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  1. Female half of our couple enjoys one man at a time, unless it is a MFM. Male half is not a watcher. It is enjoyable but he likes to participate. We try to stick with couples that way both of us have something to do, or maybe we should say someone to do.
  2. Lol. That guy has probably seen some weird stuff but we are sure you made his night. Wish we could have been a fly on the wall to see his reaction
  3. We think they are fun accessories. They add to the thrill if they are there, but they don't take away from anything if they aren't there
  4. Although I can understand that you might fear some more than others, we avoid all of them just the same tribbles =-)
  5. In your experience with swinging, either being the guy yourself, or the woman experiencing it, when does the guy normally cum? Do you have the woman perform oral and cum through there so you last longer for sex? Do you let the woman get you started with oral but only cum during sex? Or do you skip oral completely and just cum through sex. Normally we cum through sex, but sometimes the girl is really good at oral so I (male) don't know to make her stop or let it go...Just curious what the rest of you do in a similar situation.
  6. The Mrs doesn't like it anywhere in on or around her face or head. Anywhere else is fine. She likes it inside the most though, as do i
  7. I was wondering this same thing. It seemed inevitable. But like the others say, it is a reality one must come to grips with. But then again, if you do acquire it, will knowing it was inevitable make it any easier? Then what do you do...
  8. Well thank you for all the posts. Where it stands now we wrote her a short email basically saying we are sorry she feels that way about our lifestyle but hope that in the future she can accept it and that we have enjoyed her as a friend. She responded by saying such a short email proves to her that my wife hasn't changed and won't change so that basically she doesn't want to be friends anymore. I guess all in all this is the way things should be, this friendship seems to be getting toxic. Secondly for those of you asking about the pictures. The pictures are not on a lifestyle website. They are on a normal social networking site and only my wife's friends are able to view them. We have since made the restrictions even more. Additionally, the pictures are nothing more than us dancing and having cocktails. There is no skin shown or anything raunchy
  9. Hi everyone, We do our best to keep your fun life and our vanilla life separate. However a few friends found out recently and my wife received this email from the female half of the other couple. We don't even know where to go from here...let's see what you think. Sorry for the length, she rambles and tries to sound smart with big words. Here is one part... There are many things that I have seen that I do not necessarily agree with and I am not one to judge as I have done my fair share of crazy things. First, but I think above all else, I keep morality a priority. As you know, everyone has their threshold of what they could or couldn't tolerate in a relationship, so I am no one to butt into your life -- I just don't think I could agree with the kinds of things that I have heard (or activities) that you are now a part of. Truth is, I really did look up to you. Not only as a person, but as a friend. What I should say is that I feel some what ashamed. I don't approve of your lifestyle lately (again I am not your parent for you to be concerned at all on anything that I say, as I am just expressing the way I feel) and by that I mean, the constant drinking, the photos published on ****** of you bending over in front of other men/women, etc. I feel as if I were to not check your ****** in several months, I wouldn't miss a thing -- I would see the same pictures just different backgrounds. Again, please don't take this offensively, just try to understand what I am saying. then she goes on... I am not sure if the way I perceive things have changed since my priorities in life have shifted since I first met you. I just feel like somewhere along the lines, you lost sense of who you really are. You have always had a more open mind than me -- and I guess that's where we differ, however, I think there is a fine line between morality and dignity. Whatever you and *husband* do in private is none of my business and by all means completely out of my league, and I trust that hopefully, *husband* will always have your best interest at heart. I have always been very old fashioned in my way of thinking and please forgive me if you find any of what I am saying to be insulting, but marriage to me is sacred. I think marriage is between two people and two people only. As I could agree with you, I think everyone should have fun and try things at least once, however, I am scared to think that you could possibly be taking this swinging thing to a whole new level. Again, I am limited as to my conclusions because I am not involved in your life, so please correct me if you deem it necessary. ......................... My wife wrote back saying I thought best friends were friends no matter what. I mean now I feel like we are being judged. As in this community we know can happen from time to time. But why would someone write something like this? To end a friendship? To get you to stop? I'm confused and actually angered. I need my swinging community to back me up here. Is this a little out of line? To complicate matters, I am the godfather of their child. And no, they never married. LoL. imagine that. To someone who marriage is sacred? Advice on where to go from here with this?
  10. We prefer same room, that (as Robin Williams once said with a lisp) "enhances the sexual stimulation".
  11. We are usually the couple that is 20 years younger than everyone else, I dont think we are deterred at all. I mean age is just a number right. If you are an attractive couple we will respond. We have been with couples older than us. In fact most of our friends in the lifestyle are older than us. Go for it.
  12. Life is so much better for both of us since we started swinging. It's not just the sex that is better either. I mean we have so much fun now. The swingers we hang out with are a trip. We have never had so much fun. Some of the swingers have kids our age lol and we still have so much to talk to them about. We are more carefree now. Not in a bad way. In a good way. Carefree in the sense that we don't care what other people think. We do what makes us happy and we have a good time doing it. We only live ONCE!!
  13. I think thats part of the fun of swinging. Being able to try new things that you might not get a chance to try. One couple we were with the male half liked to suck toes while he had sex, the Mrs. Fooz loved that. I do no like feet lol. At all
  14. oh I couldn't imagine not telling your partner that it fell off.
  15. Hey everyone, I know it has to have happened to some or most of you. You are in the middle of your full swap having your way with the other spouse when all of a sudden you or they realize the condom came off! Knock on wood this has not happened to us yet. We would just like to know what everyone's course of action was after this happened? A friendly fishing expedition maybe? Did you put a new one on and go at it? Or decide that it was a moot point by then...
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