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AshNFiona

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  1. We've tried most things except a gang bang. Started off 7 years ago with same room sex and swapping with one couple. For the first year we only swung with this same couple. It was mainly because Fiona was shy. The other couple then encouraged us to explore further and we added one and then another couple. After enjoying we moved to larger groups/orgies. What we found we wanted was variety. In our first year, Fiona would only have sex with the hubby of the first couple (Mike), and she wanted me to be there. After we moved up to be with 2 and 3 couples, she just got the taste for a variety of guys. And I didn't mind having the variety of their wives So in the last 3 years or so our usual swinging is with 3 other couples or more, we've been with up to about 12 couples in orgies. Despite the variety there is something special between us and the first couple Mike and Bev, almost like polyamory. Fiona and I think that a husband and wife shouldn't be controlling or restricting the spouse's sex life but encouraging him/her in whatever they like. I was explaining swinging to a non-swinger and he was talking about being able to trust your spouse to be faithful. I said, to me trust in marriage means that I trust Fiona to have sex with any guy she wants to, and she still loves me!
  2. We are married for 30 years. Started swinging 7 years ago. We've had two poly relationships in this period. During the relationships we didn't swing outside. The first was with a divorced lady Liz we knew. The three of us lived together for a year, usually sleeping in one bed. Fiona and Liz are bi and had plenty of fun with each other. Liz then had to move to another city for her family reasons. The second was with a couple. We didn't live together but spent weekends together. Sometimes we exchanged spouses for a few days, so that Fiona went to stay with him and his wife Sue came to me. Each of us guys regarded the two ladies as our two wives, and each of them regarded us equally as two husbands. That lasted about 18 months. We then had an amicable parting when they had to move away. Before that we had talked about moving in together and unite our two marriages into one relationship of four people. But that was not to be then. May be in the future ... Ash (hubby, well one hubby, of Fiona!)
  3. We had been friendly with a couple for 20 years and never thought about each other sexually. Then once on vacation we decided to try having sex in the same room, each with their own spouse just for fun. That led to swapping partners on the same occasion. After that we had many foursomes, and even threesomes when one member could not be present. His wife once had to go away on an extended trip for a month, and every weekend he slept with us in our bed. Us and them also started swinging with other couples, but there were long phases when just us two couples would be getting together. It was poly-like in that we had feelings for the other spouse and sometimes even just paired off separately with the other spouse. His wife and I share some interests, and my wife and him share some other interests, so we pair off like that sometimes. And so our relationship continues till now.
  4. When we have full swap, it means I and other wife can do whatever we like, and Fiona and the other guy can do what they want to do. Each person gives his/her partner full freedom. If the other wife tells me her hubby doesn't allow this or that, then that's not a full swap. I love to see a guy cum inside Fiona.
  5. We prefer quality over quantity, which is why we mainly swing with our first couple. We have swung with other couples and been with more than one couple at a time. But there's something special about us being with our first couple. A. & F.
  6. I don't want to enter into an argument with anyone but the experience of Chicup's wife does mean that people who thought they were str8 can try bi-experiences and get to like them! I have always thought of myself as 100% str8. Once a guy was fucking my wife doggie style and my wife was sucking my cock. Her sucking me was in rhythm with how he was fucking her. Looking at him I felt like it was him who was giving me sexual pleasure because my wife's sucking was following how he was fucking her. I think when there is a group of males and females fucking (3-some, 4-some or more) the concept of who is "bi" and who isn't just gets blurred. Once I had the urge to stroke a guy's ass when he was fucking a woman, and they both said that his cock got harder when I put my hand on him. But we are both str8 as far as we are concerned. I think in a swinging situation anything that any two people enjoy doing to each other should not be anyone else's business to condemn.
  7. Our most unforgettable experience was the only party we have been to so far. My wife sat on a guy's cock while she sucked another guy, and she stroked two guys at the same time. To see my wife make 4 guys cum was my most unforgettable experience. Hers was that she got all the four guys in her pussy one after another.
  8. We'd been married for 20 years when we first swung. I had talked about it in fantasy during sex for several years, about how I would like it if we had a 4-some with a couple that we know well. It was always just a fantasy. Then one day my wife (Fiona) mentioned it to the other woman (Bev) as a joke. Bev mentioned it to her hubby (Mal) as a joke, but he got serious about it and kept on at Bev to approach Fiona seriously. Well, when she did and Fiona told me about it I had an instant hard-on. The four of us then talked about it and agreed to give it a try. So we got together with no fixed plans but just to see how it developed. The biggest hurdle was getting naked in front of each other. Once we got over that, I sat with Bev, and Mal with Fi, and after some initial embarrassment, we had a same room swap session. It was the first time any of the four of us had had sex with someone other than the spouse. That was 3 years ago. Since then we have swung regularly with Mal and Bev, and on two occasions with a third couple joining us. When Fiona and I look at each other getting pleasured by someone else, we feel so happy at our spouse's enjoyment and at how strong our love for each other is.
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