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  1. Not projecting on anyone else, just stating how it worked out for us. Results not typical. Your own results may vary, as they say.
  2. We did it a year ago. It went from a weekend with each other's partner to poly to separation and now pending divorce.
  3. At 14, a kid sees everything regarding sex as "cool" and it is quite possible that his friends recieved a video file. Hopefully it will stay among his friends and not trickle down to his parents.
  4. Most felons I met in prison and out were all convinced of their own innocence. They all felt that it was "the man" who coerced them through percieved persecution into dealing drugs or committing other crimes. I always accepted responsibility for what I did. I feel damned lucky to not be still behind bars. I look at it this way, the same America that imprisoned me for crimes I admit I committed is the America that provided me the opportunity to make my own way and become somewhat of a success once I was released.
  5. YZF here. I have no idea where you would be native to that your Spanish would any different. Quita's entry is conversational in tone and she did not include the formal "vos" and "vuestro" and other similar stuff in her post. I have spoken Spanish my whole life and I can tell you there is nothing wrong with what Quita regarding structure or anything else. But I do wonder why you are pushing yourself off as a wunderkind as far as Spanish. I did not interpret her message because I did not want to spin anything she had to say in it. If I was to say in Spanish anything similar to what Quita wrote, I doubt that it would sound any different.
  6. YZF here. Let me address a few things. I was in prison and released in 2001. It was supposed to have been life with out parole but thankfully my lawyer was relentless and was able to get my sentence overturned. I was lucky and a case made it to the supreme court (New Jersey vs Apprendi). Facts in that case could be applied to mine and my lawyer used it to get me resentenced. My new sentence was 60 months, I had already done 74 so I was released. I left the courthouse, my lawyer drove me back to the prison and I was processed out and given what little I owned and I was a free man. All I had to my name were a couple of horrid polo style shirts that were issued to me by the recieving and discharge section of the prison, a pair of jeans, and a pair of tennis shoes. I had a grand total of $100 in my comissary account and I was given $80 more upon release. During my time in prison several things happened. I was estranged from my daughters. My first wife (Carly, that's where I got the name) had taken up with another man. I was never getting out so I did not blame her. My father had disowned me. I had nothing. I got a job in a gas station and the owner let me stay in a store room of to the side of one of the bays. Basically I was homeless. The owner let me fix computers and motorcycles there when the place was closed so I made some money on the side. The owner of the gas station had promised himself that once his kids finished college he would sell the place since he was a teacher and wanted to do only that. He sold me the gas station in 2003. But it was a package deal. I had to agree to buy both the gas station and restaurant next door which he also owned. At the time the restaurant was closed. He did not like the restaurant business and he had always leased it out. It was an owner financed deal. A couple of months later a guy leased the restaurant from me. A couple of months after that I bought an ice distributorship. One thing about being in prison is that if you are in long enough, it clears up your credit really well. Then I got lucky, a company moved into town for a while. The guy in charge asked me if I would enter an agreement with him for tires, fuel, servicing and what not. This was a geological exploration company. These guys start work at 5 in the morning. There were only 2 full service gas stations in town. I made a shitload of money these guys. I also sold the restaurant during this time and entered into a partnership with a guy who wanted to start a wireline and logging company. He had been working for such a company whose trucks had to come from 200 miles away to work in our area. When those trucks were busy the clients had to either wait (time is money in the oil fields) or bring trucks in from much further away in New Mexico. I went into the deal with him. One logging truck, one wireline truck and we had enough work to book them solid and with in months we had bought another logging truck and two wireline trucks. I had started seeing Jack in 2001 a couple of months after I got out of prison and she went from a friends with benefits to exclusive girlfriend to wife over time. In 2006 we decided to move in together and I moved to her. I sold the gas station, ice distributorship and my half of the wireline and logging company (that had expanded twice more) to my partner. I had also patched things up with my dad. My dad passed away in 2007 leaving me a large inheritance and holdings in a couple of local companies which I promptly sold. Jack offering up booty to another member here is just playful banter with someone she will likely never meet. At least that is how I take it.
  7. Mrs. YZF here. Michael, I really appreciate your willingness to help. It would help greatly if she and I could communicate through a neutral party. YZF could interpret but I would wonder if he was putting his spin on things. Through YZF I let her know that she could put her side of what happened on here. She does not want to set up a membership since this will be her only participation but she is willing to participate in this thread in Spanish. Quita: Hola y muchos saludos a usted, Michael and a los otros membros de SB. Como ya saben, gracias a la Morena, tenemos una problema en huestro matrimonio comun. YZF y Jack son los casados, yo tengo un ano como tercera. No se que es la problema. Yo a compartido el sexo con YZF, con Jack y con los dos. YZF tiene una buena fortuna y es muy caridoso con su dinero. Jack es doctora y tambien tiene una buena cantidad. Jack a comenzado a fijarce en el dinero que YZF mi da para gastar. La mera verdad, no lo necesito. Mi familia tiene grandes empresas en Equador. Lo que mi duele es que estoy con YZF y Jack mas por Jack que por el. Si hay a alguien que amo, es a ella. Si, meti la pata con pasarme la noche con el y dejar a Jack afuera. Yo no pense que una noche fuera causar esto. Yo deseo poder comunicar mas con Jack. Quiero decirle que la amo. Estoy con su esposo por que se que ella lo ama and con darle gusto a el, le doy gusto a ella. Yo no quiero a YZF para mi. Si ella se va, mi voy yo tambien. Yo mi quede con ellos por los dos. Bueno, mas por ella, pero yo no mi quedaria sola ni con uno ni el otro.
