dinkydow4us
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dinkydow4us started following When you hear BBW, what do you think?, Discussing non-monogamy with religious people.., Sexaholics Anonymous legitimacy and and 6 others
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Discussing non-monogamy with religious people..
dinkydow4us replied to dragonblade's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
Well said Mr. Spoo. You hit the nail square on the head. If you were our minister, I'd think about going back to church. -
Hi Zep, My advice is move back into your house. The best conversations are face to face. There will some tears and tense moments, but if your not there it's harder to get the ball rolling. This is the price that has to be paid, like it or not. I agree with others about consulting a faith based councilor. There's a good chance they may have a hidden agenda What kind of physical condition are you in? A good brisk walk or jog just 30 min. a day goes a long way toward combating depression. I know, I've been there Just my nickel's worth. Good luck
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Stood Up, and I"M playing a game?
dinkydow4us replied to MoonLightKiss's topic in Adventures in Swinging
I'll bet he's gay. What else could it be? Nobody in their right mind would turn down a chance like that :rollseyes: Keep looking, there's a lot of good guy's out there, you'll find one. Good luck -
Gangbang in Charleston, South Carolina
dinkydow4us replied to r_poseidon's topic in Finding People to Swing With
Hi and welcome to the board. Even though this sounds like a great idea to you make sure she's on the same page as you. It's her right sometimes the best surprise, is no surprise There's a chance it could blow up in your face I hope everything works out for you guys, and great time is had by all! Good luck -
Religion and swinging. What are your beliefs?
dinkydow4us replied to nice_cpl_n_bama's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
I was raised christian and was taught sexual shame at an early age. What I now find amazing as I think back on it, my parents seemed to enjoy sex ( lots of sunday after noons with the bedroom door closed) Now as an adult I still believe in God, but, I don't believe he's catholic, jewish,christian,muslim or anything else. These titles were dreamed up by men to promote their own ambitions to gain power If everyone would at least try, to live by the " do unto others rule",this would be a nicer place for everyone, no matter what your beliefs are Well, thats my nickles worth Good luck to everyone. D. D. -
Overcoming our issues about our size
dinkydow4us replied to Meggybear's topic in Look and Feel Your Best!
Congrats. Meggy Your husband is one lucky guy. Best wishes to both of you D. D. -
Swinging vs. Religion: Your Thoughts
dinkydow4us replied to She_n_Jaybee's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
This was a great thread! Lots of food for thought. I was raised in a christian home where sex was hardly ever talked about, and if it was, you came away with a sence of shame It caused me to put girls on pedistals which resulted in missing out on some of the secrets of life I realized later on that the churches policy about sex was total B.S. because the real world doesn't work that way. It can't, becaues it's against human nature. I now beleave that sexual pleasure is your birthright, and no one has the right to take that from you. God likes to see honest hearts and happy people. My guess is, there's a lot of people in the life style who fit that mold I don't go to church much anymore, because I've found that I can get a lot closer to God sitting in a deer stand on a frosty fall morning at sunrise than I can sitting in church listening to cheaters, child molesters, and wife beaters, all with Bible in hand, telling me what I have to do to get to hevan. Good luck to all, D. D. -
How Did You Come Up With Your User/Screen Name?
dinkydow4us replied to Elusive BiFem's topic in Finding People to Swing With
I picked up the term "Dinky Dow" while vacationing in Viet Nam in the late 60's. It means crazy -
Has anyone tried this? Cuckolding
dinkydow4us replied to hot2share's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
I also think a former b/f is a bad idea. It only takes a couple of hot sparks to make an old flame roar again. If she really wants to do this, get someone shes never been with. That way she'll have a new experience to tell you about. On another note, there's no way I'd ever leave the most important person in my life alone with anyone I didn't know, old b/f or not. So the idea of you being close at hand is not only a hot one, but gives her a saftey net. Hey, ya never know what might happen. Hope a good time is had by all. You're a lucky guy. Enjoy! D. D. -
How and where did you meet your partner?
dinkydow4us replied to curious24's topic in Curious About Swinging?
We also meet in church. She was 13, and I was 18. She had an awsome smile and it was a lot of fun just being around her. I went in the army, she finished H.S. During the time I was away we wrote each other, and dated when I was home on leave. We dated others, but we had that special something that can't be seen or spoken, but when your eyes meet, you know it's right. I just had to wait for her to grow up, and that she did. She's the nicest, and prettiest girl I ever went out with. We married two months after her 18th birthday, and have been going strong for 36yrs. If it's to be, it will be. Good Luck D. D. -
When you hear BBW, what do you think?
dinkydow4us replied to Dare2Share's topic in Look and Feel Your Best!
Dave, Maybe they know that real beauty comes from with in, and the term BBW puts it all in a nut shell. Just my 2 cents. D. D. -
Rohypnol at a party - Somone put it in our drinks!
dinkydow4us replied to fun4Ds's topic in Adventures in Swinging
I'm very sorry this happened to you guys. Please call the police, your lives have been threatend. Who ever the dirtbag was, they had no way of knowing if you were taking any other medications and what the results would be mixing them. Since you were druged at the party, it gives the police a good place to start. The police are the only ones that have any chance of stoping these people. I don't think there's any doubt they'll do it again. When they get caught, they're the ones that will get thier names in the paper for drugs and rape, not you. Don't wait any longer, call now. You deserve better than what you got. Good Luck D. D.- 79 replies
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TwoBears, Best wishes to both of you. Keep up the good work Good luck. D. D.
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How do you know she'll learn anything knew? Are you saying this guy is better than you? You've been there since day one, you know her inside and out. I doubt this guy can do anything more for her than you can The only place he can beat you is in your head Don't try to think for someone else. Be glad for the road you've traveled Good luck D. D.
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Would be interested in any info on age related topics. We're a couple of pre senior couch potatoes 58&53 looking into the lifestyle. We can't stand rap either I would also like to know your limits, if any, since surgery. Since this is pretty common now, there's a lot of us who could be in the same boat as you down the road. Good luck, D.D.