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L&K

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  • Birthday 09/14/1960

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    michigan
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    off roading,snowmachining
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    self employed

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  1. I would have never believed this could have happened either, but After I had endo, and had a Histo. our sex life opened up more then ever. Gents if your lady Squirts you can take that as a great complement. As the others the first time it happened we thought my bladder had let loose, but it is more like water. The only problem we have now is getting the blow dryer out to dry out the mattress. At least it leaves no stains!
  2. I'm sure this was a most uncomfortable event for you. I can see my daughter doing something like that to me though. My daughter age 21 is so laid back with me on sexual conversations i can see her approaching me in the same situation. We have stepped away from swinging. I don't think my daughter has ever been involved with it. If so I have a feeling I would have heard about it. This is how I feel, my daughter and I have been close since she was born. Dad was the guy. Fishing, hunting, whatever... she went along with me and the boys. She did not face ridicule or embarrassment from asking me anything, although I will admit she shocked the shit out of me more than once. Point is, if things are somewhat similar, congratulations, you have done a great job of raising your daughter. She is not ashamed of her sexual being and clearly is open with her parents. Suggestion: if I am somewhat right here, talk to her. Don't expect her to forget you were there and don't be ashamed that you're human too.
  3. We too ran into that , either a very bad at kissing or not wanting to kiss at all , that was a bad thing for us and afriad to say Sue ran into that with every guy she had been with . Money is not persay what I was talking about but rather the attitude that can come with it . I think this could be very much related to the fact we live in a poor comunity , the percappata here is far below average . There for the handful of well to do's tend to place them selfs above the rest of the community . Our income is well above average for our area but may be barely above average say in Det . Where we developed a problem with well to do's is this . Born poor , in time we made our own , Those who would not give us the time of day all of a sudden think we should come to the country club and snub those i would rahter fish and hunt with . I am not that self rightous to place my self above any one . I do not automatically dislike some one who makes 6 figures it will depend if there nose is in the air . In our area that is a given if they make 6 figures , of course like every thing there is an exception here and there . Socializing for me means to be relaxed , if im going out to dinner it will be a family restraunt not the country club , if i have to wear a suit and tie some one died or is getting married . I just find those wiht a large income seem to fall into a social atittude i dont care to frantinize with . L or M I do truly addmire those who can socialize with any class of people with ease , My lack of ability there is a down fall for sure .
  4. Let me better claify what i was saying , for me the money is not the issue , its the attitude they carry . It has been my experience that those with a high income simply forgot how to enjoy the simple things in life and have a dry sense of humor , this certainly does not apply to every one with high income nor does it exclud those with low income . Money can , and often does change people , they no longer care for a tent camping trip or a burger at McDonalds . When i find that in a person i dont care to talk with them . Again for those with the ability to snob with the snobs and step down to comon folks conversation i hold in the highest regard , we all have personality faults and there lies mine . Im narrow minded , not a great trait to have but admire my honesty . L formerly M
  5. I don't often agree with quin, but I do think she has hit the key here . The wife and i have a larger then normal income, but we simply don't fit in with the high society people , we were both born relatively poor and made our own money , we can go where we want or wright a check for anything we wish to buy, new cars etc. But we wear blue jeans and prefer it that way. Quin states she has an ability to associate with people from all income levels , i have met people like that and i only wish i had that ability. Income can play a part as you simple can not afford to go on a high priced vacation but over all it is really your ability to associate with all class's of people. The wife's grandmother could talk with the press or talk to the homeless with equal comfort, I'd trade in a hell of a lot of my cash for that ability.
  6. This is a bit deep. From a lot of reading on this board it seems that many feel that by swinging there is no need to cheat , also several have said something in the order that they swing because they have cheated in the past. There is a major element missing here . The GAME cheating is often not just about sexual pleasure. Instead it revolves around the issue of getting away with it. The game of not getting caught is more interesting then the sexual play it self. Simply put it is a game of wits for many cheaters, much the same way a criminal will leave hints of his identity cheaters will make calls knowing they will show up on a phone bill, many like the risk factor more so then the sex. This has something to do with the mental make up i guess .It is where the get there adrenaline rush. L&K or M&S as we were in the past. For some reason we were unable to get on the board and had to get in under a new name.
  7. Hold the show here a minute , is this guy married ? your husband say's ok but does his boss have a wife who would feel differently . Let me give you another thought , Are you swingers or is this a first time out side the marriage encounter ? Your husband could have a motive for allowing this . Who has he been looking at ? If it appears to good to be true , IT IS to good to be true , S and i are beginners in the life style but we do know it take a serious amount of communication before any thing is going to go right , also time to find who you are in the life style , it dont all just come to you in your sleep . Frankly i think your steping in a mud hole and are going to land chin deep . Now if you are in the life style , you have had the long talks that are required and know what each other hope to derive from your pleasures OK , but i dont get that out of your post . M
