jenniferblue

Wow, I'm going to resurrect this thread because I asked another question earlier relating to the 'alternative men's underwear' issue. I met a guy and we had sex for the first time last night and he had on men's bikini thong underwear. I was kind of ummm...taken aback shall we say and thought it looked kind of err...feminine. He's tall and slim and it suits his body type but I wasn't expecting it. And the feedback I'm getting on my posting has headed in the direction of that being a 'gay man' thing to wear that type of underwear. Well, reading this, maybe it's not a gay-man thing after all. I didn't know some women were actually turned on by men in bikini thongs lol. I'm leaning toward it being a misguided attempt to impress me ( or women in general ) now . I love these forums, they are so educational !!

Hi all . Ok, I do have experience in this. My ex-husband was black (married 12 years) and I have dated 6 or 7 black guys. It's actually pretty evenly divided down the middle as far as the # of black guys I've been with v/s the number of white guys lol. NONE of the black guys were well endowed (one was a little better than average). All of the guys were 6 ft plus, athletic types.....but their package certainly wasn't anything to brag about. Whether they were good lovers or not, mostly no with the surprising occasional exception. The biggest guys that I've ever been with were tall, skinny, white guys (all of them seem to be well endowed ) so that's my favorite type of guy...think Tommy Lee...need I say more?

I personally wouldn't because I'm not bi and couldn't imagine eating a girl out period (as in 'at all') . But having said that, I was in a 5 year relationship with a guy who LOVED having sex when I was on my period. It was his absolute favorite thing. He had told me from the beginning that it being 'that time of the month' wouldn't change anything except for the fact that he wouldn't go down on me. Well, we were in bed one night, kissing and talking and he starts going down my body (he knew I was on my period). He licked and kissed all the way to my thighs and then licked and kissed and teased, never quiet touching my kitty. And I'm all hot and bothered of course and waiting for him to come back up so he could penetrate me. And then he started licking my pussy. It was the hottest thing ever because it was so unexpected and so taboo. It was just plain WRONG, shouldn't be done. I told him to stop and tried to push his head away but he said 'no' and just kept licking until I came. The badness of it made it so hot for me. That combined with the fact that I felt like he wanted my pussy so much in that moment that he didn't even care whether I was having my period or not. It also made me feel very very accepted and loved because it felt like he loved every single part of me, even the parts that I personally find yucky (I don't even like touching myself down there when I'm on my period).

I LOVE giving head, I can cum doing it even without any other stimulation. And I always swallow, it's never occured to me not to. The key to those of you who gag on it is to start swallowing rapidly right BEFORE the guy cums. He's tensing up, you can tell the moment is almost there.... so start swallowing before that first squirt and keep swallowing until he's finished. You don't taste anything and you don't have the texture of it in your mouth that may be making you gag. It's really easy that way. I think it would be harder for me too if he just kept squirting and my mouth was full of it. Don't let it get to that point lol.

I have always swallowed since the very first blow job I gave facelick . My theory on it is, if it tastes bad then I want to get rid of it as quickly as possible, if you spit you have to hold it in your mouth until you get the tissue or whatever. If you start swallowing right before they start cumming and keep swallowing until they stop, well, you don't really taste it. And if it tastes good....hey, all the better .

I appreciate everybody's help....he left me an IM message yesterday and told me that he called me because he wanted me to see how easy it is to find me and that I should be more careful with what I say, that there are some really screwed up people out there. I told him I agree with him but I think he had ulterior motives in calling me and that it seems to me that he's one of those people he's warning me about. I told him to never contact me again, that I don't want to talk to him at all anymore....that calling me when I hadn't given him my phone number was WAY out of line. And I logged off the IM. UGH, then I felt kind of bad afterwards, I'm the most non-confrontational person I know. I don't feel bad now though, it had to be done. I'm going to be WAY more careful now about saying what my profession is. He didn't even live in my town, he's almost 2 hours away and had told me where he works.....very white collar professional type so I didn't think anything about it at the time (and I didn't even tell him where I work just that I'm a real estate agent!) I will in the future though. Having you all tell me how out of line it was helped me to trust my instinct on that and do the right thing. Thanks for all your advice! -Jennifer

Hi, this is my first post, I'm very new to this (just registered at SLS 4 days ago). I have absolutely no swinging experience. I put up a profile as a single female at SLS saying that I was just curious about the lifestyle and wanting to look around before making contact. I mean, I went into my fantasies and put up pictures and all that...but I made it clear I'm just trying to decide whether I want to do this or not. ANYWAY, a man in his late 40's sent me an email and we did some instant messaging the day before yesterday. He does get me hot and bothered but he's into a lot of things that I just wouldn't be into. He tried to im me again yesterday and I didn't answer because he's a little too intense with what he wants and he's making me feel uncomfortable. When I didn't answer his im, he kept sending me emails ( like 5 or 6 )saying that I need to talk to him, that he's sorry if he scared me off, that he sees i'm online and at the sls site, why won't I talk to him. He tried to instant message me every couple of hours. Finally at about 10 last night, I answered and told him I didn't feel comfortable with the things he's into etc. He said he's sorry that we should just meet for a few minutes or talk on the phone. We ended up im'ing for a couple of hours last night but I told him I wasn't ready to talk on the phone yet and I didn't give him my phone number. Well, guess what just happened? He just now called me! He didn't even have my last name! I answered the phone and he said hi and I asked him who he was, he said his name and I asked him how he got my phone number. I had told him I was a real estate agent so he said he went through the real estate books until he found my picture and my cell phone number was there with it. It totally threw me that he did this, I feel very very uneasy about it. I only talked to him for a second and then told him I had to go. And I thought 'at least he doesn't have my home number', and just now as I was writing this he called my cell number again, I didn't answer and then my home phone rang and it was his same number. I am so freaked out right now. I have no idea how he found my home number. Is this something I should be concerned about or has this happened to anyone before? It seems so out of line to me. Any advice is much appreciated. -Jenniferblue