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Welcome to our new members who introduced themselves recently: De&Me, GA30Couple, PASSIONATE MAN, longhorn24, Thepretty1/2, Jaguarxke, frankie70, otis69, sincitygent, cccslc, SexinDE, JandALove, BritishGuy, Thejohnsons, zipper180, fantasyunfilled, Boredwifenhubby, blitzen, Realgoodbadgirl, Hottie2, 2bestfriends727, Necros5, respect4all, AlanBell.  If you haven't introduced yourself yet, please stop by and do so, or come by to tell our newest members we're glad to have them!


Swingers Talk



sunbuckus Ownership, possession, and control - does it have a place in swinging? by: sunbuckus A recent thread had me wondering if ownership, possession, and the need to control one's partner has a place in swinging or ...
libertymoon Negative gossip talk - is it a turn off? by: libertymoon  Hello, all. I was wondering if others have had a similar situation. We met a couple and they seemed nice. There wasn't a four-way sexual attraction ...
Glida A Swinger's Instincts! by: Glida  We are the only species that will sense 'something's not right' but walk into the situation anyway. In the wild the gazelle will have bolted and ran ...
sunbuckus The positive side of rejection when swinging by: sunbuckus  I've been on both sides of rejection--the receiver and giver--as I am sure all of you have. We all know that many variables go into attraction and if ...
sunbuckus Hobbist vs professional expert in swinging by: sunbuckus  Recently, I saw something totally unrelated to swinging but it was in regards to a group of people giving advice, writing articles, and basically being ...
MrMarvin The "Mecentric" Couple by: MrMarvin  It dawned on my wife and I a few weeks back that we seem to run into a number of "mecentric" couples in the lifestyle. We seem to have run into ...
ndcouple108 How do you say it - turning someone down? by: ndcouple108 Hi all, we're new to the lifestyle...but we haven't posted an intro yet...Anyway, we've been into this for a couple months, had some fun ...
sunbuckus Pity swinging sex - would you have sex with a playmate when they aren't having fun? by: sunbuckus  Let's say you and your partner have stayed at home for the weekend but you know a couple that you have played with on several occasions has ...
sunbuckus Jealousy - did you have none at all or did you have to work through it to swing? by: sunbuckus  One of the most common questions on this site is how to swing if one experiences jealousy. Or you have the other spectrum and ...
sunbuckus Do you prefer meeting one-on-on or in a group setting with other swingers? by: sunbuckus  Mr. Sun and I are the quiet, reserved type but we have had great experiences from attending big house parties. However, lately we haven't been as comfortable ...
sunbuckus Swinging - is it a bit of a power trip for you? by: sunbuckus  Before we started swinging, I was incredibly doubtful of my attractiveness to other men. I truly felt that no men really saw me in that way. So, it ...
sunbuckus Separating love from sex--does it have unintended consequences? by: sunbuckus  Sex for sex is fun. Sex with love is both special and fun. I know that all of us who have engaged in swinging sex can ...

Swingers Polls & Never-Ending Threads


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  New Swinger Stories
A Little FOURplay on Vacation by GA30couple

I'd been down at the pool frolicking and came up for a minute to clean up. You were naked in the hotel room, but that wasn't unusual, so I walked in and I kissed you. My tongue swirled in on yours and I knew that distinctive taste............READ MORE

Winter Meet and Greet by slipstick50

On one of our recent local hotel mini-vacation outings, another local professional couple, Liz and Bob, with whom we are slightly acquainted, was also having drinks and dinner the same evening at the hotel's restaurant. As we were walking into the restaurant dining room area about 7 P.M. with the host to be seated, they called us over to say hello and ask us join them at their booth...........READ MORE

