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  1. "and here again, i'm forced to wonder: why did you respond in the first place? it is of no interest to you, right?" You make important points, LOA. I don't think people are getting hostile, but there are some on the board who are such regular contributors that they take for granted the fact that many people aren't. And a lot of the regulars would seem to be the most secure, insightful, intelligent people you would ever meet. They may be just that. But in truth, no one will ever know for sure. There is great information and input from a pretty large variety of people. Some of them can't even spell worth a damn, yet still, they get their point across. Some offer up defenses instead of discussion; well, we are certainly human; indeed, fallible. As with all people , some will make more sense to you than others; anything that is not of value to you and your queries might be better off discarded. Keep your hat in the ring.
  2. JnCc has the best perspective- you really need to tend to yourself, and then, when you are ready, tend to a good relationship with a woman, and then think about swinging. I waited almost 10 years to get into it as a single woman....the memories are very strong. Best wishes.
  3. I consider swinging to be having sex outside of a conventional relationship. Any party of three or more would be swinging , in my book. Swapping is between couples, the depth of their commitment to each other isn't even relevant; they could be the banal "friends with benefits" for all it matters. What they are doing is having sex with a small or large group of people. It's not a couples only thing, yet within that realm people make personal choices to only play with other couples, and some broaden their play to include other like minded people with whom they can share their sexual energies. I look at swinging as a philosophy towards ones own sexuality; unthreatened by contact and physical and even emotional closeness with people outside of a conventional relationship; I don't see it as having anything whatever to do with your conventional relationship, per se. For couples, however, it creates a new dimension to their relationship. It's an ideology. The participants vary. the men get short shrift, in general, because a lot of them do see it as just getting laid, without respect to the dynamics of the relationships that exist within the group. I certainly don't see myself, as a single woman, as a player in some couples fantasy play, as JnCC does as a man; I am a participant in my own right, and I have chosen not to play couples who give me the impression that they don't respect my own feelings, too. I've played as part of a couple and as a single woman, and I know both sides of the coin for women. I have to make my choices based on what I am looking for out of this, which is an expanded sense of the sexual energy that always exist. It is the most wonderful experience to be with a group of people who are open to each other that way. Question; a lot of posters on the board have never had sex with a third person or a couple, are considering it, but may never make that leap. Are these people swingers?
  4. "Not to stir the pot but can you still be pro-feminist if you think the ERA was a bad amendment and don't like abortion?" No one likes abortion, Chicup. Not one woman who has had one likes it. It's just not an option that can be decided by the law. Do you understand what an impact that would have on women's sexuality? Are men responsible enough to not get a woman pregnant on his own? Because that's what it'd be left to, relying on men to keep a woman from gettting pregnant. The pill is not a blanket choice for all women, nor are condoms. Yes, you can be pro-feminist if you don't like abortion.
  5. ANd Concupescence- You are clearly extremely intelligent; you shouldn't allow anyone to threaten that; not even me. And Gloria Steinem lives on the block behind me, and everyday I see her I practically salute. With my implants.
  6. Unfortunately, it is a hot button topic, and I am just as guilty, but there is really only one person it was directed at, and he has respectfully, I think(?) bowed out of this one. However, the vein of humor was lost along the way...
  7. "A bitter two percent of the population is attempting to browbeat the others into a life of hairshirts and supplication to their local lesbian demigods." I have no brand of feminism, I just don't bash the others, which is what the thread is about, feminism. I don't care what didactic bits you care to throw at me, honey, I've read ALL your threads...
  8. Concupiscence; No , the remark was not directed AT you, but you did agree with Chicup, just a little, I think, oooohhh, maybe. In reviewing the posts again, I find myself surprised that you are merely NEAR Lake Superior. Anyone can blog- it doesn't make them an expert. You don't need to read a thousand different viewpoints to know what you think about something. Blogs are largely BS; someone's self-obsessed public diary.If they piss you off, why do you read them? Hardcore feminism is still fringe, at best. Why does it bother you? They still do the work that most women won't- push back at the women hating men who still suppress females. The day we have liberation is the day we no longer have to justify anything to anyone. We are very far from that, here and in the countries you have visited where women have no rights. Do you think these women should stop? Are they directing their ire at you because you enjoy a more open sexual life? I don't think so. They don't give a whit what couple you are meeting this weekend. They do and will continue to effect change, however, even if we can't screw them because they hate bisexuals.
  9. Without Feminists and the militant lesbians, 80% of the women who do swing in any capacity would not be ANYWHERE near it right now. And all you men who love your wives for it are just as much the beneficiaries of the entire movement.It's also quite clear that you still don't even understand what it took to accomplish it. Shut up and eat your cake!
  10. It's a definite peeve to find out someone has been misleading people about their age. Most people,if they take decent care of themselves, look pretty good, and that's all that matters. But I don't like being misled right off the bat. It is about openness, and age shouldn't matter; lying does matter. It suggests being uncomfortable with yourself. And as an aside, I've yet to meet anyone who tells another person they look their age....it's a social norm to be sure never to insult a woman on her age...it's not a compliment, it's a nicety.
  11. As an unattached woman, I , too, love to see that bond between a couple. It really is assuring to know the people you are with are loving people, and not just belt notchers. ANd since I can relate to the profound happiness they feel, even though I am not currently in a relationship, it just feels good. The only time I couldn't stand seeing happy couples was after a painful break-up and walking through the park seeing couples everywhere just hurt and reminded me of what I was missing....it soon passed.
  12. MJ- I agree...and I know a few natural blondes, myself. It's true, if it makes you happy, who cares- and the reality is, if someone has serious insecurities then no amount of cosmetic enhancement makes a difference, and most people are intuitive enough to sense this in them, no matter what they look like. And I believe they deserve compassion, because the more compassion they get, the more they will understand their self worth, and perhaps they can begin to accept themselves. SPOO- don't choke on your bagel.....(glad it gave you a laugh!)
  13. So the question has brought about a lot of opinions on a woman's self esteem and her reasons for doing breast augmentation....c'mon, now. At the end of the day, if you wear make-up , dye your hair, or wear any kind of Spanks, ladies, you, too , are lying....it's all the same in the end. Push up bra- LIE. Blondes??? Don't get me started- the only real blonde adult women are on another continent, or descended from them....the rest are, yes- FAKE! But you have your reasons...you feel more attractive. I'm willing to bet you will come across fake breasts one day and not even know...and she won't mention your roots, either, as she pulls at them.....
  14. And goji berries! These two supplements have made me constantly turned on, and incredibly wet. The rhodiola is an energy supplement and good for overall health. The goji berries are a Tibetan berry that is extremely high in antioxidants and have been used for a long time in China for sexual health. I think that because of these I have begun squirting during intercourse, something I did before with toys, but never through intercourse. I am not complaining, and it's great for my complexion!
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