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    couple
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    UK
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    not very long

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  1. Meggybear You look amazing! The things that attract me the most are a lovely smile (like yours!) and a happy confident, bubbly personality. Which just looking, you appear to have. It's not all about body shape, my wife feels intimidated sometimes when she sees the model body walk by on our trips to 'on site' clubs. But a smile and a pretty face are far more important! If you're ever in the UK and want to visit a swingers club I'd be happy to accompany you
  2. Hi Julie K I think we're all wierd in our own ways But seriously, it sounds like you AND your husband had a great time. Thats what really counts at the end of the day. Good to see you both have the trust, love and respect to do it and enjoy it. Good on ya!
  3. Thanks guys! A whole range of replies! Pretty much confirming what we thought If I'm a single guy approaching thats OK, but if I'm with my wife that's generally (from your responses) not OK as it offends the man. We can understand this, although personally we wouldn't be offended; many would. So I guess we'll stick to the usual for now
  4. This may seem like a dumb question...but we would appreciate your feedback. We go to clubs as a couple, maybe have fun together, maybe swap, maybe meet a guy for a threesome...we just go with the flow My questions is really to couples, last night we saw a couple I really liked the look of her. My wife didn't go for him. However she said why not approach them and ask as they may well be into threesomes too. My wife had no issue with me having some fun with them on my own as we are comfortable with this if the situation arises. This makes perfect sense and we wouldn't be offended if someone were to approach us with that question...we'd either say yes or no thanks. So couples would you be offended if a married guy approached and said something like "I think your wife is beautiful....are you into threesomes" (short version of course). I wouldn't want to make lots of small talk because A it could lead know where and B I would be leaving my wife out. Please guys give me your views
  5. Funny this....nearly 300 views so far and ten votes I guess a lot of guys like to brag about how long it is but not how thick it is and just for the record I voted honestly
  6. my wife....and I prefer really hard banging! Not all the time though, sometimes slow and long, other times grinding etc. But usually she wants fucking REALLY HARD!
  7. Just wanted to say thanks to everyone. Various experiences and outlooks. Think for now we'll keep it quiet and just see how the land lies in time. Once again thank you
  8. Amongst our 'vanilla' friends we have a married couple who are closer than any others. They have, we suspect; begun wondering whats going on with us. Loosing weight, happier, talking about sex more, going out very late etc etc. We would like to tell them. Not with the intention of converting them (I'd love to! -G) we would never try to push anyone into anything. It's just so far we feel we would like to be honest with them. To share some of our experiences or least let them know we've not gone loopy! We'd love to hear your experiences, good or bad of this. We think they are pretty open minded and are similair to us in their outlook of live and let live. Do you think this could be a disaster? Or strengthen an already strong friendship? We know untimately it is our decision and you cannot get all the details etc from a short post but would appreciate your views and experiences. Thanks x
  9. We've been married for over 5 years but together for 16! We should have got married much sooner, she is wonderful I look forward to seeing my wife every day. Gaz
  10. lost the thread....replied to original...seems out of date now
  11. If the swallowing part excites you so much you should sit down with hubby and tell him all about it. Tell him why it excites you, how much and what would be missing for you if he didn't do it. Then just as important you should discuss why he doesn't like it and what his issues are with it. Remember you are in this for the both of you and you both have to be comfortable to continue. My guess is that it's the increased health risks he's worried about, but it's only a guess. Good luck with your talk, try not to get heated with it, rather try to enjoy the fact that your sharing your deepest feeling with each other. I'm sure you'll get more advice soon! Let us know the outcome
  12. In a swinger situation I don't think you can be too slutty. That's part of the attraction, you're in a club to let the slut out of you! Enjoy it while it lasts. My wife is very fun loving, humorous but never slutty in the vanilla world. It makes me laugh sometimes when we see someone who is considered slutty in these situations because in the lifestyle they would be considered normal and having fun. There is a time and a place for everything! I love being married to a real lady, with charm and style seen by everyone. Then I love it when she lets the slut out for just a while in the clubs
  13. Hi Folks Still quite new to the whole swinging thing, enjoying finding our way Having read many posts on stage fright etc as this has/is happening to me I was wondering should I try viagra until I am more comfortable with the situations and surroundings? We only go to clubs and whilst I am more than happy to be naked in front of anyone I struggle to get going with other people around. I realise that practise makes perfect and hope in time this will not be a problem (never has before ) So I guess my question is HOW can I get viagra in the UK? So far as I know it is prescription only and my doctor would probably not be sympathetic to " I could do with some viagra as I get nervous in group sex situations". Is there any UK guys out there that can offer some advise? Thanks in advance.
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