  8. YZF and I discussed this today and he was pretty upset about me putting it out here. Because of my job and because of where I live (small Texas town) it is not like I have alot of options about who I can talk to that would understand. Most people would not get past the "swinger" part and probably think I had it coming. How can we work this out now? The animosity is going to be there between Quita and me so she can't live here anymore. YZF will hold the fact that Quita left against me. Now I find out that Quita's husband wanted her back and I was not even told about it. Quita and YZF kept that to themselves. I don't see what the big deal is with Quita. So what if she was a Miss Venezuela Runner-up. Seems like YZF and her can't put that out there fast enough like that makes her a big prize or something. I'll probably move into one of our rental properties and let them have each other, see how long it lasts.
  9. Quita's husband has twice contacted her about them getting back together. We (Quita and I) decided that she was better off here. Jack (Carly was a psudonem, but since she is airing things out...) always said that she did not want Quita to go back so we never told her. We just left things as they were. Quita's husband just left her here and ran off. She has been here long enough to be an equal to not less than Jack. It's only fair.
  10. YZF here: Whoa! Someone has been airing out the laundry it would seem. Looks like there are going to have to be some issues to be worked out. A few things are going to be listed under "Don't go there." Quita leaving, is a don't go there subject. Quita's allowance is "don't go there." Something that has always bothered Jack (short for Jaquelyn) is that she has always felt that I am too generous with Quita. Quita does not work so she deserves some money of her own. Quita has a real laid back, mellow attitude and does not complain about anything. Jack could take a lesson from that.
  11. What gets me is that YZF knew the rule. I did not care if Quita slept with us every single day. I did not care if she slept with YZF when I was not home because of travel. I was not to be pushed out so she could sleep with YZF when I was home. It was never supposed to be that he could sleep with one of us sometimes and the other on some other nights. If he had slept in her room it would not have been so bad (at least I think that) but instead, I was pushed out and she slept with him in OUR room. She has taken to calling me "Morena" whicn translates to dark skinned and "Negra" (Black Female) . YZF told me what those words meant. But when I called her "Guera" (Blondie) YZF told me she didn't like it and to stop. I don't think he is being very fair at all.
  12. Mrs. YZF here. Honestly, I think Quita is going to have to go. Our whole set up was that she could have one on one time with YZF and have one on one time with me. We used to actually have more sex with each other than with YZF. Our threesomes were pretty spectacular. But even though I have tried to make out with her, I am not into it anymore. She is after my husband and I am not going to allow it. The lifestyle is not the problem, I can enjoy that. But knowing what her intentions are I can't allow her to stay around. My biggest worry is what if YZF and her are colluding to push me aside? What if I am the one who will have to go. That is what scares me. I don't fear being on my own, I have my own money and medical practice. Quita, on the other hand, would be just a housewife.
  13. I was fine until she started creeping into my space. She seems to have forgotten that I am the wife. She would never have been invited to live with us if not for me. Now she has started to try to be first in YZF's heart. That was not how it was supposed to be. I have tried to confront YZF about this yesterday and today and he says I am over reacting. Of course he has not apologized or even acknowledged that he was wrong in letting her sleep with him through the night while I was kept out. Quita can sleep with both of us or with YZF when I am not here, but she is not to take my place and this happened this past weekend.
  14. I don't live in Mexico so I have no need to speak Spanish. She lives here and should have learned english a long time ago. Funny how she can spend a whole bunch of money and not even speak English. She understands "Cash or Charge" just fine!
  15. Mrs YZF here. Almost a year ago we had Quita, a polymory third move in with us. It has been great. I have been into girls my whole life and so is she so it was good for me. YZF had two women when ever he wanted so it was good for him. She is the third, I am the wife. Those were the ground rules. Quita can come into our bed when ever she wants. She can sleep in our bed when she wants. She does not sleep with YZF unless I am not there. I do not sleep in another room so she can sleep with him. She gets everything I get. She gets to spend his money. He gave her a car. She does not get to spend the night with him at my expense. Those were the rules. They were not written down or anything, they were understood. Now this past weekend, I get booted from the room. "Something different" YZF said. Quita agreed. At least I think she agreed, the bitch does not even speak english! I can't help feeling that something is afoot here. Quita has been acting smarmy of late. I really do not know how to approach this.
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