Swinging Situational HELP!!!
njbm We'll know two couples at house party--how to handle? by: njbm  A couple contacted us on a site. After emails, they invited us to a house party. We then met another couple in person, we like them and would like to...
Lundy How to approach a single male? by: Lundy The Ms. and I are ready to partake in our first MFM, we are not sure how to approach any potential players. The Ms. is somewhat shy and has a hard time...
warrencple He plays, she doesn't? by: warrencple  So last night, the wife and I went to a small play party at a semi-localish hotel. We'd met the host couple a year or so ago at another party, signed up and...
Thepretty1/2 1 week after first soft swap- advice? (It's long, so don't say I didn't warn ya!) by: Thepretty1/2 Let me start off by saying we've been in the lifestyle on and off for 3 years, so I thought we had a handle on things by now. I play separately with girls...
plastow Mistakes on first ever swing by: plastow  Hi I,m a 67 year old man married to my wife for 48 years now. Both our friends and us decided we would like to have sex with one another. We thought we...
Cubemex First MFM--mixed review by: Cubemex  My wife and I just had our first MFM experience after years of talking about it and it was a mixed experience. We first met him at a swingers club where...
Adan Hi, I need Help so I came here by: Adan  Hi from California, I'm new to all this. I need opinions on something I wanted to do and now is bothering me. I've been married for a year...
Mainecouple01 Why am I ok with hubby being with some women but not others? by: Mainecouple01  My husband and I have been in the lifestyle for about 2 years now. We have enjoyed numerous experiences with couples that have been...

First Swinging Experiences
Psquared First experience: hotel takeover part 3 by: Psquared  Sorry this has taken so long for me to finish, computer issues. Let me introduce the players: Husband and Wife, favorite couple are Jack and...
couplers Poll: Was your first swinging experience planned or spontaneous? by: couplers The question crossed my mind about the ratio of couples that thought through their first swinging encounter versus those couples that just fell into it...

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Let's Talk About Sex

johnstarx5  I want to join the mile high club  by: johnstarx5  GF and I have flight planned and we are talking about joining the mile high club. She is the free spirit of the relationship...
SW_PA_Couple Thinking with my dick. by: SW_PA_Couple  OK, so I have been accused of thinking with my dick. I have a question. Does a woman ever think with her hips?
sunbuckus Periods - do you schedule around them or play right through them? by: sunbuckus  This is for all the ladies: when you know it's close to that time of the month, do you hold off on going out to swing? Do you...


Curious About Swinging

kittycat43 First Time Experience Swinging by: kittycat43 My husband and I are knew to the idea of swinging.We have had 2 FMF experiences with friends. We don't know what to expect if we meet a couple...
shadowpuppet Sharing My Partner VS Disliking Men by: shadowpuppet Greetings, I have an unusual dilemma. I fantasize about sharing my partner for HER pleasure but am hesitant due to the fact that...
sproot Mature couple inquires on how to begin their swinging journey in a small town by: sproot  My wife and I have never done this before. She is 72, 5ft 3 inches and 110 pounds. I am 75, 6 ft 1 inch and 190 pounds. We have discussed swinging...
Thejohnsons Opinion on watching others for first swing experience by: Thejohnsons  We have never tried swinging any one else think it's a good idea to just start out watching and being watched.. I am very nervous about the whole thing...
kittycat43 Married female new to the idea of swinging by: kittycat43 I am a 43 year old female. I am interested in exploring my sexual cravings. I am married to a wonderful man who isn't able to always perform. We have...



Swinging Online


Shorecpl4u  Craigslist post decoder by: Shorecpl4u  We all cruise Craiglist from time to time. Here's a post decoder that should help. Saw the following on line and think whoever...
Shorecpl4u "Classy couple" in online swinger profiles....wtf by: Shorecpl4u  Probably just another pet peeve but, I want to scream when I read a profile that describes the couple as classy. I was raised by good parents who told...

Shorecpl4u Why are there so few male pics on SLS profiles? by: Shorecpl4u  I guess I can call this a pet peeve but, more so I just don't understand why couples have a dozen pictures of the wife but none of the husband. You would...
prinmattus Free vs paid profiles by: prinmattus  Me and the hubby were contacted by a couple that doesn't live far from us and we have alot of the same interests. We exchanged numbers, spoke once on...



