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  1. First off, I would like to thank everyone who took the time to read and respond. You all are very articulate! I really appreciate it. I'm pretty sure that I'll decline my friend's invitation. The club probably isn't the best place for me. Thanks again everyone for your thoughts!
  2. Hi! I feel like I'm in an interesting situation and could use some advice. A single male friend of mine recently attented a swingers club party with a couple friend of his. We had discussed it before he went. When he came back, he asked me if I was interested in going with him the next time he went. We wouldn't go as a couple, we aren't romantically or sexually involved, but he said he would help me through the initial stuff. I have to admit I am a interested from a curiosity standpoint, and little turned on by the idea of it. A lot of the action happens on site at this particular club (it isn't Ace of Hearts). My dilemma is this. I told my single male friend that I didn't have a lot of experience with guys, which is technically true. I'm 23 now, and most of my life I was overweight and horribly uncomfortable with my body. When I was 21 I decided to really lose the weight, and now I'm much happier. When I was overweight though, I felt so unattractive that I never approached guys. So when I said I didn't have a lot of experience with guys, I meant, practically none. Still a virgin. Now that I have lost the weight, I'm sort of at a loss as to how to go about changing this in a way I'm comfortable with. I know a lot of people say things like save it for someone really special, but I would like to have sex sometime in my life! I'm not a drinker and I don't go to bars, not really looking for a casual hook-up in that context. That being said, I think it is important to mention that I'm not looking to go to the club to expand my sexual experiences. I wouldn't be adverse to it, but it isn't my primary objective. I suppose my curiosity would be. I know that there is something for everyone, and different situations are right for different people, but I was hoping for a little feedback on how people would feel about someone like me being at a party/club. I'm not into women but since I haven't tried it, I can't immediatly dismiss it as a possibility. I also know that people have differing ideas about virgins, ranging from "no thanks, we'd like someone experienced" to "bring on the virgin flesh!" but I don't know how it would go over in a club/party context. Any thoughts/recommendations would be appreciated!
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