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Member of the Week
Excerpt from the interview:
Fundamental Law: Have you observed
any differences in [the
children's]relationship now that they are
seeing palpably different and open lines
of communication between the two of you?
GoldCoCouple: We both refer to this
as the 'vicious circle' effect. When
things start going bad, it's easy to
create a vicious downward circle or spiral
as both parties get their feelings hurt
and....Click to read more of
GoldCoCouple's Member of the Week
Excerpt from the interview:
cplnuswing: You've described how the
logistics work when you are all at
home,but what is it like when you are away
from home? Do you make it a point to
all vacation together at the same time,
just kind of split off into different
groups depending on who has an interest in
going on whereever that particular trip is
going, or ?
couplers: It's works pretty much the
same when we are away from home -
basically,there are no "rules". We
try to be together whenever possible, but
whatever any of us can make work is what
we do. For instance,the four of us
can....Click to read more of
couplers' Member of the Week interview.
|September 8-14: SwingSetWife
Except from the interview:
GoldCoCouple: Of course we need the
obligatory story of how you two got
SwingSetWife: Well, we met through
work when I was 18. He is a truck
driver, I was a cashier at a truck stop.
We were both with other people at
the time, and I actually got engaged
shortly after. Ileft that job
and.....Click to read more of
SwingSetWife's Member of the Week
|September 15-21: CalendarGirl
Except from the interview:
JandKinBoise: How do you keep the
hordes at bay at a meet and greet?
Or do you meet strictly from SLS or
sites like it? Is it possible to
keep your ego in check? If I was
having attention lavished on me,I would
get kinda full of myself.
CalendarGirl: It's quite easy
actually! I've been to maybe 4 meet
and greets and have NEVER been approached.
I've attended swing clubs alone and
have NEVER been approached. Yup, I'm
a unicorn that can't get....Click to read more of
CalendarGirl's Member of the Week
|September 22-28: Tahoecple
Except from the interview:
SW_PA_Couple: Do you keep a garden?
If yes, what grows on the garden?
Tahoecple: Yes, we do have a garden,
or I guess it would be more accurate to
say she has a garden. She grows
tomatoes, Italian peppers.....
Click to read more of
Tahoecple's Member of the Week
Message Board Digest
Welcome to our new members who introduced
themselves this week: BASins, hippi,
Sunflower, AshleyandMark, Boomereng,
Super_Nova, ewev67, anythinggoes034,
tune up man, cordaya, benhui87,
bingers69, joejoan, need4swing,
FloridaCpl381, hulihan, curiouscouple54,
Newinmidlo, electrics, Glida, Teton69,
pacpl4fun69, krepleknik, rnk_m-fin_k,
lcc90012, LifeErotique, CandyCane,
tprchris, happytom, dhalia313, kyn4ser,
coupleforfun50, max_samantha, Aries2,
pslcouple1. If you
haven't introduced yourself yet, please
stop by and do so, or come by to show our
newest members we're glad to have them.
After the first time
with another man, how did she act?
by M1F2KTJ asks how the male half of a
couple felt after seeing their partner
have sex with someone else in front of
Is bringing your SO to
Swingersboard always a good idea? by
SW_PA_Couple ponders if having both halves
of a relationship browse the Swingersboard
as being helpful or not.
When your partner quits
swinging and you don't - my story by
Super_Nova shares his story regarding
swinging and his relationships.
Sexy or degrading?
by velveeta contemplates the dissonance
between her identity and the appearance of
other women in the LS.
Yourdesire expresses his doubts about his
own physical limitations and wonders if
they will hamper his success as a swinger.
Swing-Curious Women Who
Aren't Interested in Other Men... by
sunbuckus asks what reasons there are as
to why some women who arenew to swinging
aren't interested in having sex with other
Would there be a need
for swinging in the future? by
sunbuckus asks about the possibility of
the human race transcending the basic need
to have sex and swinging.
Is it ever 'off"? by
Glida asks what the "off" in "We've been
in the LS off and on" means and when an
"off" means a "stay off".
fortworth asks if other members text
playmates and if it can lead to future
After party - what
happens after swinging playtime by
M1F2KTJ asks what members do after they
have had their swinging playtime at a
Nudist beach... Do
you feel like getting naked? by
Glida asks if members are interested in
going to a nudist beach and why nudists
like to be in the nude.
Male stripper for my
wife by buckeyev asks for
recommendations on where to go and what to
do when trying to arrange a male stripper
for his wife's enjoyment.
The Power of
Vulnerabilty by intuition897 writes
how important it is to make one's self
vulnerable to one's partner to solve
Would people who don't
know you sexually be surprised by your
sexual personality? by couplers asks
if others who don't know you in a sexual
manner would be surprised by your sexual
For the love of cum by
new&Playful asks how to increase the
volume of his semen.
No orgasms = irritable
by sunbuckus asks forum members if they
get irritable if they haven't had sex or
an orgasm after a few days.
At what age did you
start your sexual exploration with
yourself? by sunbuckus wonders if
starting one's sexual journey at a young
age isa factor in one's interest in
swinging or non-monogamy later in life.
Dirty talk part II.
What do you say? by gsu22 asks
members what they call partners in bed
when engaging in dirty talk.
Coming Clean with My
Wife About Who I Am by
new&Playful writes about his decision
to talk to his wife about being bisexual
and desiring to to explore swinging.
for couples beginning their swinging
journey by Jbgriffcle asks for any
advice geared toward a couple who is new
to the LS.
Male Revues in Las Vegas
by Brkshrcpl asks for advice on where to
go and what to do when trying to engage in
a MFM by using a stripper.
My married cock made me
do it by new&Playful asks for
advice on his decision to find a couple to
help convince his wife to swing before
talking to her about it.
New to the scene in SF,
would love some help with specific
questions! by tprchris asks about
having a partner just for swinging,
whether his age/experience/ethnicity is an
issue, and for any specific advice about
swinging in San Francisco.
A couple of Pet Peeves
in swinger profiles by AngelandTiger
share their dislike for profiles that
aren't forthright in regards to weight and
the phrase "We're picky because we can
Have you tried the
updated version of SLS yet? by
two4youinswva asks what other members
think of the updated look of SLS.
Anyone used Quiver yet?
by SexyRedmondCpl asks if other members
have tried out a new swing site called
Ideas for profile pics -
male firefighter by ENCRYPTEDTX
wants to know of any tips on how to make
himself more appealing for his profile
Rural Swinging - Hard
times in the flatlands by Aries2 has
been having a hard time finding other
swingers due to their location.
Poly and Swinging
Confession by sunbuckus reveals
how she feels after getting a brief
taste of polyamory.
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