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willyoats last won the day on April 30 2022

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    experienced but retired couple
  • Location
    central Florida
  • Occupation
    retired
  • Swinging Experience
    25 years

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  • Favorite Club(s)
    both out of business now

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  1. I absolutely, positively think that the first experience should be with an experienced couple. We started with a couple who owned a club in Florida. They were in the business of introducing newbies to the life style. It couldn't have been a better experience. They took a couple of hours to talk with us and explain all the aspects of the LS. Then they asked if we wanted to try it. We both did want to. So we split up and went to separate rooms. The woman I was with was gentle and helpful in showing me what she wanted. I stared out being a bit nervous, but she put me completely at ease. My wife had had sex a few times with another guy some years before, so she was less nervous, probably not at all. The guy my wife was with showed her a new position that we had never used but which was very exciting. We used it many time afterwards. Many years before that, we had almost done it with our best friends. New Year's eve ended with us petting and fondling the other's spouses. It did not end up with intercourse, which I regret, I think. If we had screwed each other's spouses, I think it would have ended badly. Our friends had swapped with another couple some time before that and it was a disaster. The old saying about the blind leading the blind would have applied here all too appropriately.
  2. We have had MFM with both married and single guys. Plus, she has had one on one with both. On the whole, she says she prefers the singles as they seem to try harder. She guesses that married guys know they are going to get laid later anyway and the singles know they may not. Hence the difference in motivation.
  3. When our kids were in their 20's, we told them about our swinging lifestyle. They were not surprised, and I expect they already knew. I think they got into our swingers magazines "hidden" in our closet. No matter. They were both sexually very active with multiple partners and saw no reason why we should not be also.
  4. Our first experience was with Nancy and Bob of the now defunct swing club in Zephyr Hills, Florida. Bob died a few yeas ago and Nancy went on to create another club somewhere else in South Florida. I only saw her once after the first encounter when we crossed paths at a hotel weekend swingers event. She was just as lovely as ever, but since she averaged 300 partners a year, by her own estimate, she did not remember our encounter some 5 years before. But, I remember her well. She was so gentle with this novice and so understanding of the anxiety of this guy who was screwing someone besides his wife for the first time, that she made swinging seem like the most natural activity in the world. She opened up a whole new world of pleasure and friendship for me. Thank you Nancy. I hope you read this. I thanked you at the hotel, but I want you to be reassured that I treasure the evening you gave to me all those years ago.
  5. At the nudist/swinger resort park where we had a summer house for many years, there was a guy why had undergone all the operation for transformation to female. She was open about all this, so there was no sense of deception. As it happened, she was pleasant but dull, openly friendly but not physically attractive. I chatted with her many times while still visualizing her as a man. I suspect if she had been as attractive as other women around me, I might have made a sexual advance out of curiosity, but that was not to be.
  6. When I posted above, I forgot the 20-something guy who chased my 50-something wife at our club. He said that he just liked older women. He was a pleasant, polite and seemingly well adjusted young men. I do not remember if his pursuit was successful, and I am not going to interrupt my wife's TV program to ask.
  7. When I posted above, I forgot the 20-something guy who chased my 50-something wife at our club. He said that he just liked older women. He was a pleasant, polite and seemingly well adjusted young men. I do not remember if his pursuit was successful, and I am not going to interrupt my wife's TV program to ask.
  8. My favorite swing partner, whom I met more than 20 years ago, is 15 years younger than I am. I think my wife's youngest partner was about 20 year younger than she is.
  9. One of my regular partners often has an "afternoon delight" with guys who are more than 25 yeas younger than she is. My favorite swing partner whom I have been with for more than 20 years is 15 years younger than I am. I think age is no factor if the chemistry is right.
  10. Every partner has something special to bring to the party. The ones I remember best are the ones I have been with multiple times. Those repeat encounters always mean that we enjoy each other's company and want to be together again. With the three women that I have many repeats, the most significant difference is how much they all enjoy oral sex, both giving and receiving, something that my wife is indifferent about. About sharing this info, no way. My wife is perfectly content to let me have my playtime but is not at all interested in hearing about what went on. That's a mild disappointment to me, as I would like to share. I always want to know all about what she did with her partners, and I would like her to be interested in what I did, but it is not to be! That's a VERY small price to pay for all the other pleasures we share together and separately.
  11. Our first experience, after about 25 years married, was with a couple who ran a (now defunct) swing club in Florida. Some of you may remember Bob and Nancy in Zephyr Hills. They invited us on a Thursday night to be initiated into the lifestyle before attending the weekend party. After a couple of hours of chat, we split up to have our first experience. I was playing with Nancy for a while and she with me. I gave her an orgasm with tongue, fingers and vibrator. Then it was time for that first penetration into someone other than my wife. I remember very little of the physical sensation, other than that it felt good, rather like every time I went into my wife. Nancy was soft, warm and welcoming, so physically it was not really unique. What I remember was the emotional sensation: here I am with another woman, a fantasy that I had dreamed of and anticipated for a couple of years. The overwhelming sense of satisfaction at being able to overcome the anxiety and ENJOY the experience was the "take-away". Meanwhile, my wife was with Bob, who showed her a new positions that was very pleasing. We used it many times in the following years. Interestingly , all the time I was with Nancy, I never thought about my wife being screwed by another man I hardly knew. We stayed for the weekend party and had a really good time with new partners. That was the beginning of the best era of our sex lives.
  12. Our most common Saturday night at our club goes like this: We start out with 2 or 3 guys (including me) and my wife. Then we each have another partner in separate rooms, or occasionally same bed. Then, when we get home about 3 a.m., I get one more quickie with my very best lover.
  13. I can't respect a guy who is not listening to his wife. If she says it hurts and does not want a bigger cock, then she does NOT want a bigger cock. I never met a woman who thought a bigger cock was preferable to a talented cock!
  14. We were at a hotel swingers weekend. The organizers always did something unusual, and this time it was to organize a FMF room for those who had never experienced that kind of fun. My wife and I were friends with another woman that I had been with previously. She agreed to be the third. We went to the room where the action was taking place. Part of the rules for that room was that I had to receive pleasure from the women, not give back. After about 1/2 hour of the two women pleasuring me, it was time to actually enter our friend. It was exciting in a way that I had never felt before in dozens of encounters, including two previously with this woman. I have no idea why it was so special. I had been with this woman previously and had always had a good time. But this time was definitely, and most memorably, different! I love FMF!!!!!!!!!!!
  15. There was a woman at our club in Indy who did regular GB's with at least 25 guys. I participated on two different nights. Hubby would sit in the corner and masturbate and pick who would be next. The woman was one of the most beautiful creatures I have ever seen, so thee was not trouble getting lots of willing participants. I once tried to wipe some of the overflowing cum off of her buy hubby stopped me. Part of their thrill was to have her pussy overflow. It was messy (some would say disgusting) but remember that I said she was truly beautiful! Eventually, they moved to CA to go into the porn industry. Prom may have been the winner, but our club really lost a STAR!
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