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  1. Wow it's been a long time scent i've posted on this board.Hello everybody.I'm going to answer De and Ci question about virginity. I don't have a fetish or strange view about sex.All i want to do is educate myself about sex before i lose my virginity via LT relationship or marriage.Society tells virgins we shouldn't educate ourselves about sex until it's time. My question is why should i have to wait until my wedding night or LT relationship to educate myself about sex.I'm not into casual intercourse but outercourse???.I'm coming to the swinger community to educate myself about sex.So when i do have intercourse.I'm not naive about the subject. P.S I have to say one more thing. Everybody on this board has been VERY friendly to me.Yes i got some weird comment.What is a virgin doing here but it's good to know sexually active people can welcome a virgin in their community.I had my own stereotype about swingers but this community has educated me about sex and all i have to say is Thank you.Your words good or bad meant alot to me.
  2. De and Si, Most men are being educated about Today virgins.Virgins are claiming their sexuality.We shouldn't have to wait til our wedding night just to learn about sex.Some of us are learning about outercourse & some of us like me are still strict virgin.We've never done anything . I haven't had any complains from nonvirgin men about exploring my sexuality as a virgin. Most nonvirgin people don't understand but i rather have virgins practice outercourse then make a mistake and have vaignal sex knowing it was a mistake.. Nobody 100% pure.We're all unpure one way or another. My future man not goingto be worried about my strap on dildo or masturbuting in front of some people.My man going to be wishing.i masturbate in front of him & using my strap on dildo on him.The men i talk too know i'm a freak & I don't hide what i'm thinking or what i'm planning on doing to my men.. Cabrownsugar
  3. I think society & Homesexual wanting to be heard has confused the definition of the word virgin.The word never changed.It's people who want to change the word. A virgin( point blank) is a man or woman who never had vaginal sex with the opposite sex.It's a gay man or lesbian who has to define their virginity not a bisexual or heterosexual person.Most people will have had vaginal sex in their lifetime unless due to medical reason or asexual.Even gay men & lesbian will have vaginal sex with the opposite sex. I notice in the 90's. The virgin definition is being challenge because The gay community wants to be heard.Sex is like a pie .There are differant cuts to the pie.A virgin who practice outercourse is stil a virgin until vaginal sex.Everybody wants to say what about anal,oral or first kiss.What happen she use a tampon or dildo.Doesn't matter. A virgin is a virgin until she has vaginal sex.This was the rules in the olden day like it or not. The sex act that lead to prengancy counted not the other act. What about Gay men if a gay man never has vaginal sex with a woman.Anal sex means he lost his virginity.A lesbian if she never has vaginal sex with a man. They say oral sex means she lost her virginity. You might not like the rules but those are the rules.People need to stop changing the rules. Cabrownsugar
  4. De and Ci, I'm not interested in receiving anal.I am interested in receiving & giving oral sex. Cabrownsugar
  5. LikeMinds321 & Chicup, Thanks for your post but i could say the same for you as a swinger.Some people think you guys need professional help & ruining society.We need to stop stereotyping eachother.Why is me exploring my sexuality as a virgin a threat to a swinger.I would be honor that a virgin came to me to learn about sex.I hope what i taught her or him would mean a positive thing. I as a virgin have a right to prepare myself sexually.I shouldn't have to wait til the moment it happens.Society tells us virgins.That's my role.I never follow anybody rules & i know you as a swinger not either What's wrong with me watching people having sex.Most people watch porn.That's voyeurism. Another virgin stereotype.I have issue.The only issue. i'm having right now.I'm waiting for the right man to have vaginal sex.I'm trying to prepare myself sexually.A man with my consent can touch me .i'm not going to run in a corner & hide.I know what i want sexually.I don't need a sex therapist.I was rape or sexually abused LikeMinds321 i can lose my virginity tonight if i wanted too.My virginity means alot to me.It's not a fetish to wait for vaginal sex.I want to meet the right man.I almost did with 2 men these last 2 years. LikeMinds321 I wish you knew me in person.I already have my mind prepare for sex being terrible or great.I've been involved with men with low sex drive,celibate ,high sex drive & sex addict.I can be in a sexless or open marriage. Thanks for your opinion LikeMinds321 & Chicup.No matter how you feel.I hope you'll support me. As I support you as a swinger.Sex is not just a penis in a vagina,ass or mouth. Cabrownsugar
  6. curiouscouple4f, You can be my teacher any time.LOL Cabrownsugar
  7. montresor, I wish i was Ms f. female partner.I would have love to guide your cock into her pussy & fuck your ass. Thats what i want to do watch & masturbate.Any woman needs my nipples while being fuck.i just come over & feel her up while she's being fuck. Thanks for the support.I need to find me some Ca swingers. CAbrownsugar
  8. Miss Piggy, I don't mind talking with a bisexual or lesbian female swinger.I think a woman body is beautiful. i just think i would feel more comfortable having a woman touch my breast & watch me masturbate first.My goal is to be comfortable masturbaing in front of people period. I just need to find some women Nice talking to you Miss piggy. CaBrownsugar
