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marco

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About marco

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  • Birthday 02/23/1962

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    Couple-
  • Location
    East Texas
  • Interests
    body building
  • Occupation
    manager
  1. Hey Cool Cat, Man, I feel your pain. You are not alone in this dilemma. We are 40ish couple, married for 19 years and are republicans. We attend church and are both christians. Allow me to begin by giving you a little history of our past experiences. We are planning to go to a club in Austin in a couple of weeks. It's a swingers club and we have gone there twice before but it has been a couple of years. We had alot of fun and even when it got crazy we were kind of in our own world. We have a fantastic sex life and have tried alot of things and view this as just another experience we can share and enjoy. We really don't go there to meet up with anyone just to be able to "let go" and do what comes to us in the midst of a crowd. The concern we had was "was this right for us". I have been leading a christian men's group and I read a defintion of sexual purity this past week. It is when sexual gratification comes to us from only our wives and nothing or anyone else. My wife is so secure in my love for her that she can't understand why other men have so many sexual hangups because all I do is for her enjoyment and vice versa. We have agreement on everything we do.........and we have done alot of things that I am sure most "christian" couples won't do . She has taken professional lingerie pix for me, and we look at Victorias secret catalogs together. We "play" on the road trips we take. I guess what I am trying to say is be sure you have a good foundation for you and your wife to build on and then start building some memories of your adventures together. Be sure her sexual satisfaction is a primary concern for you and have agreement on the major issues. I've probably said to much but man when I hear of all the stories the men have about sexual frustrations it makes me wonder why the don't go on the offensive instead of always being on the defensive about sexaul problems with their wives.
  2. We had been talking about having anal sex for a long time......well about 2 weeks ago and 20 yrs of marriage it happened. It was all it was supposed to be. She just kept having orgasm after orgasm........not to mentioned that she had a few drinks and she had left her inhibitions at the door. We have since done the DP with a dildo and she actually wanted to watch her self...........do you folks see a trend here? I have always told her I wanted to have a threesome and the movies we have been watching lately have some very nice dp scene. Is this the way it happened to other folks?
  3. Hey we thought we were alittle on the edge with our fantasies.........but maybe not,.........so here it goes.........she wants to have sex in a public men's restroom, preferably in a dance club (which is one of the reasons we are going to Cancun next month). Mine is just to have someone make a "classy "video tape of us all dressed up and having hot sex......I'm more into the erotic side........the first Andrew Blake video's would be what I would like to copy. Maybe we can do both in the mother land. Marco
  4. Good question, we have come to the conclusion that I was destined to be in the lifestyle. I was 16 going on 25 and I received a call from out of the blue from a guy who had done some research on me somehow (small home town) and called to see if I would meet his wife at home while he was gone and fulfill some of their fantasies. He sent me pix of her (he would go to my mother's home late at night and leave them in some bushes under my window). It really caught me off guard but it framed my thoughts about the sexual liberty that "adults" must have. Later while working at a fried chicken place I met a woman who would pay me just for her to perform oral sex on me. It would surprise everyone but my wife what my history is because no one else knows this. Through the years I have tried to keep the sensuality and eroticism alive in my life and my wife's.
  5. Hey, Hey now let me apologize, it was only a question, don't mean to upset the apple cart. I think Oso, Lori, and THTS all have the right frame of mind. Now on with the discussion..........from now on though I will em THTS and they can post for me.....or just say Ditto......or let R post, after all I am just a tim allen grunt grunt type of man. Thanks,,,,really
  6. Ohio, Thanks for that, maybe I shouldn't of gone there , but we wanted some input here. We just feel that everything should be talked about out front and if it doesn't seem to be going right then we just leave it and go on. In all honesty it's not the race, it's more maybe trying to avoid an uncomfortable moment in the middle of everything. We really just want this to be good.
  7. Oso, I would think that not everyone is compatible with everyone. We do have "standard" or ideals we are looking for. Should the search be for the whole package? Why do something if it can't be what we want it to be? Her comments were out of question because we had never discussed seeking anything other than hispanics and that was her choice. Whatever other help, opinion you may give will be appreciated. Thanks
  8. Ah yes the " I presume therefore I will stick foot in mouth" post. I kind of expected this. Is sticking your foot in your mouth a "northern thing" or were you just born with it in. Let me just say that I was told to communicate so I have chosen that avenue, I guess you and your soulmate have screwed every race out there with no reservations????? Good for you now let someone with has more than half a brain give us some feedback. As a matter of fact I have already talked to him about this and we are trying to work out a compromise that will let everyone feel good. Agian...........communicating...........which really my brother you need a couple of classes in.
  9. This is where we are at at the present time. After searching for someone compatible, male, female, or couple we have come to a point of decisions and we would really like some feedback. We have focused on mostly Hispanic men and white females. Rhonda said she would never "do" black. Well she called the other day and said "I think I found someone...but he's black." We talked about it and I told her that if he really impressed her in everyway...clothing, height, weight, personality, voice tone (she really likes deep tones) then we would go for it. She asked me if I would think less of her and I told her no. She has some reservations about it herself, but at the end I asked her "Would you feel comfortable enough to enjoy it?" and she said that as long as I was involved she would go through with it. The main thing that we debated was kissing him on the mouth. I told her I would prefer her not doing that, and she said that that was a point she had already decided not to do. Has anyone dealt with this, is it just something in our head or is there a common hesitancy in the "black thing" or in this particular area?
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