Hello,
Glad to find this site last year, just got enough nerve to post though. So, I do have a lot of questions. But the most important is:
I have seen a lot of posts on how to get the women interested in the lifestyle but what about the men side. We have been together 7 years (married 5) and our sex life has gotten a lot better, but I am still "curious". I think the lifestyle would be a lot of fun.
Our 7 yrs ann was the 17th and I wanted to surprise him with a FMF threesome adventure but never got the guts to do it. The mistake I made was talking to his best bud about how to do this, he said he knew a women that would be interested in doing it. Well needless to say, the friend got drunk and blurted it out to my hubby and he got upset.:slam" Well I explained that I decided not to go through with it. So I'm not sure if hes upset that I talked to his bud about it or the whole adventure part or the fact that it was a "secret" so I decided not to bring it up again, fearing he would get mad. HELP
So, I know you cant coax a person to do this, but any advice on how to approach him about this. I would love to see him with another women, and sure I would be interested in being with another man. I guess it almost seems like he would be jealous about this. And I know this is a REAL NO NO But should I have to give up on this fantasy because hes not interested. Marriage comes first, so I need advice. Thanks for everything...