love it! but intimidated by the what ifs... if I'm given fair warning (like a couple of hours) or know that we will be meeting someone, then I'll do an enema and just before we get down to business I'll do a quick finger douche just in case. Mainly my issue is a bit aof paranoia about feces showing up unexpectedly - I don't necessarily care all that much, but I have had a guy freak out on me about it (it was an unexpected hook up -- he got so deep that I had a huge anal orgasm (think kundalini) and unfortunately emptied a bit all over him and the sheets. It wasn't that much, but it was enough to gross him out completely (and I never saw him again... LOL). Now I'm just a little more careful about cleanliness. Maybe that's TMI, but oh, well. I don't mean to be gross - just frank.
But once it's in, OH MAN that is HEAVEN! A total psychological rush to feel so completely at another's loving mercy... for me it takes total surrender because after it's on, I'm too stoooopid to do much else besides hang on for the ride.