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  1. Thanks for the advise...we will be in Jamaica in 2 days - hope to give cialis a try then.
  2. Well I went to the Dr for my physical, mentioned ED. I never lied to him, told him I have a problem getting hard (he never asked with who). He wrote a prescription for Cialis. 6 20 MG tablets were 101.99 – OUCH!!!! He said that I could cut them in half to get a 2 for 1. He did do a testosterone test on me. Anyhow, thanks for all of your answers…
  3. I do have an addictive personality, so I think I will stick to plan of trying to get Viagra...
  4. Thanks everyone, I'll let you know how it turns out. I am headed to hedo III on March 1 - don't want "No worries mon."
  5. That is what I was wondering. I didn't know what type of questions he would ask - and therefore lie about. If he asks how frequently and I answer "every couple of months" - the honest answer, will he say "That's normal so therefor I won't write a prescription." Or do I need to say it is more frequent so that he thinks it is a problem?
  6. Hello, Here is the deal – I am the guy who has troubles getting an erection with new friends. We were with two new couples last weekend. One date Friday night and one date Saturday night. Friday night was a bust – couldn't get it up. Saturday night before play started I told the couple that I have a problem getting hard. Wife says to husband, “Got any more Viagra?” “Yep.” So I took the pill – that ended the erection problem. I NEVER have a problem when I am with my wife, it’s only new couples. I am 33, healthy and in the best shape of my life. I am going to the Dr. on Thursday (for my every 5 year physical) and want him to prescribe Viagra for me. I can’t say, “Hey Doc, I can’t get an erection so I can bang some other chick, can you help me out?” So what lies can I tell him so that he’ll fill a prescription for me? Has anyone fooled the Dr into writing a prescription? Who has gone to the Dr. for ED? What questions\procedure did he/she ask\perform? I know honesty is the best policy, but I can’t really ask for Viagra for recreational purposes. Thanks for help.
  7. There is something about seeing stuffed animals in a picture that really bothers me for some reason. I can't put a finger on it, but it bugs me.
  8. In all seriousness, I'm not sure if the ability to write well is a trait; however for us it is important. We have received mail via SLS and read the profile and immediately responded with a resounding no just because of poor writing. I am not the world's best speller, but there are some handy tools out there to help me along. I'll cut someone slack on a posting site such as this one, but not on SLS. A couple should try to put their best foot forward on SLS, I sometimes think to myself, if that's their best foot, I am not interested. So I suppose it goes along the lines of intelligence. Once we meet, proper grammar will do wonders for my perception of someone. When I hear improper English, it sounds like nails on a chalk board. I don't want to sound stuck up, I am more refereeing to the use of "Ain't" "them" when "those" should have been used, etc... So I suppose the list of traits I hate are: 1. lack of intelligence. 2. Liars 3. Rude people 4. B.O. (take a shower and put on some deoderant!)
  9. Stay away from your wife's friend. Trust me, I made the same mistake. Flirting is 1 thing, swinging is totally different. Things will never be the same. If you enjoy flirting with her, I suggest to never bring up swinging because flirting afterwards will be looked upon totally different (I already told him I wasn't interested and he keeps flirting with me, what an asshole!). If you value the friendship, DON'T do it. Make friends out of swingers, not swingers out of friends. Good friends are hard to come by; swingers can come and go.
  10. Hey DBL D, Don't feel too awful; I am the one who brought this onto myself. Live and learn, move on. The amount of love I have for my wife is immeasurable; I never meant to hurt her, but did. I am slowly building back the trust I destroyed. Thanks for your message. Take Care.
  11. Let me first off apologize to everyone who responded to this question. I am sorry that you wasted your time writing for I didn’t take the advice everyone had to offer. I’ll try to make a long story short. Suzy, Bill, MRS and I…Dance club…drinks…hot tub…I brought up swinging…Suzy and I alone in the hot tub…talk more of the details of a swap…a kiss…we stopped before anything further happened. We ended with you talk to your spouse and I’ll talk with mine and maybe something may come of it. I did. MRS said no, but agreed to look at this site. She found this thread. I came clean about the kiss. I messed up; I talked to the other couple before my wife; she was very upset with me (I can’t blame her). We’ve talked and are in the process of dealing with my dishonesty and kissing her friend. I was a dumb ass and didn’t listen to what people told me over and over again about talking to my wife. Had I, it would have saved a lot of tears, sleepless nights and loss of trust. An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure. My wife told me “You would have got a lot more than a kiss had you brought up swinging to me instead of Suzy!” Now we, instead of me, are looking into the lifestyle. I will try to do a better job of listening to all the wonderful advice which people spend their time giving.
  12. Just a side note. I dressed as Santa for bowling on Saturday night; of course I had on my mistletoe belt buckle . When the time is right I will pursue it more. Thanks everyone.
  13. That is exactly what I mean by persuading her. When I say I have mentioned to my wife, it has been in passing; I have not discussed it with her as something I seriously want to do, that is why I came to this site to look for advice. I am not trying to "strong arm" her into doing anything she doesn’t want to do. Definition of persuade: to move by argument, entreaty, or expostulation to a belief, position, or course of action I assume a lot of people had to persuade their wives (girlfriends)/husbands (boyfriends) at one point to try swinging. That was/is the advice I was looking for. That is why I asked if our friends were possible swingers; the conversation I could then have with my wife would be, Bill and Suzy are swingers, have you ever thought about doing anything like that. Or if they are over in the hot tub and we soft swung, that too could be a safe start. It personalizes it more than having her look on this board where she doesn't know anyone. Grant it, I don't personally know any of you, but she hasn't ever been on a message board like I have. If she personally knows someone who swings, she might be more open to the possibility. Thanks for all those who have offered advice.
  14. "...I say that because in your posts I get a sense of I want this for me, how do I get her to "agree. It may not be the case, but that is how I perceive it." Wow, that is what you perceive after 3 posts; I think that may have been a little quick to judge, that is how I perceive it. I think it (swinging) would be a blast for my wife. I think it would add to our relationship. Believe me, if this was all just about "Me" there are plenty of "Me" things I could do, but won't do; the fact of the matter is its about "us". intuition897 and botcpl maybe on to something; perhaps its semantics.
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