We've been thinking about this one too. And we think we have found the perfect solution: A way to tell when a couple that you've met is a swinger or not! It seems to have been working, every swinger we've met fits this description so far. If you have just met a couple, and both of them are smiling, happy, and loving towards each other, and they seem confident with their partner....... Then they must be Swingers!!!!