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    Tinley Park, Il.
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  1. MrsBliss, it sounds to me like you have a wise husband who is thinking this through in advance. What a very good thing! We did the same and the result was fantastic. As long as you know what each other wants and does not want you will be fine. There is no way you will be able to relax and enjoy these stunningly incredible encounters if you are worried about your husband. You sound like a nice couple. Good luck! (too bad you live in the Netherlands!)
  2. Yeah, but this whole "stunt cock" thing throws me! I think everything they do is a stunt. I mean, they make me smile, they fascinate me, they get my attention. Now if I could just find one that was double-jointed...
  3. (sigh) i don't think i'll go there again. it worked for us. might not for you. we never, ever would have turned the sheets down for another man had it not been the man it was ... my bro-in-law. i guess ours is just a uniquely close relationship. my husband and his brother barely even shake hands. they love each other immensly in that "wave across the room" kind of way. thank God. too weird to imagine. but they very much enjoyed what we did ... it launched me into orbit on multiple nights ... 'nuff said.
  4. Ohhhh. JnM_Pgh is getting adventerous! "Incidental contact" makes it sound like a football game. You know, hey, it's sex. It's suppose to be messy. If it isn't messy, SOMEBODY isn't having fun. So we just didn't worry about the mess. That is why there are towels and washing machines. And face it, if you are going to allow your wife to take another penis inside of her, either orally or vaginally, you had better be aware that you are going to at least SEE another man. And unless you turn celibate you will have to, at the very least, touch what the other guys has had his cock in. It goes with the territory.
  5. Contact can "not exist" if you do not want it to. Yes, usually by being with one man at a time. Or you can arrange to give one oral sex while having intercourse with the other in such a way that they don't touch. It isn't that difficult. The issue of sperm though is one you'll have to think through. If you are going "bare back" as we always did, one man is going to have to fearlessly go where another man has gone before. It was not big deal in our case. For some reason that almost didn't seem like "contact" to the guys as long as they were just touching each other's sperm with their cocks. But there was no way either of them were going to intentionally touch the others ejaculate in any other way if they didn't have to. When it was inside of my pussy they just plunged in and used it as lubricant. They seemed quite happy to do so. I think they just wanted to get laid badly enough that they enjoyed seeing the other with me and the residue of my first guy was coincidental to the next one.
  6. Thank you, Sensual. You described it well. It WAS thought out. We talked forever about it. Sometimes the talk was just pillow talk but sometimes we got down to the brass tacks of whether or not we REALLY wanted to take that step. And we decided that we did. And with my brother-in-law it wasn't just "screwing." I mean, I don't love him like I do my husband but I do care very much for the man. It was not at all like "a mercy lay." I hurt for him and what he had gone through. He is an attractive man, my husband encouraged me to go through with it, so why not? We kind of fell somewhere between the "doing it with someone you are crazy in love with" and "doing it for nothing but getting off." I did want to please him and it made me feel good every time I managed to do that. It also made me sore. I must admit that while my husband and I still had many times of lovemaking alone, we pretty much set the bed on fire for a couple of years. Fun times.... good memories.... no regrets. (But I think we'll refrain from telling his wife. The standing joke is that if one of us gets sick and starts deliriously "spilling our guts" the others are obligated to put a pillow over his/her face and do the merciful thing!)
  7. Actually ... just talking about it ... I miss it. There is NOTHING like being that served and satisfied. We did go through the towels quickly though...
  8. Well, I guess what others think is not all that important to me. What IS important is that it worked for us. My husband and his brother never touched and totally freaked at the thought. Trust me, if that had happened I would have walked out of the room, the house, and most certainly the marriage. As it was, they enjoyed pleasing me and that, my friends, was a delight. I did not exactly "card them" at the door. Typically, one would watch while I was with the other. When that one would finish I would make love to the one who had been watching. Occasionally we would do the "3-way thing" where I would give one oral while having intercourse with the other but that was the exception rather than the rule. Most often I would just make love to the two of them consecutively. Worked for us so whoever was playing the banjo will probably wind up just having to play with something else all alone as well.
