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  1. I really appreciate all the advice. I guess were the type that doesnt really talk about fantsies and what we want because were afraid of what the other would say. If I tell him that I could be interested in this, Im afraid it would lead him to believe hes not good or not satisfying me. Hes never told me any deep fatasies either. I know TALK TALK TALK, its hard when you have kids banging on the door. Were going to see Larry The Cable Guy on Monday night, so I am hoping to at least put an idea out there of what I want. I dont want to just blurt it out, so I am feeling nervous. U think after 7 years I could tell him anything, but hes so self consious I guess its our age. Im 22 and hes 31. I would appreciate any comments or advice on how to approach the subject so he doesnt get the idea that I am not happy with our sex life. Because it is good, just it would be a different atmosphere. Hes into having sex in public the fear of getting caught, so why wouldnt he get into this lifestyle? HELP Its great to know that there are people out there who can help in situations like this. I will certainly let you know how it goes, if i dont chicken out that is.......
  2. well, i am turned on by 2 females doing it and weve joked about me being with another women. I guess you could say im bi-curious but sort of scared to actually attempt it. I like to please hubby and thought this would be a great surprise. he said its my fantasy, but hey, what guy wouldnt want a fmf!! before "me and him" i know he had this experience but i have never had the chance. and wouldnt think of it without him, but its still in my mind to try it. i want to approach him about it, but dont want him to think i want this just so i can be with another man. what to say and how to say it it extremely important!! any advice??
  3. Hello, Glad to find this site last year, just got enough nerve to post though. So, I do have a lot of questions. But the most important is: I have seen a lot of posts on how to get the women interested in the lifestyle but what about the men side. We have been together 7 years (married 5) and our sex life has gotten a lot better, but I am still "curious". I think the lifestyle would be a lot of fun. Our 7 yrs ann was the 17th and I wanted to surprise him with a FMF threesome adventure but never got the guts to do it. The mistake I made was talking to his best bud about how to do this, he said he knew a women that would be interested in doing it. Well needless to say, the friend got drunk and blurted it out to my hubby and he got upset.:slam" Well I explained that I decided not to go through with it. So I'm not sure if hes upset that I talked to his bud about it or the whole adventure part or the fact that it was a "secret" so I decided not to bring it up again, fearing he would get mad. HELP So, I know you cant coax a person to do this, but any advice on how to approach him about this. I would love to see him with another women, and sure I would be interested in being with another man. I guess it almost seems like he would be jealous about this. And I know this is a REAL NO NO But should I have to give up on this fantasy because hes not interested. Marriage comes first, so I need advice. Thanks for everything...
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