2lookinforfun77

We have a play partner who has a curved penis. Mrs 2lookin really enjoys it: it fees different and good... which is sorta the point... lol. Be honest, be open: relax and enjoy.

We would certainly play with a soft swing couple if we liked and connected with them. There's lotsa fun stuff to do depending on what the other couple's definition of soft swing is. In fact one of our first encouvers was a soft swing... and that was very interesting. Be up-front with exactly what you want and what your boundaries are.

We've seen it in profiles every once in a while. Thought they had a bit of a sense of humour and maybe a wild side as well. The one couple we did chat to that had this reference in their profile, we didn't ever meet, but it wasn't because of that. Mrs. 2lookin said of her picture: yes she sure is a MILF . Maybe she should be answering the question

Porn and toys didn't have any effect on us becoming swingers. However, talking to each other about our fantasies did. We talked about a lot of other things too... how we would feel, what we would like to do, what we wanted in other people to swing with... you get the idea. Then it became a matter of turning fantasy into reality... and it wasn't at all like we thought, but being on the same page as we went through the process made all the difference in the world. On another note... the Mrs. does like porn, gets her hot as a pistol, but she is very visual, more so than most other women we know. And she prefers a bit more of a story and porn with some build-up... not just straigtht to the action so to speak... but I digress.

We started investigating the lifestyle and joined a swinger's sight in late August of last year. We had our first experience in October and we've been having a great time since: more to come... we hope.

Well said intuition. You have described very eloquently (more so than we) the Christian life we are following. We're part of a church because the people there represent a community that believes and practices many things that line up for us. We are swingers for the same reason. We believe that Jesus left us with two very firm principles...paraphrased: "love God" and "love others as you love yourself."

Mrs. 2lookin started off being interested in other guys, but quickly developed an interest in women, once we started having experiences in the lifestyle. Now we look for couples where the woman is at least bi-curious, but we still would swing with a couple if the woman was straight.