >I'm interested in trying swinging with my wife. We are both high drive and have daily sex. Married 2 years, no kids. I've...
blacknylon New to this, trying to get foot in the door by: blacknylon I'm a 25 Bi Single male. I want to go to a swinger party, closest one I found to me in Florida. Every time I call to make a reservation, there is no single...
Orunge Girlfriend is starting to share some more wild fantasies by: Orunge I've been dating a woman for a couple years now who was very new to sexuality when we started. I am her first and so far only...
Mbgdallas Confidence vs arrogance by: Mbgdallas As a newbie thinking about swinging I have read a lot about how to meet others in clubs. One thing that keeps coming up a lot is to be confident in your...
Ravenrsr How to keep it discreet by: Ravenrsr Hey! New here and diving in with my first question. My wife and I are both professionals. We are in a small town in a small country! So...
NandM78 Moving from fmf to couple swap or mfm by: NandM78 Hi everyone, my wife and I are very open sexually, there is probably little that we haven't tried or talked about, and we both love sex. We are stable,...
muzz4290 Curious about swinging and also bi-curious by: muzz4290 I am new to these boards and new to the swinging life style. I am curious about swinging and also bi-curious. Are there ways to go about exploring this...
bmv2011 How to find the unicorn or g/g play? by: bmv2011 Hello everyone, I am 24 years old and have been married to my high school sweetheart for a little over 4 years. Our relationship was always very traditional...
GoodTimes1983 Finding couples with similar rules by: GoodTimes1983 We are new to the forums and what started out as trying to find a female for my wife to play with has now possibly turned into a FMF threesome with possible...
BrewstersShade Wife is fully interested in swinging... now what? by: BrewstersShade Hello, I am new and curious to the idea of swinging. I'm a married 26y guy to a 25y lady. I guess I am just trying to figure out...
babycakes5219 Curious But Unsure If I Will Get Jealous by: babycakes5219 I'm pretty open to a lot of things with my boyfriend. He wants to start swinging because he has in the past. I'm not worried about him. I'm worried...
silverbarlt Is same room sex a good place to start? by: silverbarlt Did anyone start out with same room monogamous sex? I realize this is very vanilla for this board, but I'm curious if people have/have not or they just...
AtoZ Interested in swinging but not quite ready by: AtoZ We have deep interest in swinging but I feel like we aren't there yet. I realize swinging is a serious thing and can easily enhance or destroy a relationship...


Swinging Online


sunbuckus Questionable photos in online swinger profiles by: sunbuckus I'll preface this post by saying that I don't look at online profiles often but there are times when certain photos give you a "questionable"...
funcoupledayton Ignore or respond? by: funcoupledayton Today I was listening to the Savage Love Podcast (so entertaining!) and Dan Savage was addressing a question about replying to online interest on hook...
BeStylnIT Flirting in the beginning? by: BeStylnIT When I'm emailing a couple for the first time I try to avoid sounding like a heavy breathing creeper. Maybe I'm going too far with my emails and sounding...



Swinging at  Clubs, Socials, and Hotels
kikonkrome Guys Getting All Gropy...Sigh by: kikonkrome So we went to an all bi club, which we thought would be a bit intense. The ratio of men to women was easily two to one. All the normal rules seem to...
Mr_Burns Club Code Of Conduct? by: Mr_Burns I've been googling around to try and find something to guide me through how to act at a swinger's club, but all I seem to come across...
rissianhotwife Swingers in Russia by: rissianhotwife Hi. As I promised I tell you about swinger culture in Russia. Swinger lifestyle is new in Russia but is becoming very popular. We have a...
kikonkrome Gauging Interest and Crossing the Line from Chit Chat to Let's Do It? by: kikonkrome Interested in any tips for gauging other couple's interest levels. Honestly we can chat away with a couple that...
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Swingers and Sex Positivity in the News
cplnuswing Sued by neighbors over swinger parties by: cplnuswing I guess somebody is mad they were left off the invite list...
two4youinswva Jada, Will, and their "open marriage" in the news again. by: two4youinswva One of the Swingers Board's favorite celebrity couples is back in the news...
cplnuswing The Last Old School Orgy in New York by: cplnuswing Read about The Last Old School Orgy in New York at Vice.com.
cplnuswing Woman fights to keep sex club out of her Dalton building by: cplnuswing This one is worth a watch just for the entertainment value if nothing else.

Swinging Separately & Open Marriages
allmylight+dark Men, how do you do a hall pass? by: allmylight+dark We're nearly three years into the LS (nine years happily married). Last year, we experimented with DW having freedom to do solo...

BiSexuality & Swinging
purple4215 Bi-curious and don't know how to make the first move by: purple4215 We soft swap with another couple and we do it all besides kissing and penetration. Other female and I have briefly touched each other...

Swingers Personals


Sexual Toys & Sexual Aids
MrDiscover Review: Crave Flex, a programmable pocket vibrator by: MrDiscover Hi all! I like to share a review of a new vibrator with you all. Please let me know if this is appreciated! The review is split into a few...
two4youinswva A dildo package for widows. I think I have now seen it all. by: two4youinswva This hand-blown glass dildo contains a small gold-plated urn, which can hold up to 21 grams of your beloved's ashes.

Sexual Fetishes & Fantasies
Sirramm Shower vs. grower.... by: Sirramm My wife and I both want to find a real true shower! I'm more a grower...there is no doubt when I have an erection...LOL...but the wife and I have a huge...
Swinging at Home & House Parties
M1F2KTJ Home or Away? by: M1F2KTJ Do you feel more comfortable playing at home or away like in a motel room? We've had awesome experiences both ways. Does it really matter? Some people...
AskMeOk Taken from another thread, what does "well vetted" mean to you? by: AskMeOk OK, here is the situation: We have just moved into a home that is perfect for entertaining.... and it is 250 miles from "home"...

Body Image, Modification, & Hygiene
asncpl Humidity and bloatedness by: asncpl I recently moved from sunny and dry California to a rainy, hot and humid part of the world for a month or two, and besides having bad hair day everyday...




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