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TheGentleman

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About TheGentleman

  • Rank
    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 11/16/1967

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    Single Male
  • Location
    Illinois
  • Interests
    Travel, Photography, Erotica, Movies, Exploring the World
  • Occupation
    Company President
  • Swinging Experience
    Little Experience

Swinger Info

  • Favorite Club(s)
    European
  1. Interesting question Julie. I am a black man and I have limited swing club experience. I find that white people are more open about this issue than black. Also black people stereotypically dont seek sexual pleasure at swing clubs .. This alternative lifestyle is not frequent in black culture. Why ? I would assume because the integration of our society is still not as open and exposure to the lifestyle and people is limited to mostly whites and blacks who more integrated into the general society .. either in education, work, or neighborhood enviroments ... To let your sexual desires out is freedom in a sense ... Interesting question !
  2. Hi Pretty lady It is an interesting phenomenon that I think all offspring deal with...our parents having sex ... especially the kind of sex we are into ...... I think the most important thing is to deal with being comfortable with our own sexual needs... and desires.... Alot of people deal with sex in a negative way ... the positive way is to deal with sex as pleasure that we enjoy... I dealt with this issue years ago and buried it because I realized that the sexual relationship between my mom and dad belonged to them and really did not concern me ... just as my sexual relationships dont concern them .... you have brought up an issue however that is more common than we think but maturity should put it into perspective..
  3. No one should look down on anyone for doing the same thing they are doing ... double standard, hypocracy or what ever you call it only means they have not figured out their own life balance.... Demand for single men is not near as much but like other people responded a positive respectful attitude is the most important thing... We all just want to have some fun not ruin the party ... Dont even consider anything contrary if you want to swing.. Make yourself happy ... I would think that as a single woman or any person they should be able to deal with the situation positive within themselves ... thats the most important thing...
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