LakeLuvers

I voted for meet & greet, on premises, and off premises - then I realized that I've never been to an off premises club!! But I'm sure it would be a lot like an 'on premises' but without the rooms! Anyway - no pressure that way. Don't like them - we go about a fun evening anyway. Mrs. Lake

Hard question, and I hate to think that I'd ever have to choose, but I say intercourse. I don't think I could live without it, although I think both oral and mutual masturbation would be a very close 2nd/3rd. Mrs. Lake

I read that some are comfortable swinging without their SO/partner/spouse, but I wouldn't be comfortable alone. I like knowing Mr. Lake is there. We swing together. Mrs. Lake

Hard to pick a catagory. We had a few years of swinging about once or twice a month, then family happened, now it's only once or twice a year. We hope to get back to a 'busy' schedule next year. Mrs. Lake

A damn good analogy, actually! I've never heard this one before and I think it's great! But back to the point - I'd say keep talking. Communication is so very important. Don't rule it out for the future, keep talking about it, do some role playing in bed, and keep the communication going. But DO NOT participate until you are (both of you) comfortable with the situation! Good luck!

We've only had one MFM experience - everything else was soft swing. In that one instance Mr. Lake him to use a condom. I agreed. We do talk about not using one - I fantasize about being filled up - but I doubt we'd give in to that desire over the safety of the condom - unless we end up with a long-time sex partner.