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Gorgegon

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  1. If the married women is a Lawyer, the difference between her and a prostitute is that the prostitute will stop fucking you once her client is dead.
  2. Hello We are going to Desire Resort next weekend, my wife is NOT in to girls (100% hetero like me) and we would like to have a MFM here. We have been in several swinger trips or clubs and we have noticed that some guys are left alone while their wives play together. We are considering inviting one both males to join us. Males: Is this something that you would consider doing? Females: Would you allow your husband to go with another couple while you are enjoying yourself with another female? I know that a MFM is easier in a club that single males are accepted but we like challenges... What do you think if after we introduce ourselves to the other couple, and the female tells us that she is looking for bi action to propose to both of them our plan? Is this better? Thanks
  3. Please take the travel warning seriously and avoid traveling to Mexico, I am trying to reserve at Desire and is fully booked for the next two months!!
  4. My wife and I have single female friend who is 100% straight. Since she does not have the intention to be in a serious relationship my wife suggested to her that she should visit a swingers club. She is around 40 and she does not want to be dating anybody because she considers that one night stands are safer is a swinger environment. But I consider that a swingers club is not the right place for a single straight woman. She will be looking for trouble if her only intention is to play with a married male. She enjoys being watched having sex, but, I think since she is not Bi, there are not many couples interested in a SSF. Am I wrong?
  5. My wife and I have only two rules. 1) Be very selfish. We are swinging to both have FUN first than anybody else, and not only short term but also in the future. 2) And always we have to be in control of the situation. Basically these two rules have saved us from several uncomfortable situations.
  6. There is a Mexican Swingers movie "Fantasias" All the movies that we have watched have unhappy endings, always swinging experiences in the movies creates relationship problems. In "Fantasias" the couple become victim of an extortionist. There is also a soap opera from Peru called Malicia (1995) the staring couple use sex by exchanging partners as their "weapon" to achieve their malicious goals. The dutch movie "Swingers" does not create a good experience for both couples. They should make swingers movies with happy endings. A couple that improves or makes their relationship better or stronger, and when they swing we would also like to see the enjoyment of sex. (Usually one couple is all scared).
  7. If my wife gets pregnant by someone else, we tell the father that he had a child, obviously after the appropriate tests were done. However the child will live with us like our own children. We feel obligated to confess the truth to the genetic father not with the intention of getting money from him but to make him decide if he wants to have a relationship with someone that has his own blood, in the early years maybe passing as his or her “uncle” or “godfather” until he or she is old enough to understand the paternity issue. (probably I didn’t explain this well Julie, English is my second language). If I get another women pregnant I will certainly like to know that I had a child, however I think the mother should decide if she wants to raise him or her, if not, we will take care of our kid the same way we are doing with the ones we have now. If she wants to keep the child and she allow us to visit him I will be happy to be the “uncle” or “godfather” from out of town. But if the couple don’t want us near them, we have to respect that but we would create an education fund from elementary to collage and definitely he or she will not be left out in our will. What I wouldn’t be able to accept is if I was told that I child of mine was aborted. That is why we are thinking very seriously on getting me the vasectomy done because I can not control how the other couple will react in a situation like this also keep in mind that this is not typical conversation for swingers when you are trying to hook up with another couple. Or is it ?
  8. This weekend we had a full swap in separated rooms. We enjoyed it very much, they were a fantastic couple, but after we finished may wife and I were sharing our experience on our way back to our hotel. Our main question is if being a “full swap swinger” the ultimate goal for a “mature swinger” ? All the people talk about the steps on how to became a swinger and it looks that is never the first thing to try. Step 1. Start communicating with your partner Step 2 Search the web or go club. Or meet some in your neighborhood. Step 3 Discuss meeting arrangements. Step 4 Do a soft swing Step 5 Same room threesome or swap Step 6 Different room full swap. Step 7 ????? We may repeat the experience in the future but we both felt that something was missing in our experience. We didn’t see each other enjoy the full swap as we do the same room swap. What is what we should be looking for in a different room swap? What did we miss ? I think step 5 is a lot more enjoyable to us because we can see each other. Also can somebody tell us what should be step 7 or 8 in the swinging community. What would be the “ultimate experience” for the most experience swinger ? Thanks
  9. Hi, For us is a great opportunity to have fun !!! We really enjoy when a vanilla lady or guy hits on us. But what makes fun is that we immediately communicate the situation to each other. We don’t have secrets. My wife is a very attractive and intelligent, she even as a masters degree in science (not the typical nerd), 8 years ago she used to work at Ford Motor Co, and her boss fell so in love with her that the day she quit he proposed matrimony to her, he wanted to marry her immediately and he even ask her to leave me. Since my wife informed of this situation right when it started. We decided to have some fun with him. She would answer his calls and record them, so when I got home we listened to the recordings and had so much fun that we still laugh when we hear them. It’s amazing what a person is willing to say or do the get the other person in bed. Also since I am now starting the “mid - life” age. I get hit on a lot by all sorts of girls specially at banks or investment firms. But when one of this girls meets my wife they immediately stop flirting to me. I even joke with my wife that I am going to “rent her service to desperate wives” to scare potential lovers away. This happens probably due to her very strong personality and exceptional looks, she is so easy going and friendly that sends them a message of the type of women they would need to become in order to like me. Of course I am never looking around to find another women for me, she is my one and only. Since we like the “flirting game” one of the fantasies we have discussed when we are traveling is to rent two communicated rooms and then go to a vanilla bar in the same hotel and see who can get the “best looking” girl for me o guy for her to accept a one night stand, we would have a signal to communicate that the fish is in the net. If we both like our catch we do it next to each other in our hotel room. This challenge is very difficult but maybe one day it will happen. We are turning vanillas in to swingers and they don’t even know anything. We love to have fun.
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