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  1. Come on girls, haven't we listened to enough MALE NOISES in our lives?? Enjoy the payback!! I queef here and there, it happens, we keep going, no interruption. To me it's a female burp. Let's face it- sex and all that goes with it is sometimes messy, and goofy and if the comfort level is there- what the hell!! Let's all practice and challenge the men to a burping or farting contest and put them in their place!!
  2. I LOVE tall men!! But I find very few that are compatible AND TALL at the same time. My SO is 6'1, not overly tall, but tall enough to make my 5'9 feel great. I was married along time to a man that was almost 4 inches shorter than me and I just can't get myself back there (sorry short guys but you just don't float my boat!). When all is said and done I prefer 6 feet and over but have met a couple very nice gentlemen that only fell about 5'11 or so and they were adorable!
  3. Nervous, another newbie here and my SO and I are only soft swap at this time. I am perfectly fine with foreplay, oral, and all that but I know that in my heart I am not ready to watch him have intercourse with someone else. I am proudly the "slowest runner" and therefore, we go at my pace. My So is perfectly happy with that. We have still fulfilled a couple of fantasies and have had some really good fun and met some great people. Two couples we have spent time with are soft swap as well, so limits and boundaries were not a problem; we were all on the same page. The last couple was typically a full swap couple but they respected our limitations and still made a date and we had a ball. We just move along at the pace I am comfortable with and even the first soft swap was a little emotional for me so taking "baby steps" is the way to go. He is ready to watch me with another man, thinks it would be really hot and I am ready to do that but I have told him, in all honestly that I cannot reciprocate and watch him with another woman . It's just the page I am on right now and he is perfectly okay with that. We figure things will fall into place and boundaries will disappear in their own time and naturally with the right couple and right time. For you veterans out there.. is it odd for me to be okay with fucking another man yet not be okay with him doing the woman? I am really okay with giving him the show he wants and its not about being one sided (he really loves to watch me do my thing!) I just know that my heart is not there yet and dont want us to crash and burn.
  4. I will preface my opinion with the fact that we are newbies so our experience is limited but my take on the friends thing is this: I want to play with people that I COULD be friends with, if we chose to..... right now its hard enough to make just play dates,never mind also trying to add another couple to our normal life! I just need to like them enough, have something in common with them that we could be friends if time and space allowed. And frankly, I'm more secure right now in the whole thing without my hubby getting too involved on a mental level with anyone.
  5. Rokhead, I learned to appreciate myself many years ago (when the "boys" finally started to notice me because they had grown alot taller too!!) and Thank you for the compliment, but as we begin this swinging journey, I just find that the old feelings crop up amidst seeing all these beautiful woman that are my polar opposite, the woman that have the look that I wanted to be so many years ago. I wouldn't trade now I am sure of that !!
  6. I'm with KittyLikesMFM... for now at least, as a newbie, I need to feel at least equal to the other woman in looks and "hot factor" and that is my issue alone, as my SO thinks I am always the most beautiful and hottest woman in the room! We go thru profiles and he knows that I "coincidently" weed out some of the hottest babes but he never says a word. I find myself picking out woman that are more like me (tall, athletic, small breasted) as opposed to my polar opposite (petite, cute, busty and doe eyed). I always wanted to be one of those woman growing up and well, Im still tall, slender, brunette, dark eyes and small breasted!! I can appreciate myself now, or so I thought until this swapping thing came about... old girl hood insecurities rise to the top!! Call me silly, because we are always looking for women for me too but I need to feel up to par in my own pysche to get comfortable, at least for now.
  7. It took us awhile to come up with one and as of yet, we haven't needed it. We realized that yelling "get the fuck away from me" wasn't going to be subtle enough! And you can't just spout out a totally irrelevent phrase or people may mistake that for some kind of disorder too. We decided to use the following "honey, doesnt she/he remind you of ______" (insert predetermined male/female name). We use the same two names that have relevence to us so there is no mistake about its meaning. I dont think anyone would give it a second thought and we can rescue each other very sublty and politely. Of course, there may come a time when screaming "get the fuck away from me" is necessary so keep that one in your pocket too!!
  8. The line that gets me is "we are professionals with high profile positions, therefore discretion is of the utmost importance"... well duh??? I may no longer work in a professional career (I did once) but I'm pretty high profile in the PTO and local youth sports so, YA, discretion matters for me too!! I just can't stand people that make themselves sound more important than they are or like their reputation is so much more valuable than yours! Just my two cents (okay, maybe only one cent!)
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