  9. That is funny. I have always read on this board that swinging is a very open-minded lifestyle. I had come to believe that people here were accepting of others choices. And now I am being called "weird" and "odd" because you do not like the fact that I made love to a man that I am in no way related to by blood? Isn't that a bit hypocritical? If my husband enjoyed watching us and sharing me ... is that not what swinging is about? Please feel free to form your own opinion but I would appreciate your allowing us ours as well without judging us for it.
  10. Well, I understand that. I would tend to think we were more the exception than the rule. My husband and his brother have always been the best of friends. When he got divorced he really got worked over. We were there for him. We never really pre-planned on being there for him THAT way! But as I said, my hubby and I had fantasized like most people do. After awhile we started talking about his brother because we knew he was horny. He had stayed sexually inactive and had not even dated 2 years after his divorce. That's when the teasing started. My husband was the one who initiated it all. I NEVER would have. But after months of teasing and my husband flashing my breasts at him it finally happened. It started with an unplanned flash leading to a handjob. I declined to do more. But it was not long until we found ourselves at the threshhold again. Hubby and I had MANY long talks between the mastrubation incident and this opportunity. We started teasingly playing. Nothing had been preplanned. But within about 30 minutes he and I were having sexual intercourse in our bed while my husband watched. It was all good but it helped that we really KNEW him. This eliminated the fear of disease, etc. And I guess we just trusted that our friendship was strong enough to handle it. He re-married 2 years later. We played regularly ... like he was over OFTEN ... until his marriage. Since then we've abstained. But we have great memories. I am sure we will leave it at that. He's the only time we ever opened our bed to anyone else.
  11. Sorry! I have to disagree with most of the people replying. As I already mentioned, my husband and I had a WONDERFUL time with his brother for nearly 2 years (give or take) before he remarried. Maybe our relationship is just special, I don't know. We teased for awhile and then hubby and I had a looooooong conversation. Actually, many looooooong conversations, before we moved from teasing and "soft fun" and moved on to sexual intercourse. It worked for us. We had talked about doing something like this on and off for years but until it occured to us that my brother-in-law was (newly) single we never found anybody we felt safe with. After his divorce it seemed perfect. But maybe it is just us.
  12. My husband and I were involved in a sharing situation with his brother for a little over a year. He had gotten divorced and really messed over by his ex-wife. Some time passed and we really felt sorry for him. At my husbands prompting we began to get flirtatious. Over a period of about 6 or 7 months we went from teasing to my husband revealing my breasts to him. The next step happened one time when my husband opened my blouse in front of him. They dropped to their knees and each sucked a nipple. I was in heaven. After a few minutes my brother-in-law pulled me up and to him, unzipped his pants and put my hand in. We wound up on the bed where I gave him a hand-job. Serious discussions ensued over the next 2 weeks. At that time we began flirting again and the evening ended with he and I having sexual intercourse in front of my husband in our bed. It was unplanned and yet we all knew it had become inevitable. Regrets? Nope. Memories? Yep. He remarried and we now have a hands-off policy. But we still give each other "the look" quite often.
  13. Let me guess. Three of you laughed... one of you gargled?
  14. I guess that is pretty much always the bottom line. Obviously you should take all of the precautions that you can. You have to decide that the pleasure and fun is worth the risk. If it is, then have a ball... literally! If it is not worth the risk then it's best to burn that extra energy baking cookies! And if you lose when you roll the dice then you make the best of that situation. We have all of the children that we want but if we had another we would surely love him/her and treasure the new life!
  15. That cannot happen. We only have threesomes with my husband's brother. It was my husband's idea. He and I were virgins when we married and about 6 months ago I took my brother-in-law's virginity. No fear of disease! It's a win/win situation. He's about half a decade younger than my husband and I so I call him my "young stud."
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