Need Female

I am sure glad I opened this thread. Y'all sure set me straight. But maybe it works the other way too. Seems like VegasLee had it right. Women run the world. "Behind every great man there's a greater woman". What's behind every great woman? Not too many great men for sure. Because men don't want women to be greater! LOL Seriously, thanks a bunch to y'all.

Hi. Single male here, No swinging experience. I've read several places where the "husband" has stated "he" has final say over who his wife "engages" with. Since when does the husband own the wife? I say the wife has the final say so about how, when, etc. Also, if the wife tells the "single male" it's okay to "touch" her or whatever, does that mean the hubby can say "hands off"? Somethings amiss here.