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    Couple
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    Fort Myers
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    Boating and fishing
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    Retired military
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  1. If you are from the Villages in Florida colored loofahs are a thing. You will see them flying from residents golf carts. Each color indicates a preference for all types of lifestyle communities, in addition to indicating your sexual orientation.
  2. Seems like we wrote the note ten years ago! We took the plunge with another couple who has mentored us though the beginning times. We started with them and then have met other couples through them. We even got up the nerve To host a house with three other couples. So far so good.
  3. We started this thread two years. To some extent we have found our niche. We find ourselves more at home with small house parties with maybe 2 to 4 other couples. We did recently go to the Calient Resort near Tampa. Wow....it added a whole new dimension to our life.
  4. Great discussion! In our limited experience it really is a chemistry issue which defines how my wife plays. She considers herself bi curious but needs the right chemistry.... Just like both of us do in our straight encounters.
  5. Dear lov2play, I think we are on the same page. For me the experience was no big deal. I have always believed sexuality is very fluid and opportunistic driven. I enjoyed the whole experience and it was a huge turn on knowing my wife was loving it. I grew up rather conservatively and ten years I never thought I would be into the lifestyle. I feel the whole experience is part of life's journey. No labels, no remorse.
  6. I guess we are the lucky beneficiary of a couple introducing us to their friends. They introduced us to the lifestyle and have gradually expanded our circle of couples. I find once you meet other couples then things expand rather effortlessly. The new couple invites you to a party and a new group of friends is formed. At the heart of the matter is to stay away from jealousy. Jealousy seems to be the source of lots of lifestyle issues.
  7. I have been a straight male forever. We started swinging late in life. We have had many couples encounters and one evening we saw the husband of one of those couples. The wife was away and fast forwarding the three of us ended up at his home. Not a problem. My wife has always enjoyed the mfm fantasy. As the evening progressed my wife encouraged us to enjoy each other. She took my hand and lead my down the path to my first bi experience. It happened quickly and I didn't give it much thought. She just sat back and pleasured herself as she watched. Afterwards I gave it no thought and my wife said it was a tremendous turn on for her. I still don't consider myself bi.... But not sure I would pass it up if it happened again. The other guy was comfortable with what happened and his wife has kiddingly told us she was jealous because she missed the fun. Best advice is to follow your instincts.
  8. As a couple who just turned sixty the question for us is how young have the we gone. We actually enjoyed a couple in their late thirties. We met them at a house party and they actually contacted us after the fact. We were both new to swinging so we had the usual awkwardness. My wife loved her younger partner. It was a real turn on for me also. For reasons I can't quite explain, many of our hook ups have been with couples younger than us. I think we are fairly nice and conservative people who provide a certain level of comfort to them......though we certainly have found our wild side. Love every moment of it.
  9. As many other people have said we also started around our sixties. We were very fortunate that casual friends of ours made an oblique suggestion that if we were interested they would be happy to introduce us to the lifestyle. Since then we have enjoyed many evenings with them and an ever expanding group of friends. We avoid clubs because it isn't who we are. We have found several bars which other lifestyle friends frequent. They are great places where we meet and then go from there. Ironically our age has never been an issue. Most couples are younger than us. Our age seems to be an advantage.... Couples seem secure with older couples. Enjoy
  10. We are mature (just turned sixty) and have enjoyed many younger couples. Age never entered into the equation.... It was all about attraction. At first we never sought younger couples, thinking that our age was a issue. We were approached by some forty somethings and it was off to the races.
  11. I hate to say it but it is still a crime to commit adultery in the military. DADT was changed but the military didn't change the UCMJ on adultery (or sodomy!!!!).
  12. Thanks to everybody who replied. We put our toes in the water by attending an off site lifestyle party in a large city nearby. Everything offered was technically off site but we had a chance to meet and chat with many, many couples of all ages. They were all very engaging and supportive. After a period of adjustment my wife got comfortable and willingly shared her assets with our new friends, which for us was a very sexy step. We had a blast and even engaged in many activities without breaking the rules (though the rules were being bent everywhere around us). I have to admit to we enjoyed the view. For us this was a huge first step and we are thinking through our next adventure.
  13. So our situation is quite simple. We as a couple are curious about the lifestyle. We have experimented with sensual massages, etc for couples and are ready to take the next step. We both just retired and turned sixty this year. The kids are grown and it is time to play!! We have also just relocated in the Southwest Florida. We are both concerned that sixty is just too old though we have great libidos and are both healthy, fit,and attractive. We have cruised the ads and see ads for people are age. Our questions are where do we start? Do we place an ad? Do we try clubs? Thanks
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