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Meggybear

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About Meggybear

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  • Birthday March 25

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  • Relationship Status
    M. Female/Couple
  • Location
    Indiana
  • Interests
    Genealogy, Quilting, Soapmaking, Scrapbooking, Letterboxing & more
  • Occupation
    E-Commerce
  • Swinging Experience
    Haven't started yet

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  1. After our first experience, I really appreciated certain things about my husband that I had taken for granted. Then us being together again in our old familiar ways was really very hot!
  2. That's right--Mr and I had a fantastic time!! We had our first swap! We're both still smiling about the whole weekend. I was expecting to feel some twinge of jealousy, but figured I could handle it...but was not jealous at all!! Even though I had a great time with the other couple I can't believe how much being with someone else makes you really appreciate your "familiar" partner... Guess I'd been taking him for granted!
  3. Thanks everyone for being sincere and sweet and accepting. I think I can answer my own question now since I'm officially a swinger now!!! Hubby and I had first time this weekend. :) The guy didn't run out of the room screaming or anything! In fact he seemed to enjoy himself...(and so did the mrs)
  4. I'm still trying to reconcile...trying to make it okay (in my head) that I do this (swinging)... and that it's somehow normal. Maybe it's first-time jitters...or maybe it's because society has brainwashed me since birth to believe that sex is somehow wrong or bad or dirty? (Hmm...I like that dirty idea hehehehe) To the point: Does anyone have an idea what percentage of the us population is involved in swinging in any given year?
  5. Mr agreed to let me share this story of his: Before Mr and I met, he worked with my best friend (he was a year or two out of high school and she was 16 or 17). One day in January, they ended up going back to my friend's grandparents house (which was our designated party house since it was fully furnished but sat empty since both grandparents were deceased). They were getting it on in a recliner when my friend's aunt pulled up in the driveway to check on the house. My friend pushed Mr outside through the back door with only underwear on (JANUARY in INDIANA mind you!). Friend's aunt figured the whole thing out (hmmm....what gave it away? was it the big pile of clothes on the floor or the big hairy naked man looking at you through the sliding glass door?) and made Mr's parents come pick him up (pretty embarrassing for a 20-year old). Also embarrassing for his parents because they are so very vanilla (but 3/4 of their children choose alternative lifestyles. hmm...) Mr has always had a fantasy about having a threesome with my friend. The problem is that she's married now and she and I have been great friends for 15 years. I don't know if she'd be into it or not, but I would never want to ruin our friendship...so I'm afraid that's one fantasy that will have to stay in the imagination. Mr still holds a grudge (for lack of a better term) that he never got to cum during their short-lived session.
  6. I know this thread is pretty old, but I can't help but add this recent story of mine! Mr and I have 2 children...the youngest being two years old. About three weeks ago, we were at my mom's house (she's 59, divorced and lives alone) and my youngest wanders away to use grandma's potty. He came out of the bathroom waving around this GIGANTIC rubber dildo and saying "Grandma, what's this?!" over and over again (loudly of course). She nearly died! It was just family there, and we all thought it was hilarious...but she was so red. I hope it was clean... Meggybear
  7. Thanks for the responses. I know hubby loves me--but I am so nervous to entering something that is nearly equivalent to the dating scene. It's a bit intimidating for someone who hasn't been on the market (so to speak) for 8 1/2 years! Anyway, I think I'm brave enough to try to get us into a local on-site club this weekend. Should be interesting! Does everyone tend to take it slow, or do some of you just jump right in?
  8. My husband and I talked about swinging for the first time tonight, and I think he's interested! Obviously, we have a lot to talk about before we'd be ready for our first experience...but it's exciting to think what interesting encounters the future may hold for us. We have several clubs in the area and I think we'd like to try one out. I have never really done the bar scene before and don't know how well big girls are received. I've attached a G-rated pic...I'm not trying to solicit hookups / criticism / compliments...I just don't want to be too disappointed if I couldn't hookup. I guess I just want to have realistic expectations going into this.
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