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Welcome to our new members who introduced
themselves recently: De&Me,
GA30Couple, PASSIONATE MAN, longhorn24,
Thepretty1/2, Jaguarxke, frankie70,
otis69, sincitygent, cccslc, SexinDE,
JandALove, BritishGuy, Thejohnsons,
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AlanBell. If you haven't
introduced yourself yet, please stop by
and do so, or come by to tell our newest
members we're glad to have them!
possession, and control - does it have a
place in swinging? by: sunbuckus
A recent thread had me wondering if
ownership, possession, and the need to
control one's partner has a place in
swinging or ...
gossip talk - is it a turn off? by:
Hello, all. I was wondering if others have
had a similar situation. We met a couple
and they seemed nice. There wasn't a
four-way sexual attraction ...
Swinger's Instincts! by: Glida
We are the only species that will sense
'something's not right' but walk into the
situation anyway. In the wild the gazelle
will have bolted and ran ...
positive side of rejection when swinging
I've been on both sides of rejection--the
receiver and giver--as I am sure all of
you have. We all know that many variables
go into attraction and if ...
vs professional expert in swinging
Recently, I saw something totally
unrelated to swinging but it was in
regards to a group of people giving
advice, writing articles, and basically
"Mecentric" Couple by: MrMarvin
It dawned on my wife and I a few weeks
back that we seem to run into a number of
"mecentric" couples in the lifestyle. We
seem to have run into ...
do you say it - turning someone down?
Hi all, we're new to the lifestyle...but
we haven't posted an intro yet...Anyway,
we've been into this for a couple months,
had some fun ...
swinging sex - would you have sex with a
playmate when they aren't having fun?
Let's say you and your partner have stayed
at home for the weekend but you know a
couple that you have played with on
several occasions has ...
Polls & Never-Ending Threads
Poll of the Week:
do you prefer to take the lead during
sex? - Stop by and let us know!
|A Little FOURplay on
Vacation by GA30couple
I'd been down at the pool frolicking and
came up for a minute to clean up. You were
naked in the hotel room, but that wasn't
unusual, so I walked in and I kissed you.
My tongue swirled in on yours and I knew
that distinctive taste............READ
Meet and Greet by slipstick50
On one of our recent local hotel
mini-vacation outings, another local
professional couple, Liz and Bob, with
whom we are slightly acquainted, was also
having drinks and dinner the same evening
at the hotel's restaurant. As we were
walking into the restaurant dining room
area about 7 P.M. with the host to be
seated, they called us over to say hello
and ask us join them at their
know two couples at house party--how to
handle? by: njbm
A couple contacted us on a site. After
emails, they invited us to a house party.
We then met another couple in person, we
like them and would like to...
to approach a single male? by: Lundy
The Ms. and I are ready to partake in our
first MFM, we are not sure how to approach
any potential players. The Ms. is somewhat
shy and has a hard time...
plays, she doesn't? by: warrencple
So last night, the wife and I went to a
small play party at a semi-localish hotel.
We'd met the host couple a year or so ago
at another party, signed up and...
week after first soft swap- advice?
(It's long, so don't say I didn't warn
ya!) by: Thepretty1/2
Let me start off by saying we've been in
the lifestyle on and off for 3 years, so I
thought we had a handle on things by now.
I play separately with girls...
on first ever swing by: plastow
Hi I,m a 67 year old man married to my
wife for 48 years now. Both our friends
and us decided we would like to have sex
with one another. We thought we...
MFM--mixed review by: Cubemex
My wife and I just had our first MFM
experience after years of talking about it
and it was a mixed experience. We first
met him at a swingers club where...
I need Help so I came here by: Adan
Hi from California, I'm new to all this. I
need opinions on something I wanted to do
and now is bothering me. I've been married
for a year...
am I ok with hubby being with some women
but not others? by: Mainecouple01
My husband and I have been in the
lifestyle for about 2 years now. We have
enjoyed numerous experiences with couples
that have been...
experience: hotel takeover part 3
Sorry this has taken so long for me to
finish, computer issues. Let me introduce
the players: Husband and Wife, favorite
couple are Jack and...
