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  1. I am in my late 40s but can still pass for several years younger. I am attracted to women in their early 30s and often get couples in their late 20s. This has been the case for several years. As guys get older is it normal to find older women more attractive? I would think that would be the case and want that to be the case but have been unable to make it happen. How have others dealt with this?
  2. Great post, thank you for the info. We have had some discussions but are not there yet. Soft swap for about 4 years now and having a great time.
  3. I will tell you what happened when I told my Dr. I had an ingrown hair on my cock. I did not know that, I just saw a bump and was concerned. He took a look at it and said it looks like an ingrown hair but to be safe have you been messing around on your wife? You know you can tell me anything? So I told him that WE played around but no penetration (soft swap). He said: So you are some kind of swingers? There was anger in his voice and he stood up and got in my face. I was told that I needed to be checked for everything because I probably had all kinds of STDs. He stormed out of the room. I got to thinking about this as the nurse at the checkout window was asking me what kind of test I wanted to schedule (mind you this is all in ear shot of the other customers). I asked to see the Dr. again and in the hall asked him how he went from an ingrown hair to several hundred dollars of test. Voice raised and arms waving I get a lecture. I just paid my bill and left. A few days later it was clear it was an ingrown hair and I picked it out. A year later my new Dr. was working with me on a sinus infection that kept reappearing. He said I am going to have some test including HIV run on you. I don't bother to ask questions because too many people don't tell the truth. The test will give me the answers that I need. I liked his approach and thought it would be a good idea to take some STD test from time to time so I took them. Everything was clean and the Sinus infection went away in time with some nose spray.
  4. I would not say that it was ever an issue. At the time of the post we did not have as many experiences to pull from. We were ok either way then and are also now. It is never pre-planned. Some times the other guy will finish with my wife so I finish with his or the women may decide that they have to have a cock in them. If we have enough time we may do it both ways.
  5. You have been given a lot of really good advice here. One thing that I can add is if you are dealing with a competitor you may be able to cater to a different group that doesn’t feel welcome there. A new club has been started in my area and they have done an excellent job of packing the place out every month. They are even using the same location as their competitor that also meets once a month. The competitor tries to focus on a diverse group. This new club is after the older people. They have a lot of food and the dance music is all slow dancing with a focus on socialization. The wife and I don’t fit into this group but I talked to the owner and he was blunt enough to tell me that this group is where the easy money is. He said that once he got it big enough he might start one for the younger crowd. BTW, he spends a lot of time on SLS sending out personal invitations to people that he thinks would enjoy his club. If he can convince one new couple to come they will bring all their friends.
  6. Keep in mind that just because someone sees you at a lifestyle party does not mean you are in the lifestyle anymore than being seen at a gay bar makes you gay. There are a number of reasons why you may have been there. The problem is what you were seen doing while you were at the party, just like if you are a dude and you were seen dancing with another dude at a gay bar. Now you have a problem!
  7. We are a soft swap couple and have noticed that most of our friends finish off inside their spouse so we think that this is the norm. However, we have a few friends that like the visual effect of blowing their load on their playmates. How common is this?
  8. We’ve been accused of being beautiful people and often play with others that don’t fall in that category. If they contacted you, jump at the chance. I recently asked the Mrs. who her favorite play mate was and it was the worst looking guy in the group. There has to be enough attraction to get you in the door but only attitude and personality will get you back.
  9. Thanks Prettylady, I wondered about dwelling too much on the requirement for us to see both parties but we have had a real problem with that. As for being so far away there’s always Hedo! We meet lots of couples from Canada there.
  10. We would love to get some input on ours. We are Playtou on SLS. Thanks.
  11. We found ourselves in the same situation. My wife is the life of the party and very hot. Because she is so outgoing everyone expected her to pop the question but we were new and didn’t know what to do or how to go about it.
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