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dviousangel

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About dviousangel

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  • Birthday 10/26/1976

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Southern Illinois
  • Interests
    Traveling, reading, our children, each other
  • Swinging Experience
    No experience yet

Swinger Info

  • Favorite Club(s)
    PT's Centreville
  1. Oh my gosh, you have no idea ShellyM. lol! I was so relieved that day when I started, it was unreal. I'm just glad it all worked out the way it did. After that happened it really made me think. I don't know if full swap is for me or not. For many reasons actually but possible pregnany is definitely one of the main ones. I guess we'll just have to wait and see how life plays out. I do know that I would make sure I had some kind of backup if I ever decided to do it again. Thanks!
  2. Thanks to love_droids and lovedoctor. Didn't know if you'd seen this post above yours or not but it all worked out great, no pregnancy. Thanks for the advice though.
  3. Thank you guys so much. And yes, I think that's one of the most scary situations I have ever been with. Just to think of the ramifications of being pregnant by someone other than my husband, even though he was totally accepting, is just too much. To think of how it had the potential to ruin so many relationships such as the other couple, having to pretend to our children and families, and so on and so on. I am just totally grateful that it worked out the way it did. My shoulders haven't felt this light in 2 weeks.
  4. I tested again this morning and it was still negative, then this afternoon, guess what??? I STARTED!! Yippee!!! Yes, I'm very happy. Thanks to everyone for the advice and thoughts.
  5. Again, thank you all for the all of the kind words. Believe me, I appreciate them all. As for the test I took, it was a First Response and I took it on day 28, which I'm not on an exact schedule since I'm not on birth control but I figured it would have shown if I was pregnant. But since I haven't started yet, I don't know. Plus, hubby and I were messing around Sunday afternoon and he was fingering me. Nothing any more rough than usual. When he pulled his fingers out, I was bleeding, which I haven't done in a loooong time from that. I pretty much bled a little all day, and then barely spotted two times the next day. I've bled before from him going too deep but I haven't in a very long time. And when I did bleed, it was only for a few minutes and stopped. So as you can see, it's a combination of alot of things that has got me really worried. I wish I could relax but you all know that it's easier said than done. Sorry I didn't fill you all in on all these details earlier but I had to wait til the kids went to bed.
  6. Well, today it has been 30 days since the first day of my last period. I still have not started. I took a test 2 days ago and it was negative but I'm wondering if it wasn't too early. I'm very depressed about it and can't stop thinking about it. I'm crampy and have had a headache for a week now, just none of the normal discharge or aunt flo. Yes, still freaking out.
  7. Well, I'm going through this right now. My thread is on Situational Help called "condom broke..." Long story short, we had our first full swap experience Saturday night with a couple we've been playing with and a few minutes into he and I going at it, the condom broke. He caught it before he came but now I'm terrified, his wife is terrified and it's all crazy. That is the only form of birth control I use because of the hormones in all the others so I'm freaking out. I know reading this thread where all you guys have had "surprises" after a breakage is not making me feel any better. On top of that I think I deserve the stupid award because hubby and I had unprotected sex later that night but he didn't come in me. After the thing happened with the condom breaking I was pretty upset and needed to feel my husbands skin. It just makes it doubly difficult because if I do happen to be pregnant, I won't know who the father is. I'm just praying for aunt flo to visit around August 1st.
  8. djjwp, I joined the boards in April, this thread was started yesterday. And yes, me having sex with hubby without a condom was not the best choice. But after feeling another man inside me condomless when it broke, who wasn't my husband, even though it was for only a second, made me NEED to feel my own husband skin against skin. Dumb idea yes, but something I really needed all the same. Some of you out there can understand this I'm sure. curious24, you said you are going through this right now too. What's going on with you? LFM2, My cycle is pretty much a regular 28 day cycle. Since I'm not on birth control it varies a few days here and there but for the most part it's regular. I'm trying not to dwell on this and let it consume me but it's very hard. According to my calculations, I should be starting around the 1st of August. And just to clarify why I'm not on birth control. I have tried almost every pill known to man and can't take them because of the hormones they contain. When I take BC that contains any kind of hormones, ALL my sex drive goes away. That only leaves me with a few choices. Condoms, diaphram, IUD. There is only one IUD that doesn't contain hormones but there are many other side effects from it. I think I do need to get a diaphram though. My gyno and I have been through all these options and have tried so many things. I wish I could just be on the pill and not worry about it.
  9. Hey guys. I appreciate all the replies. I need all the positive reinforcement I can get. About the getting pregnant from precum thing. This couple have a 16 month old child that she got pregnant with before they even had sex. It was from them messing around only and the fact that his penis touched her vagina with no actual penetration. This is why her and I are freaking out so much. I do believe her freakout was from both the full swap and the condom breaking. Her and I feel the same way, we just don't want to deal with the what ifs of full swap. Playing is still very much okay. This was everyone's first time for full swap except her hubby, who was in the lifestyle previously. It's not STD's I'm worried about, it's pregnancy. That night, after they fell asleep, hubby and I had a long talk about everything. I was crying, upset, feeling horrible, and my wonderful hubby is sitting there telling me that he loves me more than anything in this world and if I were to end up pregnant, he wouldn't care, it would still be our baby. This man definitely has his head on straight and is the most wonderful individual I have ever met. I just don't want another baby period (we have 2 kids), with or without him. Before we went to sleep that night, we had sex without a condom. He pulled out but I just needed to feel him after that. Do you guys know what I mean? So with all that said, I have no idea if I was ovulating. My last period started on July 4th and this happened on Saturday night/sunday morning around 3 am. I just want to be able to stop thinking about it.
  10. Okay, I'm totally freaking out and need to talk. Some of you may remember me. I've been on here off and on a few times. Well, since my last post, hubby and I have had quite a few experiences with a couple we both are very much into. Up until Saturday night, we had all only played with each other as in oral, hands, fingers, etc. Saturday night we decided to take it all the way. Me and the other guy were going at it when I heard the words that changed everything...the condom broke. My husband had just finished with his wife and they got up and left the room. The husband and I got a new condom and finished. When we walked into the living room, his wife is freaking out, crying, totally upset. Not to mention that I am freaking out because condoms are the only form of birth control I use. Nothing to back it up. Except the fact that the condoms contain spermicide. So now I am totally worried, the wife is totally worried, and I'm sure the guys have to be too. He didn't cum inside me or anything but we all know how dangerous precum can be. I feel lost. I don't know what to do. What I do know is that my hubby and I won't be going that far with swinging again. Playing is one thing but I can't deal with the possible ramifications of things like this happening. Does anyone have any positive words or stories to share? Anything that may set my mind at ease somewhat?
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