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  • Birthday 05/16/1971

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    Happily Married Couple
  • Location
    LA
  • Interests
    sex
  • Swinging Experience
    2 years

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    Ready2xxxperiment

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  1. I would have asked her to play the rusty trombone of me to let me go chili-dogging. mainly to see her reaction.
  2. May guys experience stuffy nose or sniffles. MD said that’s how you know it’s working.
  3. Almost exclusively. due to work and family commitments, and scheduling around babysitters and the red tide, we break away for lifestyle fun 3 or 4 times per year.
  4. We don’t want to play with married “singles,” male or female. if they are willing to lie and sneak around on the person they professed to love, honor, cherish, and not forsake how the F—k can you trust them to keep a condom on and respect your boundaries. we try to weed these guys out. We really only play on Saturday nights, mainly due to our schedule. Most married men have trouble sneaking away on Saturday. Big red flag for us is if they are only available weekday, day time.
  5. Can’t say it’s my thing. Had one couple where we all played . Toward the end, me and Mrs. Shy were still going. The other female was watching, touching, and seemed to be into It. I could feel her fingers doing the walk and creeping closer but clenched up to deny entry.
  6. Santorini was beautiful. Hated Mykonos. Nice beaches overcrowded and terrible transportation options. although the beaches were clothing optional, there were sunbathers, families, and children everywhere we went. would assume that similar rules apply in Europe that would here. Nude beaches and sexuality aren’t synonymous. And sex on a public beach would get you thrown out or maybe arrested. maybe a little Google research. Possibly a little input from local groups.
  7. We went pre-Covid. Have several friends that rave about it but our experience wasn’t great. It is cozy and hidden. Host was super cool. We got the day pass and came Saturday afternoon with intent to stay for the swingers party after a day in the pools. both have a couple of extra lbs. 40s at the time, we fit right in with the other guests. all the chairs by the main pool were taken. So second row back with meh sunshine. Sat around the pool and swam a bit. Mineral hot springs are very nice. Then decided to explore a bit. Did the sauna and went to the pool house, party room which isn’t very spacious. Has a couple recliners and a round sofa in the middle of the room that gets moved to become a dance floor at night. A few people were fooling around outside but we wanted to get out of the wind and hopefully play on the the round sofa; nope. A couple decided to take a 3 hour nap instead. Back outside. Sun low in the sky, getting breezy go the fire pit was lit. Hugely smoky. Normally not too bothered but the wind was whipping the smoke in our eyes where we couldn’t see. Hot tub time. A couple of couples with us. We relaxed and enjoyed. Next thing you know 6 couples who had rented rooms came to the hot tub. Really rowdy, shot gunning Pabst and 420. Looked like they might have drove up in the Breaking Bad meth RV. back to the pool house. Couple finally up from their nap but now time to move the couch and open the dance floor. Not our scene so back to the pool. Crowd had thinned as sun went down so couple of chairs free but smoke still whipping in our eyes got back in the pool. snuggled, kissed, touched for a while. Until we noticed one of the “hill folk” had migrated to the main pool. Watched her take on 3 random dudes bareback under the water. finally we had enough around 930. Left. Went to one of the Casinos in the area for dinner and a little gambling. No desire to ever go back.
  8. Long time soft swappers here.https://www.swingersboard.com/forums/topic/94095-soft-swap/#
  9. We have just one side of, essentially, a story with 4 sides. in our experience, we have known couples who were really looking for a 3-some BUT could not find an elusive unicorn and agree to meet a couple. Sometimes it’s more about them living out their fantasy and inadvertently hurt someone’s feelings This could be what happened to you. You mentioned that you are still newbies. Was the other couple also newbies?
  10. Mrs. Shy is very similar with her I preferences. Main caveat is sensual kissing and breast play are okay but no kissing/licking/touching of either kitty. she is mostly straight but describes herself as “bi-situation Al but only from the waist up. We don’t always match, especially In A club setting but that’s okay.
  11. We only do soft (oral) swap so, yeah that would likely be a dealbreaker for us. However, we know and acknowledge that we are in the minority.
  12. There aren’t that many clubs in the LA area. The ones that are typically open on Fri & Sat. Randomly on a Sunday if a holiday weekend and Wednesday’s here and there. I see Club Labyrinth is open every other Thursday. This is the only outing we’ve had since Covid started. It scared us back into our Covid hibernation.
  13. What have you tried so far? With the name Jessica Rabbit and the pronoun “I” used heavily in your post, can only assume you are a female. That would make you the most in demand and sought after demographic in the lifestyle. like another poster said, join SLS, SDC, adult Friend Finder, etc. google local clubs, groups, swinger friendly events. Or try Double List which seems to have stepped in where Craigslist Personals left off. I’ve even seen hookups on Reddit. if you are a couple or single, please screen carefully on chat (don’t give out your cell/text off the bat). Meet in public place to check out the person before inviting for personal time. Don’t let your desire to get started cloud your personal safety choices. If your gut is telling you it’s a bad idea, listen.
  14. Not cuckold specifically but not terribly unusual for people to only play on vacation or when out of town in order to avoid family, friends, coworkers, neighbors, etc.
  15. There is something to be said for maturity. 21 year olds might be hot to look at, stay hard, or have almost zero refractory time but if you talk like you text, and your interests are all about caping and TikTok, it’s not going to matter. Yeah, a broadovergneralized, stereotype but hopefully you get the gist of where I’m headed. If there is a spark, see if it leads anywhere. Seems tough enough to meet people since Covid. Maybe it’s time for everyone to dip their toes outside their comfort zone.
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