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  1. After several months of talking into the early morning hours and increasing sexual enjoyment, excitement and frequency, my husband finally convinced me to seek out another sexual partner. I am in no way skittish or conservative about sex. I love sex! There is not much I have not tried or would not try. I'm extremely open minded. But bring another man into the mix ... as much as husband promised he would be fine with it...I had my reservation. I must mention, my husband is NOT a jealous person...never has been on ANY occasion. We found a GREAT couple with every thing we could want. Complete trust on both sides. Both of us truly like this couple and feel we could not find another couple looking out of his interest as well as my well being. Here is the problem. My husband, who flipped out for a week with fear I would back out and not "f**k" the other man, now is riding a roller coaster of emotion because I did what he asked of me. One minute he is so turned on by the idea of a relationship with this couple and telling me how and when I am going to do it again. The next minute he is hurt, jealous, confused and worried about his reaction to future encounters. There was something, no need to go into but unrelated to the situation at hand, which occurred just minutes prior to my encounter with the other man, which set my husband off into a whirlwind of conflict. I honestly feel if that unrelated incident had not occurred, he would not be going through everything now. Up to that point he was forceful about me doing this and assured me of his comfort, commitment and excitement of the encounter. I feel we could have gotten through the event and my husband would be on cloud nine and so proud of his wife. What can I do to help him with this conflict within himself? I think a lot of it stems from the conflict of one side wanting me to do it, being extremely turned on by not only the thought, but also the fact I did it and on the other side, the norm is husbands are not suppose to want their wifes' to f* another man, how could he let me do this, he feel such jealousy and rage. We would hate to lose this opportunity we have now (and not sure I would go through the process again) if this is temporary and work-through-able! Personally, I would not have a problem with a relationship with this couple, as agreed upon. My husband changes his view every hour. Any other husbands going/have gone through this? Can you help? Please don't suggest talking...we are ALWAYS talking about this. Thank you!
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