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  • Birthday 11/27/1972

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    couple
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    Cheyenne,Wy
  • Interests
    playing pool, hanging with friends, going for coffee and going to the movies
  • Occupation
    unit secretary
  • Swinging Experience
    new

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    cur_cpl_n_chey

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  1. here is my theory on this. Our 1st experience was with a friend my DH had been friends with for over 10 yrs. we had joked about it on and off and he had seen me undressed one new yrs eve when I was drunk and I only weighed 88 lbs and then again when I was my largest ever at 155. Ok I have digressed here. The point is if you have a good strong relationship then it can work great, He had some personal issues and we driffted apart unfortunately.
  2. hmmm very interesting I got a 510....There was just some questions that I just had issues with lol, Hubby has always said I had a kinky side::P:
  3. I had never even discussed my being bi-curious until my husband came to me about his curiosity(truthfully I wasn't really surprised) I have known I had these feeling for years ever since I found my brothers playboy and spent hrs looking at the pics (teehee). His theory is if he knows the best way to pleasure himself wouldn't it be logical he would know the best or how to please another man? He states though he could never be with just a man I would have to be there also. I have looked for bi males and bi females or even bi couples for us in the past.
  4. ok I voted more gentleman and when I am with a new partner I do want someone who is going to be more gentle with me while exploring each other. I know when I am with my hubby I can let go and encourage the caveman mentality. I mean I occasionally like to be just taken. I don't mean rape ofcourse. I mean meet me at the door, start undressing me, sweep me up and take me to bed type thing. It doesn't happen very often but when it does I enjoy it.....But then I also enjoy being tied down on occasion also(not that I am into pain or anything....) Mrs Cur
  5. your definately not in the minority, I find it is usually the first time we play with a couple that things will happen but we don't usually reach fulfillment. I have noticed that with my husband erection occurs but he rarely finnishes. It happens sometimes with us alone but more often that not its when we are in a foursome or a threesome. There is only one guy that we play with that my husband finnishes. We make a point to meet the person or couple at least once before we play and this is part of the reason we don't go to clubs besides its real far to drive. This is to make us more at ease with each other. I hope this helps mrs Cur
  6. I have to say that Mr Cur and I are a rarity also. We had had 3sums with other men several years ago and then left the lifestyle when we moved to Oklahoma City for a yr and we have only been back in the scene for the last few months, However we both wanted to as hubby was Bicurious orally and I was definately bicurious at that time(my curiosity has recently been satisified). I have to agree though it is very difficult to have a threesome or foursome when you are bi. When we recently experienced this hubby and I both felt like the odd person out on several moments when we were paying attention to one person. we have all agreed if we are ever together we will spend some time with just the girls prior to letting the men join in. Where I live its hard enough to find a couple much less one with a bifemale. But I have no problem with us being with a straight couple and ofcourse I do love my mfm threesomes where I am the center of attention.
  7. hi there, We all understand the need to want to be visually appealing. I too am trying to loose weight and trim up after 3 kiddo's. I am 4 ft 8 and 133 lbs currently. A far cry from the 98 lbs I am supposed to be. What I am noticing though( we do not frequent clubs since the nearest one is like 100 mi away) that with the women atleast in the groups I belong to here in WY they are almost all a bit overweight. It really surprised me at the first event we went to. I was expecting a bunch of women that were model thin and that wasn't the case at all. Denise
  8. see we always want a face shot/body shot clothing optional as long as its tasteful. We belong to sights that its normal to post body shots but there has been many of messages that I have replied back"Does this penis have a face????" I think many men are so insecure with their package that they feel we gotta see it first. Makes no sense to me. Now I post face shots alot of the time but they are professional shots and I have had no one come up to me and say I saw you on such and such site.
  9. ok here we go....This is my first marraige and for MrCur its his 2nd. He was married for about 2 or 3 yrs I think. It was a starter marriage they both agreed they should have never gotten married. Even wanted to back out prior to walking down the aisle however they were both very active in the lifestyle while married. they played together and apart. We have been together for 13 yrs now and married for 6 ys. It has not been easy but we are overall happy. I have to say that our marriage has become way stronger and are way happier since we started in the lifestyle.
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