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parcarcaliente

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About parcarcaliente

  • Rank
    Active Contributor
  • Birthday 03/08/1976

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    Married Couple
  • Location
    Colombia
  • Interests
    Looking for friends and softswinging
  • Swinging Experience
    2 years
  1. Hi there, we had the experience of having encounters while wife being pregnant, but only soft, didn't exchange with anybody during the pregnancy, maybe this would be a good thing for you too. Keep it in mind. Take Care
  2. Hello there, I think we don't dress up that much, pretty casual, we take good care on being fresh and if we're going to go out, sexy underwear, but that's it.
  3. Hi there, wife in fact have been in a gangbang and she loved it, we also would like to repeat it with long guys and would love it to be black too, so it seems it's a pretty regular fantasy
  4. I think most people have already said so, so I just would like to add that we also started with the no kissing rule, and found out, there's no way we could kiss other people like we kiss between us, so it's normal to feel nervous when you start, as you are, but with practice you both will get better and pass that feeling. Keep it up. Take care
  5. She: Bi Curious, like to caress, touch and have fun with a girl, especially if she has the looks for her, but it won't get her off outside a sexual encounter. He: Would manage some degree of it, wouldn't have a problem, stroking other guy or even doing a blow job, but that's it, won't like kissing, caressing, or even talking about penetration :P
  6. Hi there, I have to agree with Mike and Jan: and if you find a decent guy to hang out with, and if you set the rules with no penetration involved, I'm sure he will be happy to do it with you both. Best luck, would like to know how goes with you after your experience, take care
  7. Hello there, we're also no ken and barbie, but like Chicup said, it's something you can work it out, we agree that we don't like the Ken and Barbie type, we really prefer to hang out with someone that you feel great with it, than anything else. Still we have to agree there have to be some kind of physical chemistry between everyone, it's just a matter of finding the right ones, and the rest well, it's just what you have to do to get there. Keep it up and don't get disappointed. Hugs
  8. She hated anal, so we started taking it slow on the matter, just some caresses, kisses and she started doing the same thing to me, now I have penetrated her a few times and she has fingered me too, it's weird but exciting have to say, about the strap on Idea, I think if the size it's right would be great to do it, of course it's not everyone and respect people that doesn't like it or wouldn't do it. Take care all
  9. Once again semantics appear and so all ends in a word play, but I would agree with Vespertine, in general 4 levels: Heterosexual: Just engages in sexual intercourse with opposite sex Bi-Curious/Friendly: Engages in sexual caresses or acts with same sex in some circumstances, not always. (Usually there are two types, active and passive) Bisexual: Engages in sexual intercourse or interaction with both sexes without any problems. Bisexual are usually active. Lesbian/Gay: Engages in sexual intercourse only with people of same sex. I think the relationship issues is irrelevant, since swingers aren't looking for that kind of relationship, (it can happen but I don't think it's the purpose of it). Take care all Hugs
  10. Like someone said before, this is a word play, I think the term swingers covers now couples and single men or women who accept and embrace this lifestyle. Even we respect and have had our share of threesomes, we agree that the real swingers lifestyle starts when you have a stable long term relationship with someone, then swinging takes up to a whole different level, I'm sure than most couples in here know what I'm talking about. Besides, I'm sure that most single guys or girls, doesn't mind if they're called swingers or not, as long you share the intimacy of your bed with you See ya all
  11. Hi there, I'm 7" so that's what I stated on the poll, this is a worry most guys have and I think most men has measured at least once in their life (if they're sex interested anyway). I have to agree with AdventorousTxM saying that height or build doesn't have to do with penis size, I'm 1.85 m tall, and I have seen guys shorter than me well hung, so it's definitely just random, no sweat about it. I think women has the word on this, my wife says it's better thick than long, even most guys are 6, 7, which it's a pretty perfect fit for everybody, she has had some long ones in her life and it hurts like hell, so it's not so fun, she enjoys what I have and feels great. I would suggest to make a thickness poll, would be interesting to see the results, don't you think everyone? take care all
  12. Hello SweetMelissa, this sure is a difficult theme to handle, as always could turn out into a debate that goes to nowhere, but I think what you have to do is to take a decision about what you really want and how you feel about it, that's what's more important. Religion is always a dogma, so there's no interpretation different to the one they do, so according to that, I'm sure swinging wouldn't be allowed and any priest that you talk to (as open minded as he could) would tell you that. If you want my opinion, you just have to remember what's important in Religion, and that is that love is above everything else, and you shouldn't do something different to love the others, and in that aspect, swinging doesn't break that rule. If you keep having these guilt charges, I think you would have to quit it, since I'm sure you wouldn't turn down your religion, so swinging would be too harsh for your tranquillity, take care and wish you the best. Would be great to know what is your final decision
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