Swinging at Clubs, Socials, and Hotels
BeStylnIT A 1st time club visit question by: BeStylnIT  Is having a profile on a lifestyle dating site beneficial to being social at the club?
two4youinswva Swingers' Clubs using banquet halls as facilities. How common is this? by: two4youinswva  Have you attended a swingers' club in a banquet hall? Are you aware of any clubs that go in this direction? What are your thoughts about this arrangement?

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Swingers and Sex Positivity in the News
MrDiscover Dutch city council supports a new swingers club by: MrDiscover  A majority of the Cuijk City Council supports the plan to start a swingers club in a vacant house in the village of...
cplnuswing Swinging in Cosmopolitan magazine - We have arrived! by: cplnuswing  The April 2015 issue of Cosmopolitan has a rather nice feature article on swinging, the teaser is...
two4youinswva Vice: "Things I've learned as a French swinger" by: two4youinswva The Things I've Learned After Years of Being a French Swinger | VICE | United States. This lifestyle choice has allowed me to discover many...
two4youinswva Arlington, TX house party decides to move instead of fighting city by: two4youinswva  Arlington swingers club misses deadline to appeal city -Star-Telegram
two4youinswva Residents learn swingers parties at local hotel are legal and won't be stopped (UK) by: two4youinswva Stanley residents told authorities can take no power against 'swingers parties' taking place at Spa Hotel - Chronicle Live
two4youinswva Denver gets a new swingers' club by: two4youinswva 3090 Eden: Introducing Denver's new swingers club - Denver | Denver News and Events | Westword  What's the back story of 3090 Eden?
two4youinswva Asst Fire Marshall tips off swingers' club about inspectors by: two4youinswva  Fire marshal tipped swinger's club, reprimanded. The city’s Bureau of Human Resources investigated Jones’ dealings with Club Sesso and found...
two4youinswva Polyamory in Vermont. by: two4youinswva  Exploring the Ins and Outs of Polyamory | Love + Marriage | Seven Days | Vermont's Independent Voice.  Betsy (who asked that her last name...
two4youinswva Judge rules against polyamorist (Australia) by: two4youinswva'Polyamorous' woman loses fight with Catholic Church.  A woman has lost a bid for compensation after she was sacked by a Catholic Church...
two4youinswva Vice Article: "I had a sex slave" by: two4youinswva I Had a Sex Slave, and It Was Awesome | VICE | United States.  He bought me a drink, and right away we got into the specifics. We had to...

Swinging Separately & Open Marriages
hasema  Used to play separately, husband wants to change it by: hasema  Hello. I am wanting some advise. My wife and I have been in the lifestyle for a few years now and have had some great times. I have to travel and spend...
SW_PA_Couple Calling "Open Marriage"; how far should this declaration be allowed to take you. by: SW_PA_Couple A new profile appeared at a swingers' Web site. It starts out like this, "My wife isn't into this but I have an open marriage and I want to meet...


Sexual Fetishes & Fantasies
LFM2 For those who've seen "Fifty Shades of Grey"... Would you? by: LFM2 I've read the books, but have not seen the movie. I'm not even sure if they could go into as much detail in the movie that they did in...

Body Image, Modification, & Hygiene
Shorecpl4u Tip for the mature guys with grey body hair by: Shorecpl4u  I'm not real hairy but, have it in the usual places. When I hit my forties my chest hair was graying quite a bit and I was a little self conscious about...
sunbuckus Does weight gain or weight loss affect how you are attracted to a playmate? by: sunbuckus  It's all part of being human. Sometimes we gain weight, sometimes we lose weight...but when you see the change in a play partner, does it...

STD | Safe Sex Issues
kittycat43 Condoms - what options are there for oral sex? by: kittycat43 Newbie here: Some couples require condoms but what do they do for oral sex for protection...




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