BiNWAR

My hubby loves to have a strap on used on him and be fisted, more so to be fisted than anything...He has came before without being touched and he said it was the most amazing feeling not to mention the gallon of cum he put out...Of course he has to be in an "assy" mood to want to do so its not an all the time thing....

I felt like i was cheating on my husband if i had sex with another guy....jealousy that he would be having sex with another women and fear that he would leave me for her....fear that i was no longer sexy to him thats why he wanted to swing....hurt feelings that he wanted to be with other people Im sure there were a couple other reasons but those were the main ones that I had to work thru...now that ive worked thru them...bring on the couples!!!

Male half is 30 and Im 32.....we can spell swinging thats about it....

Ok, I'm probably going to get hit because of what I'm about to say, but who cares. Swinging is about being responsible to yourself, your partner and the people you choose to be with. Having sex with someone without protection is just plain idiotic and stupid....hello can we say STDs, how about HIV?? 3 little letters and a lifetime of agony. If the person I was with, whether is was my partner in life or a sex partner, didn't want to play it safe I would have to ask myself if they were safe for me! Cream Pies are a huge turn=on for me in all honestly and for my hubby also...would we love to do one,but will we? Hell no not with someone we don't know...there is no way. As for predominancy... I'm fixed, hubby isn't. I don't want him getting someone other women knocked up. For one thing he is a very responsible adult, which means he would feel and obligation to take care of the child whether her hubby/partner wanted him to or not in his eyes that is his child not the other guys and 2) Purely selfish on my part, but we have 4 boys of our own that he needs to support not some offspring from a tumble, and 3) These are children that deserve to be brought into the world in a safe and loving environment...can you image what a child would feel like if he was told that he was a product of a swinging. So that is my soapbox feel free to knock me off. I understand everyone is different in their beliefs and actions... Heather

I haven't seen myself naked since I was 23 and firm. Actually, I wondered that same thing, I'm not comfy getting naked at home in the dark, under the covers, why would I be comfy with someone else in the room? I had thought of maybe getting a sexy outfit that would help hide the scary parts of the body. Truthfully, my insecurities with my body is what is keeping us from enjoying ourselves.

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Unfortunately we dont have any clubs in our area and even if we did my hubby isn't comfortable around huge groups of people, hes kind of shy. Now me I would have a blast at one of the clubs and would love to go. We mostly look for single males which is kind of hard because you never know whats going to be on the other end. The ones we have talked to have been respectful but that doesn't mean in person they would be. We did meet one couple from SLS and boy they were pushy and wanted us to drop down and have sex right there on the first meeting, they couldn't carry a conversation unless it had to do with sex and the hubby kept grabbing her various body parts and calling her sexy bottom and sexy this and sexy that. I'm sorry but we are affectionate but they were sickening....That right there almost stopped us from swinging (we are pretty new) but we decided that maybe there is a couple out there online that is just like us and looking for a sane good time.

I was brought up Roman Catholic...now im in recovery I have been a Witch/Wiccan/Pagan/Christian Wiccan (so many labels so little time) for about 10 years now. I guess Ive kept some of my earlier learnings, like the commandments and integrated my followings now together with them.

Ewww! Thats a no for me (Heather) and John is a yes...he just doesnt get into it as much as he would have normally.

I classify myself as...sexual....I like to have sex with both equally. Yet I don't call myself bisexual unless I absolutely have to (like in the case of profiles there never seems to be a spot of sexual) I have the best of both sexual worlds...

Ok this is my first post and this is the perfect time and spot for it. Ive been married to my hubby for 10 glorious years, in the beginning he was soooo homophobic! I would have never thought in a lifetime that he would switch, until year before last while we were moving... in passing he said to me that he would like to try oral sex with a guy! After picking up my jaw and changing my panties (instant gratification) I of course asked him about it over and over and over and over again. Then last year he dropped another bomb on me and said that he would like to try full blown sex with another guy! Again with the jaw and panties thing...anyways, it just amazing to me that he went from being dead set against gay sex to wanting it bad...IMO, I think its the ones that are completely dead set against it to the point of "obsession" (for lack of better word) are the ones that secretly want to at least try it. Society has built up same sex as this horrible disgusting thing, when in actuality it is just...sex...hot, sweaty sex...if more people let their reservations down and threw out the outdated sexual morality issues there would be a lot less unhappiness in the world.