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anly

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  1. I am 31,he is 39.Been married 13 yrs,..and have been active in the lifestyle.. full swap for a little over 10 yrs..in that time we have had a lot of fun and met really great couples.
  2. We have a no-kissing rule also. We feel there can be more of an emotional element.Kissing on greeting is fine.Kissing has happened in the heat of the moment and that's fine we don't beat ourselves up for it..it just happens sometimes. As to kissing in fourplay leading up to sex we don't have an interest maybe odd ,but never occurs to us it's not an important part of swinging to us.To us kissing is a more intimate form from our point of view.Yes sex is intimate also,but for us sex is more lustfully driven,where kissing to us is more intimate and we prefer to share that with ourselves. The reason we feel it is more intimate is when kissing your eyes are usually closed ..if not it would be well yuck.LOL,and for that brief time your whole focus is on that one person,and that is something we are not interested in and we prefer to keep the kissing to ourselves, as it has more meaning then sex does. We haven't had much problem or been slammed for it..to each his/her own some enjoy it and that's great it's just our policy not to.It is been our experience that quite a few couples we met have the same rule,those that differ felt it was odd,but respected the rule,and those who turned down because we didn't that's fine to ,all boils down to incompatibility,everyone tastes and views of fun are different. That's just our opinion.
  3. Our least favorite thing about the lifestyle is dishonesty or failure to mention what I would deem important issues before meeting. I don't know how many times we have met people who fail to mention oh we dont swap..or we are new to the lifestyle..these questions usually get asked.Not that it's not ok if they don't or are new but nice to know beforehand.We are very honest about what we enjoy and expect the same from others..Not waiting until meeting to say hey I forgot to tell you something.We find it frustrating as well as rude.
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