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traceywitney

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About traceywitney

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  • Birthday 07/10/1978

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  • Location
    Ireland
  • Interests
    reading novels by authors such as Sidney sheldon, Jackie Collens, Rozamund Pilcher, Agatha Cristy, Daniele Steel. Listening to 60s and 70s music fav. songs: I'd love you to want me, Summer the first time, We're all alone.
  • Occupation
    seeking work at the moment.

Swinger Info

  • Favorite Club(s)
    never been to 1 but would be open to trying it some day.
  1. God I love these online tests! I'm pasting my results directly here. Congratulations! Your Hotlanta Kink Test score was 353! Thanks a million for providing a link to the test. It was sure fun doing it! Maria.
  2. When we are in a 69 position, his hands are usually stroking my breasts. When I just kneel down before him on either his right or left side his hands are either caressing me down there or else he finger fucks me, which I love most. When we are standing up, he usually strokes my hair, which is short. Personally I don’t like my head grabbed, restrained or guided or when a penus is rammed too deep into my mouth. I do appreciate and respect the fact that some women enjoy it though. Maria.
  3. I checked oral performed on man, woman, and 69, mutual masturbation, finger stimulation and back and body rubs. One of my play partners loves to go down on me while the other one doesn’t. I don’t mind though because I can live without oral as I prefer finger, candle, toy and or veg stimulation myself. You would probably think I’m weird, but I get far more turned on by things being inserted into my vagina rather than by oral sex. I like oral sex too, but if it were to disappear from my life I don’t think I would miss it. Just my preference though. Also like some of you some times we turn our foreplay into the main course. I love going all the way, but I can get just as satisfied and fulfilled by a long foreplay session without going down the whole road. Once again, this is just my preference. As for dancing, I’m afraid I’m rather a lousy dancer. However I do strip before my play partners and they find it a turn on. Maria.
  4. Congratulations CliffandKeira! I’m also very happy for you both. One more question though if that’s ok? Was the couple in question also new to the life style like yourselves or were they experienced swingers? Thanks in advance and once again congratulations. Maria.
  5. I prefer a gentleman myself. Like a lot of you on this thread I find it offensive when a person calls me a female dog or anything like that. I have never experienced being groped by someone I hardly know thank God and I would find that offensive as well. I would like a man to show he was interested by either saying so or touching me my wrist or hair. If I’m attracted to him, I will respond. Once I know a person well I see nothing wrong with a private grope straight after meeting them provided it’s all parties are comfortable with that. I also don’t like rough sex, as I don’t get off on pain. For me sex needs to be pleasurable. I know some philosophers say that pain and pleasure go together and that is true for most things I think, but just not sex. I prefer to start my sexual encounters gently and then build them up to fiery passion. I also like there to be a mutual consideration between partners and if one of the partners makes it clear that they don’t like something that the other partner is doing to him/her, the other partner should stop and move on to something more agreeable to the person. I’ve never been with a woman, but I think I would like a woman to behave exactly the same towards me as a man does. Of course it goes without saying that I am treating and will treat my playmates the same way I’d like to be treated. Maria.
  6. Hi everyone. Personally I have never tried fisting myself, but would be open to trying it with the right, considerate and experienced person. The only apprehension I would have about the whole thing is the fact that I’ve got an IUD and I’d be afraid the fister might push it further inside me. If that concern were out of the way, I would love to try it some day with the right person. Maria. PS. By the way, Candy and Cane, an IUD or a coil as it is also called is the English term for the spiral you were referring to earlier on in this thread.
  7. I’ve been on a pill for 2 and a half years. I still used condoms with both my partners while on the pill because of fear of stds. However my migraines got a lot worse. So much so that I was incapacitated and wasn’t able to work because I got attacks every second day. Changing the brand of the pill and going on progesterone only pill didn’t help either. So I had to come off it altogether. Then I was using condoms and spermicides for about 6 months. I was living in constant fear while just using those. On one occasion a condom slipped off and I had to take the morning after pill, which made my migraines worse again. I knew this couldn’t go on. I mean I couldn’t even relax when we weren’t having intercourse, but were pleasuring each other in other ways even with someone I knew well because I knew I could get pregnant if he handled himself and then me. I knew something had to be done about that. The reason I waited 6 months was because I wanted to find out if my migraine doctor would allow me to go back on a pill. He didn’t. In fact I was told that I couldn’t use any hormone-based contraceptive. I started looking at alternatives then. At first I wanted a tubal. However after doing some research and talking to my doctor I decided not to take that measure yet as I’m not yet 30 and there’s a risk of a tubal pregnancy if you do it before 30. I did some research on a copper IUD and have discussed it with my doctor and we both decided that for now this method would be ideal for me. I still use condoms with 1 of my playmates and only go bareback with the other one who is a blood donor and therefore std safe, when we are sure it’s safe. I know there is a risk of getting pregnant with an IUD. However I was given a 98 percent guarantee, which is quite high, I think. God forbid, if I get pregnant, then I might have to go for a tubal. If not, I’ll see what happens after 5 years when it will be time to remove my coil. I could either get an other 1 or get fixed or perhaps they would come up with an other method in 5 years that might suit me. Maria
