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ohash01

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About ohash01

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  • Birthday 09/23/1983

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  • Relationship Status
    Single Female
  • Location
    Ohio
  • Occupation
    Event Planner
  • Swinging Experience
    2 years

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  1. My current partner loves having his prostate massaged or having me finger him. If I have personally scrubbed his behind, I will use my tongue too. He loves it and I love giving him pleasure. We tried a strap-on, but, well, that didn't go so well...however, we are considering giving it another go, so I must not have terrified him TOO much.
  2. Girthy, please! I'm with a lot of the other ladies so far...too much length = pain...and by too much I mean really anything over 6-7".
  3. I have a lot of picture turn-offs, actually. 1. Pictures that show a really dirty/cluttered/etc. house. Atleast pick up the dirty socks if you're taking pictures of yourself for posting. 2. Dis-embodied cock-shots. I do NOT want to see JUST the man-bits and nothing else. It's creepy. 3. Anything on an adult/swing/dating site with your kids in it. Not the place for family photos.
  4. Stainless-steel dildo. It is pretty much amazing. A friend gave it to my for my birthday last year...her hubby machined it for me. It has various sized balls on it and other attachments can go screw on. Oh, and it has my name engraved on the handle.
  5. I've been shaved for as long as I can remember...not because it was in fashion...just because I didn't think the hair there looked "right" on me. I had a playmate recently who preferred no shaving...I tried it for a while, but finally had to break down and take it off again. It just bothers me. Whenever a stray hair gets caught in my panty elastic and rips out I want to cry. Plus, I prefer feeling myself smooth. I'm tempted to try waxing, but I'm a chicken.
  6. I love search functions. I didn't want to start a whole new thread for this. I literally JUST bought a strap-on (it should be here Tuesday...hooray!) My current playmate is coming next weekend and this is something he has done with other partners in the past, but I have never done to a man. I have used my fingers to massage his prostate and it drives him absolutely crazy. So, here are my questions... How long does it take to get "used" to having a "penis"? I'm kind of looking at it like new heels...I will probably be walking around the house with it on Tuesday night trying to break it in. Do you need to really tighten the harness up on you to have the proper control? Oh man...this is gonna be new and possibly hilarious...
  7. My favorite ever is a stainless steel dildo that one of my playmates had her hubby machine for me. It has various sized metal balls on it from about 1/2" to 2" diameter. New attachments can be screwed onto it (if he ever makes me more) and it has my name engraved in the handle...you know...just in case I lose it.
  8. No way, Thrax. You are 50 years young. Age doesn't matter much to us. We've just found it's "easiest" in our age group. I am mid-20s, J. is upper-20s-soon-to-be-30s. We have more in common with other 20 or 30 somethings. I am interested in being with an older man, but it would have to be the right one. I want to feel like we're on "even" ground. For legal reasons, we can't go much younger...
  9. J. and I are very much laid back about it at this point...we're in that age group where everyone is getting married or having babies and we have stuff to do all the time, plus we have non-swinging friends who are always coming up with fun weekend activities, so we just don't have the opportunity to get WAY into swinging. We have one couple we love, who literally lives right down the road, and we see them pretty frequently...at least once a month...and the 4 of us have been talking about trying out a club, so I could see us going out more often if we got a membership somewhere, but it's just not in the cards right now. Kudos to those of you who can find the time to have "adult" fun. Maybe someday. Haha.
  10. I enjoy piercings and tattoos. I don't have any piercings yet though. However, I have been covertly asking around for reviews/recommendations. I want to get my hood done one of the next 2 weekends while J. is gone. Then he gets home and it's "ohh...look honey...surprise!!" I told J. I was going to get a little rhinestone in my nose and his reply was "I don't think your new job will like that". Well...I went into work Monday and my co-worker, who is 50ish but cool as hell, had her nose ring in. I went "hmmm...if she can get away with that..." My stylist has a sexy sexy lip piercing. Granted, I have no idea how his girlfriend kisses him, but I love looking at it. I love nipple piercings, but don't have the juevos to do it to myself. The only thing I really dislike is a ton of facial piercings...like crazy spikes shooting out of the cheeks and eyebrow rings. God I hate eyebrown rings.
  11. My mind got boggled when I tried to pick...but in general I personally can't handle more than 3 other people (of either sex) at a time. It gets too intense for me. I occassionally have issues with sensory overload. I panic when we have two TVs on different stations and the radio on and J. is playing a video game and I can hear all of it going on. It overwhelms me. It's the same with touch. If there's too much going on, I get a little wacked out...it's like I float into "ash world" and can't DO anything. So, we will usually stick to a single with us, or a couple in the same room with some partner swap and maybe all 4 of us get together in a little pile at the very end.
  12. I had to go with too quick. If a guy knows how to use his tongue/hands, I could care less that he's already cum. What annoys me is when they WON'T. It makes me feel inadequate. I want to see that I was good
  13. J. CAN orgasm from just oral sex, but he won't. He thinks it's "forceful" to do so. I've explained that I wouldn't mind him cumming in my mouth. I'd actually find it to be a wonderful change, but he won't. It's okay - I'm not complaining. Haha. It's actually a challenge for me. For the past 3 years I've been trying to make it so he just can't help himself. It hasn't work. Boo.
  14. You know you're a swinger when... You AND your SO can look at another person, look at each other, and simultaneously go "I'd totally "do" her". Haha
  15. *sigh* Yeah...I could have told you that. The first time I got BV I was in college and had very recently turned 21. Yep - I learned my lesson. The gel doesn't make you sick if you drink with it, but I find that it's inconvenient, a little gross-feeling, and just plain WEIRD. I tried it once, absolutely hated it, and will take pills and refrain from drinking from now on. I've always taken the pill (what is it - Diflucan?) for yeast infections too. I stand by yogurt. I don't eat it daily, but I do eat it often. I will NEVER douche. I actually just recently "shame-shamed" my mom when I saw it in her bathroom closet. I think they're about as useful as high-colonics.
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