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Carol_Danny

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About Carol_Danny

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  • Birthday 09/16/1963

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    Couple
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    Montreal, QC, CA
  • Interests
    Sailing & more Sailing
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  • Swinging Experience
    20+ years

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    My House!

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  1. In General, this is true. As the "Orientation" couple at our old club, we were the ones who first met with couples entering the Lifestyle. We would give them information and answer their questions. We did this for about 5 years back in the '80s. In many cases, it was the man who first broached the subject to his partner, and at first, the women always were just a bit leery about it, but willing to give it a try. What usually ended up happening was the woman would get right into it, rather quickly, which in many cases shook up the male partner. Once he got over his initial shock (and had his ego and confidence stroked by his wife) things would get smoother. But, it always seemed that the woman was the partner driving their journey through the Lifestyle. Even with us, after all these years, Carol is the priority in what we do and who we do it with. I really just follow her lead.
  2. There is nothing wrong with asking where you should cum. Some women enjoy the feel of cum on their bodies, face or in the mouth, while others prefer you just to cum in the condom when you are ready. Carol just ends up asking the guy where he would like to cum, and then takes care of him
  3. Yep, Mel Brooks as Moses dropping the 3rd tablet. That was funny!
  4. Many years ago, some friends of ours had a house party. Most of the people were the good old regulars, but there was one new couple who had recently joined our off-premises club. There were around 10 couples total. I guess the new couple had a personal rule of no intercourse, that of course, none of us knew about. To make a long story short, Carol was giving this new guy head on the floor, when he looked over and saw one of the other guys penetrating his wife. He flipped out, and actually threw Carol off him which caused her to hit her head on the corner of a coffee table opening a gash. The other guy was on top of his wife, and this nut, without warning, kicks him in the head then grabs him by the hair and pulls him off his wife. He started punching the guy in the face! I, along with another guy, grab this nutcase and pull him off. He is just flipping out and elbows me in the nose, breaking it (again!). Unfortunately for him, I had been a boxer for many, many years, and I was still training (though no longer competing). I hit him once in the stomach followed by left cross to the head, and he went right down. The entire episode last about one minute. Now we have 20 naked people in a living room. Carol is bleeding and crying. The other guy is bleeding and dazed. I have a bleeding and broken nose, and this nut is out cold on the floor! So much for a fun night together! We didn't call the police, but got the guy dressed once he came to, and out of the house. Never did see them again That one makes all our other "Horror Stories" seem mild. -- Danny
  5. No, I believe he is talking about people who live the "Motorcycle Culture" not people who just ride them. There is a big difference. When we were younger, Danny and I both would ride and we did get into the whole "Harley Lifestyle". We did have a great time and met some amazing people. But we did fall out of it due to family and work. These days, we just ride once in a while but we are not part of that Lifestyle.
  6. While reading the comments in another thread about penis size, I thought about hard or fast intercourse. I am quite petite and I can't take too large of a penis. But with even average guys, I can't take hard intercourse. I prefer it slower and softer which I know isn't for everyone. I also find that it feels so much better when the penis is going in and out at a slower pace, I tend to feel everything much better. I do have girlfriends that just love to be "pounded", as they say. But that actually can hurt me due to the shallowness of my vagina. How do you like it? Hard and fast? Slow and sensual? Or a mixture of both? Why do you like it a certain way? Carol xoxoxo
  7. I know Danny already posted but I do want to add my comments. I actually prefer a smaller man over a big man. I am only 4'11" and I do have a shallow cervix. I can only take about 6 inches, so anything more is a bit of a waste. I do like a thicker man as the extra girth does hit the right spots and does feel good I have found that thicker men that are over 7 inches just is not comfortable to me. I can and do have sex, but the intercourse just isn't the best unless they take it easy. I usually get on top when I am with a bigger man so I can control the motion and depth. Carol xoxoxo
  8. Many of the clubs up here have started Bi nights (usually midweek) for Bi-couples. I have seen Bi-Male action at on-premises clubs here in Montreal, but it's usually done discretely. What is becoming very common is for Bi stuff to happen at private house parties. The last party we were at, out of 9 couples that were there, 5 of the men were Bi. They don't touch the straight guys (unless asked, which happens) but none of it bothers the straight guys in the least. We've found that the Bi-male thing isn't as taboo as it once was, and many men are finally admitting to their curiosity.
  9. Unfortunately, Christianity doesn't have a lock on those feelings. All religions have their fundamentalists and very conservative factions. While not a Christian myself (yet I do consider myself to be a spiritual Agnostic), I hold respect for anyone who truly follows their beliefs, and have never had a problem with people of any faith. Although I believe if you say you are a Christian (or Jewish, Muslim, etc.) you should really act like one! 99% of the World's problems could be fixed if people practised what they preached!
  10. I agree Julie, which is why I only mentioned the concept of "class" and not "finances". Many Professionals do not make all that much money, but because of education and bearing are considered to have "class" If it was solely based on finances, well my neighbor who is a plumber (and we live in an very upper middle class neighborhood) makes a lot more money than my doctor and lawyer neighbors! The Brick Layer around the corner isn't doing too bad either
  11. In many cases it is a "class" issue, and people are stating that they want people of the same class level of themselves. It is unfortunate, but quite true, as we know a number of similar people who would never step out with people they considered beneath them. Then again, I have seen ads that ask for "working class only", so it can work both ways.
  12. Am I the only one that thinks penetration is just a very small part of Swinging? I'm just an average guy, but have never had problems or complaints, and we have been with guys of all sizes. Even the smaller than average guys have easily been able to satisfy my wife, as penetration isn't the most important thing to her. Bilingual4U's husband sits in that average category, as are most men. That's why it's called "average". Luckily, we have never judged our partners on the size of their penises. Doing that just causes you to lose out on some great sex! Actually, I lied. Carol doesn't like guys too big as she is quite petite and she finds them uncomfortable. But, there are so many other things you can do with sex than just penetration. -- Danny
  13. I don't argue with them either. If it is their choice to remain monogamous, and they are truly honest about it, I applaud them. They have their religious convictions, and they stand by them, as they should. I fault no person for that. But just don't go telling me how I should live my life. That I will not tolerate. Because of our moral beliefs, we have very few (well okay, none) friends who are true Christians. We lead very different lives and have so little common ground that friendship would be close to impossible.
  14. The 10th Commandment; Exodus 20:Verse 17 (KJV) "Thou shalt not covet thy neighbour's house, thou shalt not covet thy neighbour's wife, nor his manservant, nor his maidservant, nor his ox, nor his ass, nor any thing that is thy neighbour's." was more concerned with wanting possession of something that someone else had, with the wife being considered just a possession. A woman, in biblical times, was considered to be the property first of her father, and after marriage, of her husband.
  15. Nope, know exactly what an oxymoron is. Based on the bashing we have personally received the last 20 years from Christian groups, I would say it has become on "oxymoron". Plus, if you do follow the 10 Commandments, I would say that Number 7 puts it in the proper light: 7th Commandment; Exodus 20:Verse 14 (King James Version) - "Thou shalt not commit adultery." - This referred to a man engaging in sexual intercourse with a woman who was either married or betrothed to another man. Since most Swingers are married, I would say that it is very contradictory to Christian teachings, and therefore the idea of "Christian Swingers" is a great example of an oxymoron (by your own definition) -- Danny (the lapsed Catholic
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