  8. We just dont see the big thing about G rated pics , solicited or not . If we were going to get offended because some one sent us a picture with out asking then i think we would have turned tail on swinging a long time ago . If the pic is nude then the anti goes up , one wonders why they would be so willing to send such a pic to some one they dont know , yet im not offended , rather start questioning who this person is and what type of person they are . We would be less interested in the couple or person that sent a nude right off with out us asking but we are still not "offended" by it . Its not our butts in the picture . We all ways ask for a " recent " photo , prefer full shot face and body any thing form the family album is fine . You can call us shallow if you want but looks count . I have a pretty wide range of what i find attractive in woman and so does the wife about men , but there is limits to every thing . Any one that would meet a prospective swing parnter with out ever having seen them i would worry about , Notch getters i say M
  9. Well Quin is going to argue this, but S has been with one lady, and this lady felt like you, the pleasure she gave S was what she got off on. Whether S wanted to return the favor or not was of little or no interest. I don't think this is common from what I have read, but I have seen it with my own eyes, and boy what a sight to see! LOL S would still like to play in the BI area but she is not sure about returning the pleasure so she does not consider her self BI-sexual but has no problem with female touch and certainly enjoys forplay short of oral sex with ladies. Given the right lady and time to know her beyond just sex, I'm sure she will want to taste the fruits too.
  10. Well between us girls, (yeah right) I had never squirted until this last year. My history - married young, had 3 children, raised them, had endo for about 12 years, total hyst 3 years ago. One night making love to the hubby the dam broke! I was just relaxed enough and enjoying him so much my mind took over. Now I can control them some also, it is not the same as an orgasm, but if they happen to come together, WOW! :p I think with little more practice I may be able to slow mine down a little, getting tired of getting out the blow dryer before we can go to sleep. Can I tell you how to make this happen for you? Nope, sorry, somethings just happen.
  11. I agree all fit people are not assholes, I am 42 years old walk 4 miles per day and have lost over 40 lbs in the last 4 months. and would like to loose another 20 lbs, not for society but for myself to feel better and so i can live longer for my family. Do I find HWP unsexy? NO, but we do screen them because of size. Size can be intimidating. If you are going to have sex safety is a issue. and you must feel comfortable and when swinging on average do you know people that well? We are new at this and still looking for a couple that is looking for what we are out of this life style. And we both wonder if there is such a couple?
  12. Avoid the young! There is a multitude of reasons that older swingers 40 + may shy away from younger ( 22) year old swingers. #1 reason we avoid some one that young, their relationship with each other as a couple has not been there long enough, we prefer people to be together 10 years as a couple. #2 This is just personal feelings, we don't have any interest in some one the age of our kids, for us it is just not a turn-on. If you two like to swing it is your business just like it is ours, just trying to address the question you asked with honest answers from our point of view.
  13. he is 41, i am 42, been married 25 years, next march. he gave me pearl ring on his 16th birthday and we have been together ever sence over 27 years in sept. Have been searching for 2 months. S. All good things come to those who wait. Note: like the one all good turns get the blankets..
  14. Frankly I don't think any question on here should catch flak, that is what the board is for, to someone that questions whatever it may be is a real issue. Now Kissing, I don't have the problem with. My wife does. With our first couple, S did not enjoy herself since the other guy was a very pushy SOB that was clever to boot. But the only real problem she had as far as me and the other lady was kissing. I personally have no interest in drop your pants let's fuck. It is cold and not worth your time. I need to have a little intimacy with any lady before there is going to be any sex. It is still something we are working on, her reaction was not radical and being new it was not a question that had come up. What is the answer? You have to do what you are comfortable with as a couple. For us seems it will be kiss but don't dwell on kissing. For S and myself, kissing is a long part of love making, all through the night until some body falls to sleep. With a partner other then S, it will be part of our night but not a continuous event as S and I do. It's called a compromise I guess.
  15. Something new to try with you partner.. This is something i read in Casmo and we tried,, and it was great ending for both of us, just passing this on maybe some of you would like to try it. The Sultry Sidwinder allows you to sort of languishing leisurely place that , in the end packs a real punch. (Slow and stady can win the climax race!) Orgasms that result from a long, slow buildup are frequently much stronger than those that are achieved with fast intense stimulation. The eye contact, kissing and closeness of this position will drive your slow climb to orgasm. How to do it your and your partner should face one and another on your sides, superclose together, she raises her upper leg and and helps him to slide inside her, then drape the leg over his and tight around it. Try to arrange it so that your feet are braced against a wall or footboard. That way you can us the strength in your feet, legs, and toes to give you action you want. If you tend to get tense before climaxing, this is the perfect move to do as you peak upward. The side by side allows you to have that firm, full body contraction while staying in motion. You can Adjust the coital fit of his entry byt tensing or relaxing your thighs together. You'll hug his trunk, stimulationg the inner walls of your entire vigina, by relaxing your legs and opening them somewhat, he will have a bigger range of motion, which can help you get intense clitoral titillation en route to your climax. let me know if anyone tries this,, it was great for us.
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