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  1. This bears repeating. I don't know your wife, but is it possible that by suggesting you might be bored with her she may actually be asking you to show her that you aren't?
  2. I'm sure it can be pretty unnerving to discover your mother is a swinger. However, this doesn't seem to be as much a swinging issue as much of a violating your brother's space issue. It would be just as wrong, in my opinion, for parents to have sex in their kids' beds as it is to let strangers do it. Although allowing strangers to get body fluids all over the sheets and even moreso not washing afterward is beyond disgusting. If she wanted to have a party in her house, that's entirely her business. (Though she had better be damned sure her kids aren't going to catch wind of it--not a risk I'd be willing to take) But her sons' rooms should have been inviolable. It is possible she didn't know people had entered there and that's why she didn't clean up. Maybe she had made the room off limits but some people didn't follow it. I suppose even nonswinger house guests could technically be so inappropriate as to do the same thing, however unlikely. I have found in most situations it's not a good idea to start a confrontation guns blazin'. It puts the other person on the defensive inhibiting a resolution. It also sets me up to look like a jerk. It's always possible that the person is unknowledgable and would be highly contrite once informed. I agree that I would tell her what your brother found and how it is affecting him. "Ummm, mom? The other day brother found some condom wrappers under his pillow. Yeah, he's pretty freaked out about it." I suggest letting her come up with a solution first. She certainly should do all of the above, but people don't take well to attacks to their parenting when they make mistakes. If she acts cavalier about it then the request would be warranted.
  3. That helps quite a bit. Thank you! Mr. Truelove, that's an excellent idea you had to do all the observation for her. I weill definately remember that.
  4. Oooh, I'm totally jealous! You all have conviced me...I need one of these. How did you find a piercer you trusted?
  5. Now wait a minute. I've got to put in a plug for sweats. They are the only thing that keeps a girls legs warm at night without riding up and bunching above the knees. And the winters get pretty damn cold here up north. I've been looking for a couple pairs of sweats for 2 years now, and still can't find them. I think they may have been outlawed. :surrender If I promise to only wear them to bed, can I smuggle a pair somehow?
  6. I was going to say exactly this. He won't take any steps to improve your enjoyment and won't talk about it. This goes way past orgasm problems and into relationship problems. If he can't talk or listen to you about sex, then swinging is not the solution. You need to fix this between you two. All of the above! If I were you I'd be learning about every which way you can orgasm. The larger your repertoire the better you can help your partner. And the more fun you'll have learning.
  7. I don't know anything about you, your husband, or your marriage. But I can imagine that having your first orgasm in 10 years by another man has big potential for drama. How is your husband going to feel about that? How will you feel toward the other man? Have you not had any orgasm at all in 10 years, or just not by your husband? Can you bring yourself to orgasm? If not I can't imagine how another guy is going to have much luck. If it's a lack of skill or stamina or something on your husband's part then I can't imagine that he or his partners would enjoy swinging much. Personally I would work on the orgasm thing before swinging. What have you done to try to fix it that hasn't worked?
  8. Crazy kilt man needs to get himself a nasty case of razor burn. He just might change his tune! For the OP, I'm equally ewwwed by crotch shots, groomed or not. I'm all for leaving some to the imagination. Generally, I don't care much how someone chooses to groom, as long as it's clean and not in my way. Though I will admit, seeing someone in a bathing suit with pubes sticking out is kinda yuck.
  9. I used to hate them until gravity and two added cup sizes. Now I definitely see how they have their "perks" lol. I can't wear them at night. I had to while nursing just to have something to keep the nursing pads in place and I hated it.
  10. I shaved smooth once. I loathed it. It took for-e-ver, I didn't like the look, and it somehow gave me the worst camel-toe even though I wear relaxed jeans. By the next day the razor burn and itch were unbearable. There is no good hair removal for me. Shaving gives me the worst razor burn, and I have tried everything. With waxing it hurts like hell and grows back in 2 weeks. Nair and whatever don't work all that well for me, it starts growing back the next day anyway, and gives me a rash. I couldn't even begin to afford anything permanent. I'm not even all that hairy, I just have sensitive skin and fast growing hair. I torture myself with sugar wax-like stuff on my bikini line every couple of weeks and keep the rest real close. I keep a nice triangle because it's the ancient symbol for woman. If that aint enough for any play partner well, too damn bad.
  11. So what I'm getting here is that neither of you are really gung-ho about being with opposite sex playmates, but will do it to please the other. (I'm confused b/c in the OP it seemed as if Vyper really wanted to be with other women.) But if that's the case then sorry, but I'd sure as hell not want to be the couple you're playing with. We want to play with people who want to play with us, not just "don't abhor" it. Blech. It sounds as if you'd each be taking one for the team.
  12. Uh, duh yourself. You know it's wrong, you do it anyway even though it hurts the woman who you vowed to love, care for and cherish. And you wonder why you're not getting support? People tried to smack you over the head with this in an attempt to "snap you out of the state you were in"--just as you requested. I know if I were considering something I shouldn't do and someone pointed out how much it would hurt my loved one, that's all it would take to stop me dead in my tracks. Apparently your love and consideration for your wife wasn't strong enough. Don't blame the posters here for their efforts, they simply tried to do what you asked using a tack that would work for the majority of us.
  13. If you're afraid how he'd react to your wanting a divorce, do you really want to find out how he'll react to your having an affair? If you need help getting out, then get it. Don't cheat and put yourself in more danger. Getting the divorce will be hard at first, but eventually you'll likely find yourself feeling as free as a bird. Cheating will be easy at first, but eventually you'll wind up feeling trapped. Delay that gratification, girl. You'll thank yourself for it.
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