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  1. How is it that the two of you can have the frame of mind to be swingers and you both have communicable deseases?
  2. I might suggest doing something perhaps out of your ordinary every day routine that might jump start your libido. Perhaps an evening of entertainment like a "comedy club" might leave you both feeling so upbeat that for one evening you two can laugh and forget the pressures of the day. And maybe dancing after that???? A few years ago, my wife & I went to Las Vegas and I bought her a spa package when we stayed at the MGM Grand. She never had one before and to this day it rejuvenates her just to think about it. So maybe treat yourself to a spa treatment? That might renew your libido? I wish you luck,,,,, Sincerely "X" Swinger
  3. Lady61, I would think that at some points in your swinging you would've mentioned to him (or displayed to him) that you weren't on the same level as he is with swinging. You are definitely confusing your husband , and yourself for that matter by dancing around the edges of the swinging environment (still wanting to go to clubs) knowing full well he wants to swing and you don't. Is that fair to him? It goes without saying that he shouldn't advocate what you should do with your body - with him let alone with others. Basically, over the past 4 years you've opened up a Pandora's Box that may now be difficult for you to close. Good luck,,,,,,,Sincerely "X" Swinger
  4. As far as me being a cheater - before I became born again cheating (aka swinging) was possible, and lust filling my heart now - not so much now as before I became serious about Christ. SOme things are a constant battle but now I see a beautiful woman in a different light. The first look recognizes the beauty - the second look or continued gaze allows lust to kick in. Now there's allot less second looks and gazing. Thanks for your concern though Chicup Sincerely "X" Swinger
  5. These stats speak for the members of this board and visitors who posted their opinions, no "science" is required to see that. The "vanilla" world has it's fair share of marital/relationship indescretions surely - but it would've been a greater surprise to read that "those in this board" (and not all swingers) either won't cheat at if it's convinient or have not been desensitized to cheating due to having been cheated on in their past. ,,,,,,Sincerely "X" Swinger [[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[ Every Soul Has A Watcher ]]]]]]]]]]]]]]]]]]]]]]]]]]]]]]]
  6. HornyGuy - you're natural instincts are telling you to beware of a dangerous situation. Don't look for a way to circumnavigate your instincts.
  7. That means he wants to keep his identity secret. He dosen't mind sending pics of his partner all over creation but his identity he want to be respectful of. And that he's ugly of course,,,,, Sincerely "X" Swinger
  8. You don't need to discuss a thing. You should recognize that swinging is wrong,,,,point blank. Don't come to this forum expecting understanding. All you will get is instruction on how to pull it off. The relationship you have with your wife is a Holy bond between you, God and her. Your gut is telling you something isn't right and you need no more intuition than that to know what you have to do. You may need to check your wife out to see why she want's to swing. Chances are if she's got the nerve to tell you she want's another guy then her and this guy may be tired of hotels fees behind your back. I tell ya what, tell her "honey that sounds like a good idea and that you've had your eye on her sister and maybe the four of you can hook-up and see what happens,,,lollol. Sincerely "X" Swinger
  9. To Dave and Sheila Have you checked in on the deceased guy's wife? How is she holding up? I sincerely hope her mourning is short. Sincerely "X" Swinger
  10. Of all the replies I see to this , "man blowing a man thread" that's worth replying to is the one by (I think his name is Vegas Lee). No I can't say God Hates Homosexuals, (and they shouldn't be called fags). Isn't fags deregatory??? Doesn't that go against the rules in this chat of personal attacks against others by name calling ???? What happened to freedom of opposite opinion in here??? Man you guys are violent now,, and the moderator just sits back in the wings and allows it - but if it were me I get hate mail from her, but that's cool. Anyway,,,,,God does not hate (Homosexuals) of Fags as Vespertine put it and I don't remember the guy saying he was one. God loves the sinner but hates the sin. We're all Gods children. Sincerely "X" Swinger
  11. ok,,,,wait a minute,,,this must be a "X" Swinger reply set-up to get me kicked off this board once and for all. OK, I'll take the bait - yeah guy go ahead and le him do it,,,lollollol! And right after that go ahead and "snowball" the guy to,,,,, What the heck - ya can't be judgemental on this board can ya,lollollol! Talk about lost souls,,,,,,, Sincerely "X" Swinger
  12. Safe sex is sex with someone who you know for a fact is health and clean. And this person you should be exclusively committed to.
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