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Snake 'n Bunny

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About Snake 'n Bunny

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    Contributor

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Boston
  • Occupation
    Engineer
  • Swinging Experience
    We're just dipping our toes in the water.

Swinger Info

  • SLS Name
    SnakenBunny
  1. Hi Graywolf - My SO and I have not yet taken the *plunge* into the lifestyle and are only testing the waters at this point. However, from what we've seen so far, there seems to be someone for everyone and most folks here seem to be very open minded. I would not let your age influence you too much and certainly do not rule out swinging yourself if this is the route your wife ends up taking. My sister was married to a man the same age as my parents for thirty years and while my parents were never too happy about it, he and my sister were. The most important thing you can do for your wife is to take care of yourself, health wise, which will not only lengthen your life but improve your sex life. Good luck to you.
  2. When Bunny and I first were together, I could not believe that the girl was real. I had spent my entire life fooling others and myself. Society doesn’t really approve of folks like me, although they always call on us for the hard jobs! A product of the “corporate culture” I'm afraid. If I revealed myself, little children would run away screaming! After all, it's not everyday one welcome a bona fide sociopath into ones home and bed. LOL! BUT, after a LONG round of lovemaking/fucking /lovemaking I found that we were VERY intimate. Yes I know that we just spent HOURS exchanging precious body fluids and enjoying each other to the nth degree BUT intimacy was AFTER when we lying together.
  3. I don't know. We didn't start out being that open but the sex between us has always been so good and after, while we're laying there, we talk a LOT. We've always found our communication level is WAY up after a good round of lovemaking/fucking. I think I probably started out rather tentatively asking him if he'd like to try this or that and he'd counter with "would YOU?". LOL I think once I started admitting to him that I WAS a bit of a pervert and had fantasies I'd like to explore, he began to feel better about opening up about his. I've always been pretty open about sex, even with our kids, since I felt we needed to make sure they could come to us with ANYTHING and not be embarrassed. Maybe gritting my teeth through some very embarrassing conversations with THEM, has made sharing sexual fantasies with my SO seem like a walk in the park. I think the important thing to keep in mind is, NEVER make them feel foolish for whatever they may say.
  4. Well, I don't know if I'm qualified to answer since we're only in the infancy stage of our exploration but I can tell you what I/we feel so far. By our very willingness to discuss this whole thing we've opened up a whole new dimension to our relationship.....a wonderful dimension. I think if you can talk about your sexual fantasies openly AND talk about making them a reality, there isn't anything you can't talk about. It takes away the need to hide a part of you from your partner and instead allows you to *share* the part that MOST couples have to hide. So instead of one partner hiding part of themselves from the other, you are BOTH conspirators in your own lives and nothing brings people closer than that. LOL Am I making any sense here? I've always felt that sex is a very important part of a relationship and if you can keep your sex life good, you can work most things out. Exploring this lifestyle not only keeps your sex life good, but I believe it never allows you to forget your partner is a sexual being, which in day to day life is often easy to forget. I'd better quit while I'm ahead.
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