  9. JustaskJulie, I really haven't been to a swinger party yet or had any big problem with swingers or BDSM crowd..The problem.The timing is alway wrong for me to go to events.Where i live in Cailfornia.It's kinda boring & laid back.I would have to go to San Francisco to play but I'm not familiar with the scene over there. I've mostly been trying to find single women(straight,bicuriuos,bisexual or lesbian) to meet offline but i'm not having any luck.Most of the women live outside of Northern California.I think i would be more comfortable masturbating in front of a woman first. I mean once i get over that step.I want to fullful my female voyeur side watch couples,lesbian & gay men have sex.Justask julie I wouldn't mind watching you have sex with a man or woman & while he/she fucking you.I would love to come over there. I would whisper dirty thoughts in your ears while you moan.I would rub,lick, & nibbling all over your body.Hmm maybe rub your clit.I would go over to the man whisper dirty thought to him too.I would push my hip into his ass.He needs to fuck you more. Trust me.i'm not going to be sitting in a corner..I want some fun too. CAbrownsugar
  10. Spoomonkey, I could use your ass.Another kiss to you.LOl CaBrownsugar
  11. Spoomonkey, (kiss)Thanks for your support. Cabrownsugar
  12. Spoomonkey, I would like to address your post.Yes i want to be educated about sex but i also want to be turn on.i'm not going to be taking note & just looking.I will respect your private bedroom. I did get invited to a swing party in California last year but i couldn't make it.I wasn't planning on staying in a corner quietly.I was planning on masturbating.i wasn't going to let couples or women to women have all the fun.I'm a seriuos female voyeur & i get turn on touching & talking to people while a couple or women are having sex.. Spoomonkey i might not let people perform vaginal,anal or oral sex or me but i want to perform anal sex on men, strap on sex with women,breast play with women & i'm still underdecided about performing oral sex. I just hope both communitiies BDSM or Swinger will give me that chance.I hope not all swingers are not turn off by female voyeurs.I just want the chance to explore my sexuality as a virgin & when the time is right.I won't be too naive when i do decide to have vaginal sex or any other sex. Thanks for you opinon. CAbrownsugar
  13. Thanks everybody for the debate.Spoomonkey,JustAskJulie & other swingers.I have to thank all of you for your sexually freedom & sharing your views with me pro or con.I'm learning from you.It makes it easy for me to explore my sexuality.There are alot of stereotype about virgins & yes us virgin stereotype nonvirgin people too.I've been exploring my sexuality as a virgin for 5 years now.I'm not going to stop now after suppressing my sexual freedom because of virgin stereotype.Virgin are naive to sex & virgin should only learn about sex after their first time.I'm not waiting & i shouldn't have too I use to judge BDSM & swinger communities until i befriended some people.It's like a family & some people are willing to help eachother.Both communities are very protective of eachother.I think a virgin can learn alot from both communities without having vaginal or anal sex.There are some virgins who could use a sex coach before having vaginal sex.I know some nonvirgin hate being a teacher but one time in your sex life.You did or wish you did have one.. I know some swingers are not into voyeurism but all of us are voyeur.I know i'm not going to get much replies from this board but i hope i do from some swinger women.I hope another woman would like to help another women & show her. What does it mean to be sexual confident free woman & how to turn a man on. My fantasy is to have man or woman watch me masturbate.I want to know how it feel to turn a person on by masturbating.There are things i would like to do to a woman put on a strap on dildo & finger fuck a woman.I have no interest in a woman doing me except breast play.Men.I would like to do hand jobs on a man.I would like to talk dirty & take advantage of a man while another woman fucking him.My all time favorite fantasy.I would like to fuck a man with a strap on dildo in the ass. I know.I won't be receiving vaginal,anal or maybe oral sex but i do hope either BDSM or swinger communities can help me express those fantasy. Really thanks for the talk.I might not be having sex but i think i still can go to a swinger party & enjoy everybody company. CAbrownsugar
  14. JustAskJulie, Thanks for your reply.I guess i should tell you something about myself.I'm a 35 year old virgin woman.I'm waiting for LTR or marriage to have vaginal sex.I've never experience outercourse either(oral sex or anal sex) The reason why i'm interested in the BDSM & Swinger communities.The one thing i love about both communities.It's like a family & both communities try to make it safe for women to explore their sexuality .Thats what i want to do. My story.One day i will not be a virgin.I feel i shouldn't have to wait to educate myself about sex.There are alot of stereotypes about older virgins over 30.One we're naive about sex.I'm not. So justAskJulie I'm coming to your community to educate myself about sex.I'm also asking men and women swinger for their help in educating me.I might not be about to act out on some things but i can learn by being a voyeur & maybe some sexual act that doesn't mean me having vaginal or anal sex. I'm hoping to find & talk to fellow single women swinger to hopefully be a sex couch to me.I would like to go to a swinger party as a voyeur or go to a masturbation party. I know i'm going to get some confusion from some people on this board but i hope.My post gets some understanding.So please don't ask me for vaginal sex.That is not my goal.My goal is to educate myself & explore my sexuality as a virgin. Oh and no i don't have a trusted man to help me. Thanks for the support. CAbrownsugar
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