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  1. I'd have no problem posting about an experience, but certainly wouldn't name names. We feel the same about certs on SLS...it's nobody's business who we get together with, and we're not in the habit of broadcasting who we played with, never mind what we thought of them or did with them. However, if we were to meet someone from the board and all agreed that it would be OK to post about the meeting here, I suppose I might make a generic comment like "we met so-and-so couple and had a great time...what nice folks", but not, "wow, Mrs so-and-so gives great head". Sort of like the banter between those of you who went to the Ohio meet-up...fun stories but no explicit details.
  2. Well, on the one hand we have in-laws living in an in-law/duplex setup, so while they're not exactly living with us...in reality, they're living with us. Really cool people, but they're waaaay too close for comfortable playtime with anyone other than ourselves. Our house is 150 years old, so the walls aren't exactly soundproof either, and with back-to back bathrooms...well, you do the math Luckily, at least the bedrooms are on opposite sides of the house... Then on the other hand, we have two varieties of daughter living with us...the sophomore in college type and the just-turned-10-last-Friday type, both with friends who come and go (and sometimes stay) without much notice. The foot traffic in here can get pretty heavy pretty quickly. So needless to say, we never host and voted that way in the poll.
  3. That happens to me sometimes too, and it really sucks. I had one woman who was put off by that...she felt like it was her fault that I didn't get off. It took G's confirming that it sometimes happens when I'm with her too to relax her about that.
  4. Got room for one more? Don't worry, I'll keep my distance God...isn't that the truth! Just this morning, G tried on a new pair of jeans and asked how her ass looked in them. I said "delicious" to which she replied "lying bastard!"...with a smile. So I asked if she'd rather I responded like an ad I saw on tv the other day. The chick asks if the pants make her ass look fat, to which her SO replied "No, your fat ass makes your ass look fat". G though "delicious" was a better answer
  5. How about an Airborne Express guy? That's how I met G...I was the Airborne guy who picked up at her office every day. Her place of employment collects samples for drug tests, and sent them to the lab via Airborne. What a story to tell the grand-kids someday...I met your grandmother over bags of pee! M
  6. Same here with G...she hates hers too. We have very vanilla shots in our private folder...shots my family could see. But they show us together, as the loving couple we are. They not only show our faces very clearly, but let people see that we are a happy couple...or very good actors Agreed for the most part...though we have had a couple of experiences where the pics were MUCH better than the real person...almost to the point of wondering if it was the same person! THAT is a bummer... M
  7. Once a month or so...kids make more damn near impossible. M
  8. We wouldn't meet anyone that wouldn't at least share one face pic. While we agree that personality is more important to us than looks, we also want to know that there is at least a basic physical attraction. If a couple looks like they just crawled out of the woods after hibernating for the past two years, we'll probably pass. (think about that Nick Nolte mugshot for instance ) Some may find that superficial, I suppose, but if there isn't a basic attraction, how can you get excited about having sex with them, no matter how wonderful a personality they may have? For us, it's not just losing an hour. Our playtime, or getting out at all time for that matter, is very limited due to work and family obligations, and always requires some planning. So if we "take a chance" and hope for the best, we may well blow the only time we have that month to get out if we meet and they turn out to be that couple from the woods. Not that any meet is ever a sure thing...but if we at least see your faces in advance, we're not going to run into a situation that could have easily been avoided by trading pics. M
  9. Same here...exactly. If we were contacted by folks with an armful of certs, we'd probably not be all that interested. We're more into having a very few close regular friends, rather than folks who are out with someone different every weekend. We're not being judgmental about those that swing that way...to each his (or her) own...but that's just not us.
  10. They asked for exclusivity right out of the box...before you even met? Now THAT'S a new one on us...YIKES!! Feets, don't fail me now!!! M
  11. Your response was perfectly normal, acceptable and understandable. This guy is a dickhead, and you're better off to have found that out before anything happened, rather than after you've opened yourselves up to him. Keep looking...you'll find the right guy. It took us a while, but we eventually did.
  12. Be patient and give it some time. You will get a ton of responses, with all different varieties...good, bad, smart, stupid, classy, classless, clueless...you'll see them all. Take your time, sort through them, and pick a couple that look best and write back to them. You could also be more pro-active and write to a guy who's profile you find and like. There aren't a lot of single guys who wouldn't be receptive to a couple contacting them. Above all...be choosy, figure out exactly what you want in a guy and don't settle for less. M
  13. Damn...sorry we missed out on the contest running at the beginning of the thread. I'm pretty sure we'd have been in the running for that grand prize. We'll have to answer "other" too. I do all the online stuff...G is on a computer most of the day at work, and doesn't want to even see this one during the week. I show her anything that comes in, though I can usually tell who she'll like or not. I don't initiate a contact or reply to anyone without her seeing what goes out first. That way, we're both on the same page from step one. As for who's idea...it just sorta happened. I'd had the idea, but hadn't brought it up to her yet. One lazy weekend afternoon, we were kid-less for the day, and were just hanging out, taking a well deserved rest. G was laying on the couch watching a Lifetime movie or something, when she called me in to tell me that the lesbian scene she had just seen really turned her on. The conversation...and the sex...we then had was great, and we were off and running. I put an ad on AFF, and fairly quickly found a great woman that broke us into the lifestyle. She was a married woman who had permission to go out and play, but with a married couple only. (yup, we even had dinner with her and her husband...he had no interest in sex, but didn't want her running off.) So you tell me...who's idea was it?
  14. Tough call...both are very exciting. I picked fmf, probably because they are harder to make happen than an mfm, in terms of finding the other partner. We've only had a couple of those, compared to many mfm encounters. Either that, or I'm a just a greedy bastard M
  15. Why are some people into getting peed and/or pooped on? Who knows? Why are some people into getting the shit beat out of them while handcuffed to the ceiling? I don't get that either, but to each his own. I recently had an mpeg emailed to me of a guy cuffed to the ceiling, with some hotty blasting him with a full-force kick to the nuts. He takes the kick, then straightens right back up for another. It made me cringe (and reflexively cross my legs!) just watching it, but he was obviously into it... If it feels good to you, and doesn't hurt anyone else (unless that's the point of it and they are consenting adults), be my guest. As the line from the old Divinyls song goes..."it's a fine line between pleasure and pain"...(and I'll add perversion), so it's up to each of us to decide where that line is for ourselves. For G and I...we'll pass on the golden showers thanks, and other than a little nibbling in certain spots, and the occasional slap on the bum for G, we'll pass on the pain too. M
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