Was your first swinging experience
planned or spontaneous? by: couplers
The question crossed my mind about the
ratio of couples that thought through
their first swinging encounter versus
those couples that just fell into it...
want to join the mile high club
I have flight planned and we are talking
about joining the mile high club. She is
the free spirit of the relationship...
with my dick. by: SW_PA_Couple
OK, so I have been accused of thinking
with my dick. I have a question. Does a
woman ever think with her hips?
- do you schedule around them or play
right through them? by: sunbuckus
This is for all the ladies: when you know
it's close to that time of the month, do
you hold off on going out to swing? Do
Time Experience Swinging by: kittycat43
My husband and I are knew to the idea of
swinging.We have had 2 FMF experiences
with friends. We don't know what to
expect if we meet a couple...
My Partner VS Disliking Men by: shadowpuppet
Greetings, I have an unusual dilemma. I
fantasize about sharing my partner for HER
pleasure but am hesitant due to the fact
couple inquires on how to begin their
swinging journey in a small town by:
My wife and I have never done this before.
She is 72, 5ft 3 inches and 110 pounds. I
am 75, 6 ft 1 inch and 190 pounds. We have
on watching others for first swing
experience by: Thejohnsons
We have never tried swinging any one else
think it's a good idea to just start out
watching and being watched.. I am very
nervous about the whole thing...
female new to the idea of swinging
I am a 43 year old female. I am interested
in exploring my sexual cravings. I am
married to a wonderful man who isn't able
to always perform. We have...
post decoder by: Shorecpl4u
We all cruise Craiglist from time to time.
Here's a post decoder that should help.
Saw the following on line and think
couple" in online swinger
profiles....wtf by: Shorecpl4u
Probably just another pet peeve but, I
want to scream when I read a profile that
describes the couple as classy. I was
raised by good parents who told...
are there so few male pics on SLS
profiles? by: Shorecpl4u
I guess I can call this a pet peeve but,
more so I just don't understand why
couples have a dozen pictures of the wife
but none of the husband. You would...
vs paid profiles by: prinmattus
Me and the hubby were contacted by a
couple that doesn't live far from us and
we have alot of the same interests. We
exchanged numbers, spoke once on...
A 1st time club visit question by:
Is having a profile on a lifestyle
dating site beneficial to being
social at the club?
Clubs using banquet halls as
facilities. How common is this?
Have you attended a swingers' club
in a banquet hall? Are you aware
of any clubs that go in this
direction? What are your thoughts
about this arrangement?
and Sex Positivity in the
Separately & Open
Used to play
separately, husband wants to
change it by: hasema
Hello. I am wanting some advise.
My wife and I have been in the
lifestyle for a few years now and
have had some great times. I have
to travel and spend...
"Open Marriage"; how far should
this declaration be allowed to
take you. by: SW_PA_Couple
A new profile appeared at a
swingers' Web site. It starts out
like this, "My wife isn't into
this but I have an open marriage
and I want to meet...
Fetishes & Fantasies
those who've seen "Fifty Shades
of Grey"... Would you? by: LFM2
I've read the books, but have not
seen the movie. I'm not even sure
if they could go into as much
detail in the movie that they did
Image, Modification, &
for the mature guys with grey
body hair by: Shorecpl4u
I'm not real hairy but, have it in
the usual places. When I hit my
forties my chest hair was graying
quite a bit and I was a little
self conscious about...
weight gain or weight loss
affect how you are attracted to
a playmate? by: sunbuckus
It's all part of being human.
Sometimes we gain weight,
sometimes we lose weight...but
when you see the change in a play
partner, does it...
| Safe Sex Issues
- what options are there for
oral sex? by: kittycat43
Newbie here: Some couples require
condoms but what do they do for
oral sex for protection...
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