Hoot

No, we do not. For the simple fact that i am a happily married woman & i always would like to be respected as such. Soooooooo to 'play' with a married man W/OUT his wifes' permission, to me, is disrespecting the wife. My hubby & I do not 'play' separately. (That is just one of our rules) And, if he went behind my back, and disrespected me with another, I would be very upset and feel betrayed. I would also update everyone to let you know when/where the funeral arrangements for each were going to be..... This is just my opinion/feelings. Good to be able to be open and chit chat like we do here. Even for those that disagree with me & DO swing with married men/women, that is fine, it is your feeling(s) and i respect your thoughts/feelings. After all, who am i to judge??? nada. Hoot

I too am a married female w/a man of color as a lover. And, may i say, i do believe that they can be, but, not always. Could it be their culture? I do not know. I have not explored this. If you have any advice on this subject, i am very open minded, & would love to hear it. Hoot