  8. As far as I know a doctor can cut and or burn your tubes to prevent them growing back together. They can also clip them with rings and clips. There is also a non-surgical tubal. Anon surgical tubal is called Essure. An Essure is a kind of a coil, which is inserted into your womb like a normal IUD. The only difference is Essure causes some sort of scarring on your womb, which prevents fertilization from occurring. Hope this helps a bit. Maria.
  9. I also voted Sure. Because I’m 26 and 1 of my playmates is 43 and an other 1 is 33. However I find most men my age are a bit on the immature side. In saying that, if I ever found 1 my age who was mature enough and if I was attracted to him I wouldn’t say no. I also have no problems with the younger man/older woman. I used to about 5 years ago, but thank God, that has changed. As for 20/40 verses 3050, I think the latter is more mature, but if anyone is comfortable with the former, I won’t be the one to judge them. Maria
  10. I was 23 the first time I had sex. There was peer pressure in school, but I was good at withstanding it. I remember a friend of mine was telling me when I was 19 that there are no virgins my own age in Dublin. However I told her that I’m not going to try it for the sake of trying it. I also wasn’t attracted to anybody my own age, but rather I have always been attracted to older men. Any way, I met my first playmate at 23. He was 40 then. As I got to know him I realised that I actually wanted him to be my first because 1. I was attracted to him. 2. He was trust worthy and caring. 3. He wasn’t with anyone.4. He was willing to give me the first time of my dreams I.E. music, candlelights, no rush and a proper bed. I don’t regret it in a slightest because it was a wonderful experience, but it was hard psychologically because before I met him I wasn’t even French kissed and then 1 day it all happened all of a sudden. Perhaps if we were to spread the experience over a few dates it might have been better, but on the other hand then it might have been even harder emotionally because it was only casual sex after all with no strings and a once off as both of us thought at the time. It was upsetting enough as it is at the time. I mean when we talked about it at first I thought I would be able to handle it, but it proved harder than I thought. I’m not sure if half of it was due to the morning after pill I took or what, but I wasn’t myself a couple of days after. Then however I pulled myself together. Then we talked about it some more and decided to see each other for casual sex on the regular bases, which we are still doing for almost 3 years now. I never got emotional like that again. Then someone else came along and our arrangement became an open one. Now I think it’s the best set-up for me. In fact I’m not ready for a more serious involvement and if anyone suggested it, I’d be the one running a mile. However I realise that my attitude may very well change with time. Maria.
  11. My playmate did it to me once during my light day and straight after a shower. We have a rule to shower before play anyway. Period or no. I was actually surprised as when we were discussing this beforehand he said that he wouldn’t go down on me because of that, but apparently changed his mind after I had a wash. I didn’t mind because it was the lite day. That I wouldn’t let him near me during my heavy days. My second playmate doesn’t like going down on anyone period or no and I respect that. We have other kinds of fun.
  12. I also say it’s not the size that matters, but the ability to use it. Personally I only dealt with the average size so far and find those good. However a friend of mine was seeing someone who had a big one and she told me he was no good. After she broke it off (not because of his inability to perform, but because of other things) she had a 1-night stand with this guy with the small one and she told me the encounter was fantastic! Our Russian Empress Catherine the great was also a very sexually active lady till her last days and had lots of encounters. There is a legend going in Russia that 1 day she Ordered her servants to bring her a man with the biggest organ. The biggest they could find. He was found and was brought over to the Empress He ended up not satisfying her and was ordered to be executed. I don’t know if it was an actual historical fact or just the legend, but there you go. Maria.
  13. Apart from masturbation I absolutely love vaginal stimulation. Therefore my easiest ways to orgasm are: Missionary position (like for a lot of you I find that my G spot is reached better while in this position), me on top, Doggy style (bent over a desk), and Finger job. I have also chosen other by which I mean vaginal stimulation with a vibrator or a carrot or a candle. One of my playmates knows this preference of mine and therefore is constantly thinking of new things to surprise me with. The latest was a handle of his electric toothbrush, which was cool. However a carrot is by far my favorite provided I’m well lubricated and so is it. I just love a feeling of something cool in there. In my opinion it’s absolutely mind blowing! Maria.
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